Christianity... Is It Worth Putting Up With For A Girl?

Elwood70

Torn & Frayed.
Aside - Pagan Hitler REALLY had his shit together. :yesyes: :p
Yeah,like one bad Pagan is going to discredit the entire thing.....:rolleyes:
 
Don't go into it.

If she wanna be with you, she can't ask you to change who you are.
She gotta take the whole package. Or nothing.
Final
 
Simple answer, don't take it any further. If this is a make or break for her then sorry it's not going to work. If you have no faith becoming religious for the sake of a women is a mistake &, even though I am an atheist, I would see it as disrespectful to the faith. You are only going to church & praying etc because you want to get into some birds knickers.

If you can genuinely look at yourself & say, yes I believe in god but just am not into the whole church thing, then maybe you can find a faith this way. But to become a Christian because you have been prompted by your cock alone is a no no as far as I'm concerned. . .

She has been honest with you. Just be honest with her & yourself. If that means there is no hope of a relationship with her, then so be it.

I couldn't have said it better myself. :bowdown:

Like I said, nothing is set in stone, I'm just doing a little research on the matter based on what I've heard about dating Christian women. Bottom line is we've known each other for 15+ years and she knows me well enough to know how far she can go to try and "turn me", so to speak. Theres been conversations about it over the years and theres been numerous times where I have made fun of her over it and she never took it personal.

So does she know that you're an atheist? Is she a true Christian or is she just one of those types that says she's Christian to follow the crowd? There's a big difference there.

My girlfriend used to be a Christian (she was Catholic) but she never practiced her beliefs and neither did her family (and now she and her whole family are Atheists). Many religious women can snap out of the religious brainwashing that happened while others do not. On occasion you do get people who were once born morons (I mean Christians, my bad) but they snap out of it, how that happens varies but the most common was that they realised they were being taken advantage of. My advice will be to try her out, take her out on a date, who knows? Maybe you will find out she is a very different person and that she may be intolerant to your beliefs and social views whatever they are.

I don't understand what all this talk of brainwashing is all the time. I have had a sense of God ever since I can remember. Actually, my parents weren't exactly the most religious type. I didn't step foot in a church until I was about 10. The time after that I was about 17. My parents didn't read the Bible to me, nor force me to memorize passages. Yet, I've always had a sense that there is a greater power and that everything will turn out alright no matter what. It sometimes baffles my mind that others don't feel this way (or perhaps just don't want to accept it). :dunno:

Run away from her! Your life will be miserable. Rampant Christians are the most hypocritical people on the planet, next to politicians.

Any woman that says "my man needs to fear god" or some bullshit like that is a woman who has a lot of growing up to do.

Seek your companionship elsewhere :thumbsup:

Hold your horses...we don't even know how big of a Christian this girl is. If Alex is making fun of her beliefs and she laughs it off AND is considering a relationship with him she's probably not that big of a believer.

But, I'm a Christian.....so tell me, just how big of a hypocrite am I??? :wave2:
 

JayJohn85

Banned
Though I usually cringe when people put there personal lives on here, I'm gonna reach in a little and ask some advice.
Long story short, been in love with a girl (bosses daughter! *gulp!*) for a loooong time, we've been friends, I finally broke it down to her today and she seemed a little interested.
Only bomb she dropped was that she was into Christianity (which I knew) and that she needed a man who was into the same things as her and wanted to get right with god first before getting back into a relationship (shes divorced 2 years).

I've heard horror stories about dealing with Christians and that it was usually THEIR way or no way...I've been in love with this chick for years and I've made up my mind to do whatever it takes........I'm about as holy as Swiss Cheese and go to church for weddings and funerals only!

I'd ask Will E. but hes not available lately!
:dunno:

Lad just go for it, Half of them are pretenders anyway.

Conformity= Pussy

Non-Conformity=Hand,Video Games, Sticky trousers, Beard, Che Guevarra T-Shirt and BLUE BALLS!
 

