I'm sure you're right, Bri. But basically, the main problem here (since I'm convinced Maleyonetwo didn't mean to offend Harley in any way) is the languague problem. Maley just translated what he wanted to ventilate from German to English, and indeed then it sounds a little (or even more then just a little) offensive. However, if you'd translate his posts back to German, they are not that offensive at all. Or at least, that's the way we would say things like these in Europe. So beside the language problem, there seems to be a cultural problem as well.
I guess Harley and Maley should get in touch by PM and work it out, because I'm sure (although he's a pervert

) he did mean it in a nice way.