How many and which languages do you speak?
I speak English (durr) and Spanish. No hablo español tan bien como cuando estaba en universidad, pero escríbelo bien.
Are you a gamer?
Not really. I play random time-killers on my iPhone when I'm at the airport and stuff, but I don't own any gaming systems. I wouldn't really have time to play if I DID own an xbox or whatever. Or, I would neglect to do things like this (paying attention to my fans) and fuck around on my xbox too much. So I'm better off not gaming, lol. But people who have Rock Band learn to watch out for me, because I'll totally use them for their video game... :stir::stir::stir: Hehehe.
Does it matter to you if a guy is uncircumcised? do you have a preference?
Doesn't matter. Somehow I ended up with this odd statistic that the first 5 guys I ever fucked were all uncircumcised, so to me it was actually the norm for a portion of my life.
So a guy is out in public and sees you and obviously likes what he sees. He comes over to you to talk. You are single and unattached. What are some things the guy should and shouldn't do to try and get you to go on a date with him..........and then on the date what things should he do and not do to impress you and increase his chances of a 2nd date............along those lines: Sex on a 1st Date? Ever done it? Is it something you condone or depends on the situation?
Disclaimer: I'm sure you know I'm actually married, so my answers below are not an actual instruction manual for what to do if one were to meet me in person or see me at a bar. Please do not take this as an invitation to stalk me.
To get a first date with me: Be yourself and be honest. I would like to be able to have an actual conversation, so hopefully we have some things in common. If we literally have nothing in common I will likely just excuse myself from the conversation, because it would be a waste of time anyway!
To get a second date with me: continue doing the things mentioned above. Some girls expect guys to play "the game" and that's a great skill to learn, if you want to bag that type of girl (and IMHO, the kind of girl who expects you to play a game and act fake is most likely fake herself). I'm pretty well educated in the nature/psychology of communication (that's my degree) so I can tell when a guy's just saying shit to get into my pants. Depending on how cute and charming you are about it, I might just disregard your blatant playing of the game and fuck you anyway, or I might tell you that you really need to stop being so "strategic" about what you say in the hope of getting into my pants, otherwise you will not find yourself in my pants, ever.
I separate sex from relationships. When I was in college and single I had lots of one night stands, and zero long term relationships with men. So I have no "rule" about fucking on the first date. My husband and I met on the internet and had sex within a few hours of meeting in person, only a few days after our online meeting. Booyah!
What is too hot for you?? In Scotland it's been in the late 20's (Celsuis) for the past week,and I'm sick of it already.I mean it's good when you're on holiday and lazying around,but having to work in this heat - it's crap.But I guess it comes down to what you're used to right??
Late 20s.... that's like 80 degrees fahrenheit!! LOL
I have to laugh at that.
Growing up in Minnesota I got used to the 85 degree heat and extreme humidity in the summer. Then living in Texas for over 10 years I experienced the 3 months of 95-100 degree dry heat in the summer. I'm pretty well acclimated to both, and my preference only lies in whether or not there is air conditioning. No AC? I'd take the lower heat and high humidity. Plenty of AC? I'd prefer high temps and dry heat in that case. One place I absolutely fucking hate in the summer is NYC. Manhattan in August is the most terrible place on earth.:hairpull:
You and your guy want to spend the night making passionate love for a few hours. Which setting do you want:
A freezing cold January Night with the temps around 20-degree or lower outside but inside the 2 of you are in a warm cabin with a roaring fireplace as your only light
OR
A warm July Night with the Temps around 80-degrees at night with the 2 of you alone in the backyard of a secluded house with a warm pool with the 2 of you skinny dipping and letting the warm air and temperature heat your libido for poolside passion
THE SECOND ONE, hands down. I love snowy winters but for super hot sex, muggy nights and a hot tub can't be beat. The whole fireplace thing is very romantic but if I want to have sex for
hours then I'm looking for a good fucking, not romanticism.
Does it bother you when fans think they are "in love" with you? I created this account just to talk to you. :x
Also, do you get shit in the industry for your "weight"? Most of my friends, and virtually everyone I see online is pretty intolerant of real women. IE; holding out for fake airbrushed model-types. I was so happy to find a real woman like you, but it made me curious how it is for you.
Thanks for the kind words
To answer your questions:
Yes, it does freak me out a bit when fans think they're actually in love with me. I always think to myself, yeah, let me show you some photos of me 15 lbs heavier looking pretty butch in college. Let's see how "in love" with me you are, then. LOL. Most fans who think they're in love with me are really in love with
my performances, and I am more than what I do for a living, just as most of us are. Not only that but there is a (luckily, very small) group of fans who seem to think they're entitled to know every private detail of my life no matter how small, and that's just unkind and disrespectful.
I have not ever gotten "shit" directly for my weight, nor have I ever had a person in a position of power in this industry
tell me to lose weight. However, I do think I have to work harder to get the same amount and quality of work that a girl 20 lbs lighter than me gets much easier, all else being equal (cute face, nice/big tits). It sucks, but there's nothing I can do about it. What I
have been able to do is create a little more visibility for healthy, normal sized girls like me in this industry. I would love to make MORE progress on that, but at some point it's out of my hands, and into the hands of producers. A great example is the company New Sensations, who I have worked for just two times in my nearly two years in the industry. They haven't tried to hire me for
anything except for Big Girls are Sexy #1 and #2, despite that I've continually requested more shoots, or chances to audition for their feature films. Clearly someone in charge must think I'm only a "big girl" and can't attract more of a fan base than the niche market BGAS was meant to target. I think they're wrong, and I'd love to prove it some day.
Siri, my gf and I have been together for a while and we have great sex. There are two things I'd like to do that we haven't-- have a threesome with another girl and and fuck my gf in the ass? Any advice for bringing up the subject of either or both with her?
Bring it up at a time when you're both happy and relaxed and enjoying each other's company. Frame it a way such as: "it would make me really happy if..." Listen to whatever concerns or objections she may have and try to understand them, before going into more detail about why you want these new sexual experiences with her. Depending on your girl's personality type, you will have to decide which topic to bring up first. I wouldn't suggest bringing them up at the same time.
