Ask me (SpexyAshleigh) any question you want!

[alexpnz]

Hey Ash!
Wanted to ask ya....whats the meaning (if any) behind the tatoo? :dunno:

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

How many kids will we....er...I mean you have?

hehe I probably won't be having any I've chosen to not have my own kids...I'm pro adoption. I hope to adopt when I'm in my early thirties. Too many children out there who need a mommy to love them and I want to be that mommy...no need for me to add to the worlds already over-populated population.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Do you want to trade picture with me? and what is a good penis size for you?

My ideal cock size is 4-6inches. Average is best. My pussy is tight so anything bigger than that tends to be painful, and not in a good way. lol.

And you can find pics of me on my blog, I usually post some on there every so often

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Why do guys wake up with morning wood?

Because God could use a bit of humor in the morning, so he placed morning boners there in the hopes that one of you dudes will piss on your face.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

How do you get to Atlantis?

Atlantis doesn't exist silly! But I can tell ya how to get to Atlanta!

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Hey Ash!
Wanted to ask ya....whats the meaning (if any) behind the tatoo? :dunno:

Lots of meaning behind this tattoo. Kind of a long story....a long depressing story but if you want to hear it, I'm happy to share.

 

[alexpnz]

Lots of meaning behind this tattoo. Kind of a long story....a long depressing story but if you want to hear it, I'm happy to share.

It's a 100 degrees here in Jersey and I got the A/C cranking, not doing shit......so, lets hear it!

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

It's a 100 degrees here in Jersey and I got the A/C cranking, not doing shit......so, lets hear it!

ok!

When I was 21 and was with that douchey ex mentioned in this thread, I got a butterfly tramp stamp for him because he thought they were hot. Big mistake. The relationship ended turning really crappy after we moved in together in a new city, I had moved four hours away to be with him...another big mistake lol. Anyways, he was horrible to me, won't get into the details but I finally ended things in January of 2006. In March of 2006, he ended up following me in my apartment building and assaulted me, put me in the hospital etc...luckily we had witnesses who called the police and he was arrested and charged. He fought the charges though, saying that I was insane and had "hurt myself" (yep, I felt like being a crazy bitch and bashing my own face off a washing machine ) and kept trying to get off on the charges. He delayed the court battle for months, and it took a full year to finally get to the court hearing, where he was obviously convicted, because there were witnesses who saw the whole thing, and the judge caught him in four lies while he was on the stand (yeah lol) so anyways...that whole process and whole year of hell really made me grow a lot...like, A LOT...and during that time I had met someone great, fell in love and he helped me to move on. I wanted to get rid of the tattoo that I had gotten for my ex...I was going to get it lasered off, but then thought that I could just add on to it. So I had the tattoo artist change the butterfly entirely, colors and shape etc...so its not the same thing, and had him draw vines with flowers, to kind of represent the growth period I had and to represent how much I learned about myself during that time. I have the new, bigger, more vibrant butterfly on my ribcage to signify how I'm doing now...kind of the end result of all that growth, if that all makes sense.

 

[alexpnz]

ok!

When I was 21 and was with that douchey ex mentioned in this thread, I got a butterfly tramp stamp for him because he thought they were hot. Big mistake. The relationship ended turning really crappy after we moved in together in a new city, I had moved four hours away to be with him...another big mistake lol. Anyways, he was horrible to me, won't get into the details but I finally ended things in January of 2006. In March of 2006, he ended up following me in my apartment building and assaulted me, put me in the hospital etc...luckily we had witnesses who called the police and he was arrested and charged. He fought the charges though, saying that I was insane and had "hurt myself" (yep, I felt like being a crazy bitch and bashing my own face off a washing machine ) and kept trying to get off on the charges. He delayed the court battle for months, and it took a full year to finally get to the court hearing, where he was obviously convicted, because there were witnesses who saw the whole thing, and the judge caught him in four lies while he was on the stand (yeah lol) so anyways...that whole process and whole year of hell really made me grow a lot...like, A LOT...and during that time I had met someone great, fell in love and he helped me to move on. I wanted to get rid of the tattoo that I had gotten for my ex...I was going to get it lasered off, but then thought that I could just add on to it. So I had the tattoo artist change the butterfly entirely, colors and shape etc...so its not the same thing, and had him draw vines with flowers, to kind of represent the growth period I had and to represent how much I learned about myself during that time. I have the new, bigger, more vibrant butterfly on my ribcage to signify how I'm doing now...kind of the end result of all that growth, if that all makes sense.

