americanharley said:
I'm not going to type an intellectual paragraph on differences and feelings like some of my fellow members, but IMO if this is what your into, you will not receive any harsh comments, neg. attitude or any feelings of dislike from me. To each their own, and I feel that what you enjoy, as long as its pleasurable/enjoyable to you and doesn't hurt anyone else, then don't feel the pressure of others to change.:thumbsup:
Great post. I agree 100%.
I admire this person whom started this thread very much for typing what he typed. But Nightfly is right, you will get a lot of flack on boards like this for that. ANd you should be prepared for that.
When I was dating a very attractive (to me anyways), very open sexually, woman a while back. She asked if I would consider letting a guy go down on me - she got turned on by two guys. I jokingly said I will only if she would do it with another woman. And she readily agreed. So then I had to rethink whether I actually would or not. I decided I probably would not.
Since then I have been a crack addict and seen ALL kinds of things. I never participated or was aroused by what I saw. But I saw. And now I could probably answer yes - but only if it was turning on my woman big time. And only if she had already been with a woman for my viewing pleasure. And my woman and I were VERY tight. But I think I could. I wouldn't want to make a habit of it. In fact I think that once per lifetime would be enough. But I would do it under those circumstances.
Now going down on a guy? Maybe. But this would have to be for ONE HECK OF A WOMAN. I am not sure.
But even after having typed all that. I really don't wish to go down on another man because of curiosity. So I would suggest to the person whom started this thread that he is either one of two things:
a) Has had ALOT of sex and is starting to get bored (many rock stars that have done everything with every type of woman imaginable apparently have gotten bored and tried bisexual for the heck of it in the past).
or b) is maybe a tad more bisexual then he wished to admit or wants to believe.
Nothing wrong with either. And bisexual does not mean gay. And bisexual could be just a phase. And even if it is not a phase I think that there is NOTHING AT ALL wrong with it. But I just think it may be something to consider.