Howie,
I think in order to really give you an answer you need to provide us with key information such as
What is Your end game goalhere?
Essentially, what do you want out of any potential relationship with her? Is it Basic slam-bam thank you Mam style Sex, or a prolonged intimate loving relationship.
It sounds like she was attracted to you and obviously she caught your eye as well. Hey, to hell with her motives for now, unless you find out she is demented or a serial killer of men. Just kidding!
For now, assuming she shows continued interest in you, tell her that you like her and would like to see her, but also tell her that you are not available for any long-term relationships for the time being. She will most probably want you even more in that people (including women) crave what they can't have.
Also if this turns out to be short-term where you get some good sex from her, but really know there is not going to be a long term type relationship you can always fall back on your disclosure to her about not being available to her long-term.
Personal Example:
When I met my 2nd & current Wife she treated me like shit initially but I gradually won her over. We dated for about a year and did openly date others. She was coming off a divorce. We were both shy of anything long-term and I turned the tables on her and played a strategy of hard to get.
I know this is going to sound shallow on my part, but here is the deal.
My Wife was simply drop dead gorgeous. She had a stunning face Tall, long legs and magnificent huge tits and really aggressive sexually. She is a 38DD-40DD.
I was always a big tit man. I dated several big-titters on short term basis, but did not marry one first time around. When I was going through divorce I vowed my next wife would have to meet my needs in all respects and desires.
We started to get more serious about our relationship but I had some concerns that she and I might not be compatible or viable long term. I was going to have to make a decision soon as she and I were now talking marriage.
I finally decided to marry her. I told myself you met the women of your dreams in that she had the whole deal, i.e. Well paying Professional Career Job, intelligence, humor and she could have just about any guy based upon looks alone.
Based upon this. I never told her this but I decided to take a chance on her in spite of some reservations. Hey, if things don't work out I at least got to fuck this beautiful creature on a regular basis
I am happy to say things have worked out and I am lucky to have her.
Sometimes wanting certain things out of a relationship, even money is not such a bad thing if you get something else in the deal as well.
I took a chance on 40 DD Tits and fortunately got lots more in the bargain as well.
My bottom line is this, If you like this Girl go for it and see what happens.
Most anything in life is a risk, so don't get yourself caught up in the Paralysis over analysis rut.
Better to try and fail than to never to try at all.
Good Luck!
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I met this girl at the gym- we're hitting it off at the gym fairly well- but I'm 12 years her senior - and I also do not have that great of a job (telemarketing)- I told her what I do- and it didn't seem like she was not impressed - I don't own a house or anything, I'm not materialistic- I don't own any gadgets (Blackberry, laptop, I phone). She's pretty hot though. It's not like I'm a bum or anything. I work- I'm just not the career person that has a "real" job (no company car, suits, or laptops) - I value time more than money, to be honest -we have a lot in common though- she actually came up to me. But young chicks want money/stability- I have a lot of love to give believe me, but not a lot of "jack" ..How do I read this chick.. go for it- or is she a head game playuh and just let her go?? Am I over-thinking here?