Cumming during Lapdances

It's happened to me twice, cumming during a lapdance at a gentleman's club. The first time wasn't intentional, it just kinda happened. She was a real good Alexis Love lookalike. I started to orgasm, she started to slow for a second, and since my face started to squint, she realized, and she sped up her humping faster and she oviously seemed to be trying to help me out, lol. I gave her extra when paying, she smiled about it going, "You gonna be okay drive home?" I wasn't drunk, just....in that afterglow effect.

The next time I'd gone to the same club was a while later, and this time I intended to want to cum again like I did. I had my eye on this girl that had a face and buxom bod very similar to Ashylnn Brooke, but with gorgeous blue eyes. Through the dances with her, I seemed to be mediating, like I was putting my mind in my hard-on. I felt it build, and then it happened while she waas riding me face forward. I was desperately trying to hide my reaction, but no matter what, she then looked at me with concern thinking I was in pain, that I look like I was, because I flinched in pain earlier from my positioning of my hip bone. I said I was fine, but my look of guilt, and feelign fo being caught gave me away and she asked if I came. I knodded out of shame, "yes" and said, "Sorry I didn't mean for that to happen" (but that was a big fucking lie, lol.) She was fine and sweet about it, she just sat up and was sincere, "It's okay, I just don't wanna sit in it." She actually would not have felt it if she did keep sitting. My cock was aimed off to my side in my jeans, so my load hit in my left pocket. She was very understanding and kind about it. Thoe I couldn't help but really feel guilty about it.

But having heard from another guy who'd been doing it a lot, it became like a masturbation hobbie for him.

So I ask you guys, "Are strippers personally TRYING to make you cum?" Do they not want you to? IS it okay to ask them if it's okay to cum during the lapdance or 3rd, if you feel that you might cum just in case? OR laugh to them in a flirtatious way asking, "Are you TRYING to make me burst."

Cause I'm feeling an urge, to want to go back there again to do it again.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
So I ask you guys, "Are strippers personally TRYING to make you cum?"


Is this a serious question? I certainly hope it's not.

They're fucking strippers dude. They dance around in front of you with no clothes on for fuck's sake. Their job is to make you get a raging hard-on so you get lost in your horny state of arousal and toss them wads of cash. If you cum, you cum...more money for them!!!

Of course they want you to cum, because if you do, you're more than likely to give them a bigger tip.
 
But how else do they expect you to cum thoe? Just because this girl didn't want to sit in my jiz which had me confused. The only way to cum is by rubbing it out, only if it's her grinding me, or me rubbing it off with my own hands while my pants are still covered over it. Would pocket pool be allowed, :rofl:
 
they usually frown on guys spanking it in the club, at least on the floor. In the VIP room, it just depends on your tip.
 
quality dancers don't want you to come. If you do that, you leave. If you don't, You Might stay and spend more. And the clubs DEFINITELY don't want you ejaculating. They gain nothing from it.

Also, many dancers don't wanna feel like hookers. If you get a few dances, cum and leave; it makes many feel like hookers (though many dancers don't care, but they are usually the lower end ones).

I like anomaly's advice. But short of that I would take precautions before you get a lapdance in case you do ejaculate. And keep it to yourself; no need to tell her. Just give her a smile, a thank you and a tip. She'll know.
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
quality dancers don't want you to come. If you do that, you leave. If you don't, You Might stay and spend more. And the clubs DEFINITELY don't want you ejaculating. They gain nothing from it.

yep. if u bust a fat one, youre gonna leave. you leaving means youre not stuffing money in their undies, buying drinks, etc. im sure there are exceptions to it, but ima have to say nah.
 
it's called premature ejaculation. enjoy it while you can because you will soon have erectile dysfunction. I think guys have about 6 weeks of perfect timing when it comes to sex.
 
Cumming in your pants in a gentlemens club is not very "G". Kinda makes you look like a sad, no pussy gettin' punk. No offense.
 
There but for the grace of God go I. This thread makes me ashamed to be a man, not to mention giving me the heebie-jeebies!
 
premature ejaculation (which this may be classified as) is not really a good thing, most lap dances are 1 song. Unless well it makes you happy
 
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