I think most women like that kind of language during sex, once you've got to know each other well enough to know that you don't really think of her like that outside of sex, or that she thinks of herself as that, as some women are proud to be sluts, but it's that they enjoy sex like we do and not that they're necessarily fucking every guy they bump into. I think they're called "ethical sluts," because they have higher standards than most people think of a slut having for a sexual partner and won't cheat on whoever they're with.
You're welcome, and it's good to know that we both understand that while we do enjoy writing back and forth, real life still has to come first and that it may take some time to respond.