Okay, I'm a little embarrassed, but I'm having a bit of trouble controlling my erection. Please bear with me...I have a hot girlfriend and I'm extremely attracted to her, but everytime we make out, or when she sits on my lap, anything remotely intimate... I could feel blood pumping down there. Am I just horny all the time? =[ I live in LA and its hot as hell and I have to throw away my basketball shorts and stick with heavy jeans so they'd keep my thing down. I'm scared she'll feel it one of these days...it'll kill me. Anyone have such experiences? Help me!!
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I don't believe there's anything you can do about it. Maybe she will feel flattered?
You could always try thinking of your grandma naked...if that doesn't help you then you need serious help...
You could always try thinking of your grandma naked...if that doesn't help you then you need serious help...
Personally I think she will find it a sign of affection. So really see no problem in her direction. The embrassment when your out in public could be the problem though.
It all comes down to been mental thing in the end. Try thinking of other things that you don't find attractive when you feel it starting. I believe this is a trick some male pornstars use to prolong there performance.
It all comes down to been mental thing in the end. Try thinking of other things that you don't find attractive when you feel it starting. I believe this is a trick some male pornstars use to prolong there performance.
slowhand
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ooop's I miss understood your post.
I think its not that big of deal it's your girlfriend I don't think you have anything to worry about. I would just tell her straight up about it I'm sure she would understand.
You should wear a codpiece.
rebeccalover707
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You shouldn't feel ashamed of that - it just means you're healthy and that you REALLY love your girlfriend. Don't be embarrassed - embrace your hardness. 
member006
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Personally I have never had that problem, so I don't find it hard to control at all. I do however have this "drooling" thing I can't control when I see tunsty or juballs avatars. We all have our demons I guess. :dunno:
Seriously though, no need to feel embarrassed at all it happens to most men. I think with age comes less sensitivity. It will all balance out for awhile. Then before you know it you'll be glad if someone just pats it and wishes it well. Its the circle of "sex" life.
LL
Seriously though, no need to feel embarrassed at all it happens to most men. I think with age comes less sensitivity. It will all balance out for awhile. Then before you know it you'll be glad if someone just pats it and wishes it well. Its the circle of "sex" life.
LL
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the same thing used to happen to me. when i was 13. all better now. :thumbsup:
Then before you know it you'll be glad if someone just pats it and wishes it well. Its the circle of "sex" life.
LL
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How true LL, how true
Yes, a boner is the first sign of being in love.
I don't see any problem with that!
dave_rhino
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I wouldn't look too much into it.
First girlfriend you've been sexually active with? Not been with her for long?
I might be wrong, but just seems obvious.
If she does one day realise you've got an erection, she probably won't be pissed off, she will like it.
Unless your both 10 and she might get wierded out. You're not 10, are you?...
First girlfriend you've been sexually active with? Not been with her for long?
I might be wrong, but just seems obvious.
If she does one day realise you've got an erection, she probably won't be pissed off, she will like it.
Unless your both 10 and she might get wierded out. You're not 10, are you?...
Even if you are ten, which you probably are, a boner can be a solution to, and cause of, all of lifes problems. (Along with alcohol, of course)
thats kind of what i was thinking.
and no offense to the thread starter, but what should it matter. if you're making out with a chick and you get hard, who cares? and why would you be worried she feels it? if she does, she should take it as a compliment and understand that its only natural.
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You've also given yourself a bigger second problem that no one else has seen. :wtf:
You're scared that she'll touch it? :dunno: (Ok, maybe you're scared that she'll see you've got wood. But, I can't imagine any girlfriend I've ever had getting angry, in fact, the opposite, a compliment!)
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