Ok, I'm going to express my opinion after all. If you're going to lower my rep, then so be it. But before I say anything, let me say that I have nothing against homosexuals whatsoever and I highly respect them. They're human beings just like you and I. The only difference is their sexual preference. Nothing wrong with that.
However, gay marriage is mistake IMHO and I'll tell you why....
Two guys and two girls can fall in love and be together. I don't have a problem with that. But we have come to a point where it has redefined the meaning of marriage. According to the dictionary, the meaning of marriage is "the social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc."
We have now taken the true meaning of marriage and corrupted it. Again, this has nothing to do with being for or against homosexuals. It is the fact that we're changing what marriage is all about. What if a man and two women love each other. Why not allow 3 people to get married now?? You see what I'm getting at? We're changing the whole meaning of marriage.
Also, this could have an effect on children. Since two homosexuals have gotten married, they'll want to adopt and have a kid. It'll either have two dads or two moms. While I'm sure many of these gay couples are going to love their children dearly, it will still have an effect because the child will not have a mother figure or a father figure. My dad past away when I was 1 year old and my mom was forced to raise me all by herself. She loved me very much and she did everything she could to bring me up properly. I couldn't imagine having a better mother. But til this day, I feel the affect of not having that father figure. No matter how much love my mother gave me, I still cannot help but feel the lack of a father figure.
Also, since some religions like the Catholics are not going to favor this, many gay couples who are Catholics are going to pressure or protest against the Catholic church to allow it so they can have a Catholic wedding. Getting married legally may not be enough for them. They'll want to be married in their religion, so the Catholic Church is going to be attacked for their belief.
Again, this is just my opinion and I hope I didn't offend anyone. If you can prove me wrong, please feel free to speak up and let me know. I could very well be jumping to conclusions. While I have a great deal of respect of homosexuals, I just can't help but foresee gay marriage as a bad idea. Again, two homosexuals can fall in love, live together and commit to each other if they like. I have nothing against that. It's the redefinition of "marriage" that I don't care for.