I'm thinking this is a geographic thing. That's not even been close to my experience. My last girlfriend was black, and she was a little church mouse.
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I'm thinking this is a geographic thing. That's not even been close to my experience. My last girlfriend was black, and she was a little church mouse.
Harley Spencer
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Perhaps. But the black girls in middle of nowhere PA were exactly the same. Carried some real attitudes on them.
I'm not saying that all black women have that type of attitude going on, but most of the ones I've encountered were pretty obnoxious and not afraid to go into, "What? Bitch, oh no you didn't!" mode when they got angry.
ya people by racism understand only white doing stupid things against black ? that's ignorant, racism goes all ways, all the bullshit ignorant people do on race base, so since cant express myself i'd stick with my ironic ****
I wouldn't say anything to the people being rude. Instead I'd turn to the girl and apologize that she had to overhear people that suck.
Hmm, interesting.
I've always been in pretty cosmopolitan areas, so I've met people from a tonne of different cultures and... eh, I've found everyone to be more or less the same. Setting can matter, but I haven't ever seen it effect attitudes, just expression (had a friend who, when hanging out with me would speak perfectly normal, yet when with his black friends would spontaneous grow a Jamaican accent and start speaking in Ebonics... oh, and he was Clorox white, so that was kind of hysterical).
I wonder if this is about cultural expectations. Perhaps they're different in America, and the women you've met have been trying to adhere to certain behaviors that they believe society would expect from them. Like men are expected to be stoic in most societies, so even more sensitive men will tend to repress their emotions in order to "fit in."
Just a thought...
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read it again, if don't understand, read it again, and again....
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Ace Boobtoucher
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I'd nervously laugh while carressing the butt of my ******.
Vanilla Bear
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What race is she? 
I really can't comment on this because 90% of the time I'm the one embarrassing the people I'm with by making racist comments. :o
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That's a toughie. I would have offered her my place inline and had her to start singing "Where have all the cowboys gone"
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GodsEmbryo
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I would just wait patiently until it's my turn to order something, and when I pay my stuff I'd lay down some extra cash to pay for the coffee of the girl behind me. it's just something to tell without words that there might be assholes in the world but there are also nice guys.
It depends in which area of the US and in which type of bar you are. If it is a badly frequented bar where there are a lot of thugs and /or rednecks or bikers, I wouldn't try to play the rough dudes but I would say to them with an assured voice by looking firmly and with insistence in the eyes :"Can you explain me why did you say this remark? I think it was uncalled for, just put at yourself at the person whom you have insulted." If it is a nice bar frequented by good people it would be different, I would have said that:"Who do you think you are sonny to call people like that? Excuse yourself towards the lady and be happy that she didn't punch you in the face. If you don't make excuses I will call the manager or the police to deal with you accordingly."
Besides this I think to have a *** with you in the US is a necessity because you never know on who you will fall even in a bar, you can fall on a former convict or on a fugitive.
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