Alright, the way it usually works in strip clubs is the super hot girls will work you just about til you cum, then slow down, doing this over and over and over again. Now, the girls that look "nice" and have a cool attitude will typically grind against you hard enough to cum. One girl I get dances from regularly will actually ask me after I've gotten a couple dances from her "you wanna cum?" while she is giving me the dance. If i say yes and nod my head she will start working and grinding a very specific way, that usually leads to me getting off in my pants. She will actually finish that dance, and offer more, then again maybe I'm the exception because I can cum at a strip club, stay hard and get another dance. If you want to get a girl at a strip club to make you cum first off don't go to the best biggest clubs, or even the biggest ghetto ass clubs. Go to clubs that don't get much business, but that are clean. Target the girls who aren't getting tips on stage so much, and start tipping them HARDCORE, then start buying dances from them. The girl I get dances from usually asks me during the first dance she gives me if I want to cum, but usually pretend I didn't hear her, then the second dance I get from her I'll usually say yes, let her get me off, and let her finish the song. Another club I went to the girls actually would try to make you cum, and were totally cool if you left with your pants soaked with...well you know, as long as you kept paying for dances. Another trick is go during the day, the girls working at night are typically the hotter more selective girls, and they may not even give dances out side the VIP, while day shift girls tend to be friendly, outgoing, and willing to help you get off.