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RogueAlan
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Re: the Official Nikki Nova thread
Allright, Nikki et al,
i'm out of a second dark year in five. have a wonderful younger lady interested in me (to my amazement, you can be sure). of course, i'm 20 years out from dating. i have **** (mid teens... boys... high school)... she has **** (younger, girls)...
so far it's amazing, and i find my neighbor was right-- given time i'll see that i'm happier out of a marriage that even one of us didn't want any more. Now, i'm not about to ask 'when should i ask her to marry me?' 'cause i'm not crazy... er not that crazy, BUT...
how long to wait before introducing her to the ****... how long before i'm introduced to her ****?
i read what i hope is total crap about 'ignoring her' for days and 'dating' only once a week. neither is happening or is going to happen. i know better than to mention problems with my ex or push about hers.
i am interested, though, in y'all's opinions regarding when intimacy would be appropriate... and given the season, what would be an appropriate Valentine's gift.
Purely selfish, but there are some ?'s for ya.
Pax all,
RA
Allright, Nikki et al,
i'm out of a second dark year in five. have a wonderful younger lady interested in me (to my amazement, you can be sure). of course, i'm 20 years out from dating. i have **** (mid teens... boys... high school)... she has **** (younger, girls)...
so far it's amazing, and i find my neighbor was right-- given time i'll see that i'm happier out of a marriage that even one of us didn't want any more. Now, i'm not about to ask 'when should i ask her to marry me?' 'cause i'm not crazy... er not that crazy, BUT...
how long to wait before introducing her to the ****... how long before i'm introduced to her ****?
i read what i hope is total crap about 'ignoring her' for days and 'dating' only once a week. neither is happening or is going to happen. i know better than to mention problems with my ex or push about hers.
i am interested, though, in y'all's opinions regarding when intimacy would be appropriate... and given the season, what would be an appropriate Valentine's gift.
Purely selfish, but there are some ?'s for ya.
Pax all,
RA