Vlad The Impaler

Power Slave
God I hate this fuckin thread. But I can't help myself. Not believing in something more powerful than oneself is both ignorant & arrogant and unfortunately typicaly human. Did we build the Universe for Christ sake? Did we have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system that that we live in? Breathing is nothing short of a miracle.
 

roronoa3000

Banned
God I hate this fuckin thread. But I can't help myself. Not believing in something more powerful than oneself is both ignorant & arrogant and unfortunately typicaly human. Did we build the Universe for Christ sake? Did we have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system that that we live in? Breathing is nothing short of a miracle.

Silly ....um...I am lost. I don't know what you are.

It is common knowledge among the educated that the universe was created when Chuck Norris jizzed at the thought of fight himself. We are all his children.
 

Vlad The Impaler

Power Slave
Silly ....um...I am lost. I don't know what you are.

It is common knowledge among the educated that the universe was created when Chuck Norris jizzed at the thought of fight himself. We are all his children.

What are you talking about dude? That made no sense. If you were goin for funny I missed that too. If you got a question just ask. I'm no fuckin bible thumper I don't believe a word in it. All I'm sayin is we are not the best there is and it should be obvious but most people can't see past their own selfish wants. Not needs, wants. They just don't care about anything but themselves. And no one can change my mind about that.
 

JayJohn85

Banned
What are you talking about dude? That made no sense. If you were goin for funny I missed that too. If you got a question just ask. I'm no fuckin bible thumper I don't believe a word in it. All I'm sayin is we are not the best there is and it should be obvious but most people can't see past their own selfish wants. Not needs, wants. They just don't care about anything but themselves. And no one can change my mind about that.

Man I am lost in your emo rage trying to find some tangible point. Like a needle in a hay stack!

The universe created itself lad it was a natural event spurned on by forces we are only beginning to understand, Nay we have only even discovered existed. There was no bearded omnipotent guy doing some knitting.

As for conforming and getting with the programme you can at least say that religion generally the positive aspects of the main ones anyway are essential in the promotion of a good value system which is kinda important when you and the missus decide to reproduce.

PS> It would be my hope that when they where older they would smell the bullshit or maybe even pick whatever philosophy/religion appealed to them(when they want to conform that is lulz)
 

alexpnz

Lord Dipstick
God I hate this fuckin thread. But I can't help myself. Not believing in something more powerful than oneself is both ignorant & arrogant and unfortunately typicaly human. Did we build the Universe for Christ sake? Did we have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system that that we live in? Breathing is nothing short of a miracle.
....then kick rocks dude! :dunno:

I'm taking in ALL the great info. on the topic!:hatsoff:
 
God I hate this fuckin thread. But I can't help myself. Not believing in something more powerful than oneself is both ignorant & arrogant and unfortunately typicaly human. Did we build the Universe for Christ sake? Did we have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system that that we live in? Breathing is nothing short of a miracle.
What? No we didn't build the universe or have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system, but that doesn't mean there is some kind of more powerful being that did, & breathing is not nothing short of a miracle.
 

roronoa3000

Banned
What are you talking about dude? That made no sense. If you were goin for funny I missed that too. If you got a question just ask. I'm no fuckin bible thumper I don't believe a word in it. All I'm sayin is we are not the best there is and it should be obvious but most people can't see past their own selfish wants. Not needs, wants. They just don't care about anything but themselves. And no one can change my mind about that.

I just wanted to talk about Chuck Norris asshole.
 

Vlad The Impaler

Power Slave
What? No we didn't build the universe or have anything to do with creating this perfect solar system, but that doesn't mean there is some kind of more powerful being that did, & breathing is not nothing short of a miracle.

Then what is it a privilege?
 

roronoa3000

Banned
If you got a question just ask. I'm no fuckin bible thumper I don't believe a word in it.

If I have a question I will ask Google, Wikipedia or my mother, not your hippy ass.

Don't believe a word of the Bible?
I believe in what Jesus said and he once said "Fuck you."
 
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