Would You Share Your Wife?

Never ever. How can you even think about this?!

i didn't think about it at all over the first ten or so years of marriage, only later. our marriage is rock steady and neither has cheated. i feel that secure enough that i wouldn't mind if certain other men (a very small select group, about three) had the chance to experience how good my wife is at making a man feel like a man. i have wondered why i feel this way, and am open to suggestions. perhaps i just want to impress other guys, also i truly care that my wife feels good and the few guys i wouldn't mind are all much more well-endowed than i am, and therefore i believe my wife would enjoy it. (she has told me i am the smallest she's ever had). so one theory is altruism. i want her to feel better. but then it's just a theory and i am probably lost in space on this issue.
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i would share my wife with my neighbor, if he shares his wife with me! but that's the only way i would do it!
 
If a husband and wife both agree that sharing is a good idea, then it might be a good idea. But if either of them doesn't want to do it, then it shouldn't happen. Nobody is right or wrong, and there is no sense debating it. I know what I like, and you know what you like, so let's not try to change eachothers minds. Some people might like ketchup on their ice cream, should we tell them they are wrong?
 
I have no clear idea how i see this.

I have never been married and, knowing my values and beleifs, i think i would not share my wife - no FFM, no FMM and neither couple exchanges.

I never had such issue to deal with in real life with the woman i was with. And being with a woman isn't the same thing as being married. I think i would be more open if it was only my girlfriend and not my wife.
 
I have a co-worker who shares his wife with alot of guys.....of course, I don't think he's quite aware of that fact.:dunno::eek:
 
I don't have a wife, but I've had plenty of others.
 
Kind of a sticky situation. Here's my take...

I can no doubt say that sex in porn influences some of the things I want to try. Before I get laughed off of these boards, let me say this. I never thought about trying this until I saw the hot b/b/g scenes Joslyn James was in. And the reason I say Joslyn James is because my girlfriend looks like her. (If you don't believe me then don't, but it's not the point of the story so let's not make a big deal about it)

Anyways, I've often told her that I like watching her work on me so much that my only dissapointment is that I can't step outside my body to watch her in action live. I love to please my partner to the fullest and if this is something she wanted then I'd do it for her in a heartbeat. It could be fun. I'm secure enough with myself to bring another person (preferably a girl but hey) into the bedroom and know that our bond is deeper than sex.

Only problem is I have alot more sexual history than my girlfriend even though she's a couple years older. She differs from me because the only kind of sex she can have is with feeling and emotion. And I love and respect that about her. But who knows? If our relationship goes as far as we both think then maybe it's in the cards in the future when we need an added spark.

whew...done.
 
Wow...nice to see this thread is alive again! Although still most ppl just come here to say how they wouldnt do it or its wrong, while the whole point of this thread is for ppl who like this idea to talk about it...
 

Lacey Black

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I would totally do it.. I think its a really hot experience and even though I am not married I have definitely had open relationships and they can be a lot of fun.. The only time there are ever problems is when men give into their animal instincts and get all over protective and paranoid.. The truth is you can Love someone and have sex with other people.. your heart and body are two different things and loving sex and fun sex aren't the same so if you can separate the two you can have a great time
 

Kil4Thril

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I would totally do it.. I think its a really hot experience and even though I am not married I have definitely had open relationships and they can be a lot of fun.. The only time there are ever problems is when men give into their animal instincts and get all over protective and paranoid.. The truth is you can Love someone and have sex with other people.. your heart and body are two different things and loving sex and fun sex aren't the same so if you can separate the two you can have a great time

While what you say is possibly true, you are right in that the natural protective instinct is still evident in some of us. Whilst not my thing, I won't fault anyone else for doing it. 'Course, I doubt I could find another woman who would put up with my moody ass on a daily basis, so I don't push her.
 
I would totally do it.. I think its a really hot experience and even though I am not married I have definitely had open relationships and they can be a lot of fun.. The only time there are ever problems is when men give into their animal instincts and get all over protective and paranoid.. The truth is you can Love someone and have sex with other people.. your heart and body are two different things and loving sex and fun sex aren't the same so if you can separate the two you can have a great time

While I don't have a problem with what you want to do I have to disagree for me personally. It would never find it alright to have sex with anybody besides the woman I loved. For me it would diminish what love is about.
 
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