Yes, I'm very laid back and down to earth but I'm also somewhat dominating, which I find clashes with most guys basic instincts. I NEED to "wear the pants" in my relationships, and I'm almost too honest in relationships (ie. if you look like shit, I'll tell you. If you act like a dumbass, I'll tell you.) ...every guy I've been with hated that side to my personality. I'm a bit controlling too...like not abusive controlling, but I like things done a certain way in my house...I expect certain things and most guys see that as controlling I guess, but I see it as just demanding respect. I dunno. I just suck. haha. When I was younger, I tried to change who I was to try to make things work but as I got older, and especially in my last relationship, I realized I kinda have to embrace who I am and be authentic otherwise I"ll NEVER find a guy who I can mesh with. So...yeah. I think I have alot of really great qualities, but my negative qualities are just really hard to deal with, so I'm not optimistic that any guy can handle me. I just have a dominating personality...never submissive in any area. My dad always warned the guys I brought home to go the other way because I was a bitch lol.
