I thought I would. I told my ex-girlfriend it would be O.K. if she saw some other guys every now and then. THEN, she told me there was some other guy who wanted her. I nearly went through the roof. It was good for me in one sense I realised I would very likely not hurt a woman no matter how I am provoked.
In another I realised the words I had spoken totally did not agree with my automatic reaction in reality.
Or I could have just said no friggin' way.
Oh, and she can look, even drool. If she drools I just go to the gym more.