:eek:
1) Sorry for making you re-hash that!
2) Thanx for sharing
3) Always pisses me off to hear about scumbags put their hands on chicks that I would do whatever it took to make happy! :wave2:

Have a great day!!

 

[Lucky7000]

Wow. It's sad that you had to go through that but I'm glad it has made you stronger, too many people are lost and haven't "grown up" yet. You are a powerful woman and you should be proud of yourself.

That might sound strange from some random person you don't know that only occasionally posts in the thread... but do you not feel any qualms sharing these things with people you don't know? I guess it doesn't matter since you're still more or less anonymous.

On a lighter note - I'm going to a diner tonight with some friends, what should I order? :O

 

[Shifty]

Ashleigh, do you know Frankie?



He's from your neck of the woods.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Wow. It's sad that you had to go through that but I'm glad it has made you stronger, too many people are lost and haven't "grown up" yet. You are a powerful woman and you should be proud of yourself.

That might sound strange from some random person you don't know that only occasionally posts in the thread... but do you not feel any qualms sharing these things with people you don't know? I guess it doesn't matter since you're still more or less anonymous.

On a lighter note - I'm going to a diner tonight with some friends, what should I order? :O

Thanks babe. And no, I have no problem sharing stuff like that with people in the internet. If I had any shame about the situation, or felt embarassed, maybe I would, but seeing as none of it was my fault, and I can accept that now...nope, don't really mind sharing. People should be able to talk about this stuff. It helps them heal, and its always good to have dialogue about things that should never happen. Back in the day, women who were abused weren't supposed to talk about it, and I think it only repressed them.

It was a situation that sucked more than I can express, but also helped shape me into who I am today, so I have no regrets.

And as for dinner....what kind of restaurant are you going to?

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

Ashleigh, do you know Frankie?



He's from your neck of the woods.

never met Frankie but man someone should give him a job at CNN! He's intense!

 

[titsrock]

So, the douchey ex was the same clown that you left all the premature ejac stuff around the pad?

Please tell us that the douchey ex is serving a nickel or a dime's worth of time up in some remote jail someplace?????

I can personally attest that the tatts and the entire ~Spexy~ bod look damn hot...:rubbel:

 

[alexpnz]

So, the douchey ex was the same clown that you left all the premature ejac stuff around the pad?

Please tell us that the douchey ex is serving a nickel or a dime's worth of time up in some remote jail someplace?????

I can personally attest that the tatts and the entire ~Spexy~ bod look damn hot...:rubbel:

Please! no ~~around Spexy's name!:nono:
Reminds me of another "cat loving member" on here that quite frankly, ruins the mood in this glorious thread!

 

[titsrock]

^
I thought chicks dig the ~ :dunno:

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

So, the douchey ex was the same clown that you left all the premature ejac stuff around the pad?

Please tell us that the douchey ex is serving a nickel or a dime's worth of time up in some remote jail someplace?????

I can personally attest that the tatts and the entire ~Spexy~ bod look damn hot...:rubbel:

No, he didn't get jail. Restraining order is still in effect, he got two years probation and had to go to anger management classes. Slap on the wrist, as per usual.

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

and whats wrong with ~~~~ ??? They're kinda purdy.

 

[titsrock]

^
Well if this asshole ever resurfaces you could assemble an army of supporters to show up and administer an epic beatdown.


(we're much better looking than these guys but you get the idea, eh? )

 

[juan_s]

Yes, I asked him plenty of times but he viewed oral sex as "foreplay" and not a way for me to orgasm. He'd go down for maybe two minutes and then complain that he was "tired" and wanted to get on with it. Lazy ass motherfucker.

I guess you had to use toys so you could cum...dont you?