Never ever. How can you even think about this?!
i didn't think about it at all over the first ten or so years of marriage, only later. our marriage is rock steady and neither has cheated. i feel that secure enough that i wouldn't mind if certain other men (a very small select group, about three) had the chance to experience how good my wife is at making a man feel like a man. i have wondered why i feel this way, and am open to suggestions. perhaps i just want to impress other guys, also i truly care that my wife feels good and the few guys i wouldn't mind are all much more well-endowed than i am, and therefore i believe my wife would enjoy it. (she has told me i am the smallest she's ever had). so one theory is altruism. i want her to feel better. but then it's just a theory and i am probably lost in space on this issue.
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