I'm sure you all know that I have no problem whatsoever with this. I know sexual maturity is on a person by person basis. I know that when I was 9 I wanted to have a deep and emotional relationship with a grown woman, when I was 13 I was seducing women twice my age, when I was 15 I was with women in their 30s and when I was 16, even a couple in their 40s. Now that I'm 25, I've had 17 and 18 yo gfs and people say "they're too young" and I think to myself, yeah right. You know what, there are some 25 year olds too immature for sex, and some very young people mature enough.
The law is the law and I respect it and don't break it, but I certainly damn well don't hold it against those who do. If it's an innocent victim, it's one thing. But teens feel love like all of us. They can make sex illegal for beneath certain ages but thank god they can't control our minds and hearts: teens fall in love like everyone else does.
Protecting children is great. But when 17 year old boys have their names printed in England's "Sun" newspaper as child molesters because their girlfriend was 15 (our legal age is 16) then we have gone too far. Like anything else, it should be a case by case basis. It sucks that girls are so protected but with boys "well it's just boys, you know", as if they're somehow capable of making sexual decisions earlier.
All I know is that when I was HIS age, I had relationships with several women that could have been arrested for their contact with ME, and it was ALL my doing... I seduced them, made love to them, they fell in love with me in several cases. I feel bad for broken hearts in the past, but should they have been arrested because they fell for me? I would lie about my age sometimes, so that was one thing: I was like one of those jailbait girls only a boy version I suppose. I'm not proud of that. But that was the teenage me, why would I lie?
But you know what, some of them did know about it. Were they taking advantage of me? No! Were they weak in their minds? I don't think so, some would say they had to be weak to fall for someone so young but
WE CAN'T HELP WHO WE FALL IN LOVE WITH. Sex is illegal with minors. So be it. That sucked when I was a minor, but it is fair enough now. But love? Thank god the law can't control love. Someone in their 20s and teens falling in love is very very very different from someone in their 50s lusting after an 11 year old boy.
OK, well, I know my opinions on this aren't popular, but we don't understand the human condition one bit imo and we are obsessed with innocence. Then someone turns 18/16/21 and it's like, they're thrown to the wolves and no-one cares anymore. They instantly become legally independent and grown up and completely unprotected. It feels so weird and unnatural to me. I think we as a western culture are obsessed with innocence. It's not like that in France and Italy and Germany and Holland, and they have lower teen pregnancy rates than both the US and Britain which are the "paedophile paranoia" countries.
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The authorities never found out about any of the women that were "abusing" me
A lot of boys don't kiss and tell you know.
