Women are not attracted to penis
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"If it bleeds, we can kill it."
Sorry been watching too many Arnold movies of late. I had to quote that as soon as I read the above quoted post.
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Will E Worm
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SpexyAshleigh
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Photos/video/seeing a penis doesn't turn me on in the slightest. Feeling it inside my snatch does.
Oh and I'll second the money thing. A guy who's successful totally gets me going too, such a turn on when a guy has his shiz together.
Oh and I'll second the money thing. A guy who's successful totally gets me going too, such a turn on when a guy has his shiz together.
Will E Worm
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It should be about the person. Forget money. 
That's why there are so many divorces. Money.
If you're worried about money do not get married.
That's why there are so many divorces. Money.
If you're worried about money do not get married.
SpexyAshleigh
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It should be about the person. Forget money.
That's why there are so many divorces. Money.
If you're worried about money do not get married.
Marriage and building a life together REQUIRES money. You can't buy a house, take trips together, have and raise children without money. So why would I date a guy who has a shit job or NO job, just because he has a great personality? Doesn't make sense. Deadbeats are still deadbeats, regardless of how great they are as a person. So- guys who have their shit together and are motivated to provide themselves and their families with an income are sexy- end of story
You guys wouldn't find a woman who has no aspirations sexy either. Who would want to date a prissy princess who feels she doesn't have to work for a living and wants you to pay her way? Its a two way street...people who are lazy or don't care about their financial well being flat out suck.
Marriage and building a life together REQUIRES money. You can't buy a house, take trips together, have and raise children without money. So why would I date a guy who has a shit job or NO job, just because he has a great personality? Doesn't make sense. Deadbeats are still deadbeats, regardless of how great they are as a person. So- guys who have their shit together and are motivated to provide themselves and their families with an income are sexy- end of story
You guys wouldn't find a woman who has no aspirations sexy either. Who would want to date a prissy princess who feels she doesn't have to work for a living and wants you to pay her way? Its a two way street...people who are lazy or don't care about their financial well being flat out suck.
What about people like me who aren't looking for marriage, children or even vacations? I'm just a college guy who wants a relationship. I could care less if a girl was as broke as can be; if I liked her and thought she was attractive (and she felt the same about me), I would date her.
I certainly understand the need to worry about finances and "having shit together" when it comes to building a family. But I'm not 35, I'm 20. And I wish I didn't have to feel as if I needed money, a car and other fancy shit to impress girls.
SpexyAshleigh
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Well no offense - you're 20, so you're not at the stage of life where goals/family are on your list of priorities. So good chance you'll find a girl who has the same ideals when it comes to money...but good luck in five years when you're dating older women who want to settle down and raise a family. Wanting a man who's financially sound isn't about being a gold digger (well, in some cases it is lol), its about being able to rely on someone. When I settle down and have a family, I want a man who can take care of his family, not another dependant. Know what I mean? I mean if you can find a woman who doesn't have goals and dreams that require money, then all the power to ya. But most people do want to move forward in life and achieve and obtain things, experiences, etc...and that stuff requires working hard to pay for it.
and fyi, both genders have things that make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex. Money, career, fit body etc are things that most women find sexy, just like most men seek out women who are physically/sexually attractive, have high morals etc. Alot of it is biology - they say men prefer bigger breasts, and a certain hip to waist ratio because it signals that a woman is more fertile or whatever....in the same respect, women are more attracted to someone with money because it signals that they're able to provide for any offspring (just like back in the caveman days, women would seek out the strongest/most able to provide food).
Sorry for the rambling...I just hate how women get shit on sometimes for preferring that a man has money or a career. I just don't see how its wrong to find that sexy....just like its not wrong for men to find beautiful women sexy. Its not our problem if we don't like couch potatoes lol. :2 cents:
SpexyAshleigh
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moi?
SpexyAshleigh
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clearly none of these women have seen my penis, otherwise they would have a much different outlook on the matter 
I think the reason women get dogged on for liking guys on financial grounds is because it circumvents personality. Love is supposed to be unconditional in a perfect world right? Money is about as conditional as it gets.
It sends the message she'd rather be taken care of then connect with someone. That someone typically being the guy who's nice to women and trying to get noticed but doesn't make the 8 figures to even get looked at. It breeds bitterness.
Also men tire of beauty; it's a big deal for a while but it fades. Why do you see so many women that have been cheated on complaining that he cheated on her with a women that is "less" attractive?
I don't think the desire for money is as temporary for many; it also denotes a desire for something outside of the person themselves. Lust for beauty is at least directed at a person. Lust for the material imo is a little bit more shallow.
clearly none of these women have seen my penis, otherwise they would have a much different outlook on the matter
True, they would be lesbians by now.
I definitely know what you mean. If and when I decide that I want to get married and all, I would view it as my responsibility to provide for the family. It's just that right now, I feel like doing well in school is my priority, and moving forward with goals and dreams is all determined by how well I perform. I just wish the cars and money type stuff wouldn't matter so much at this age.
We actually talked about that biological stuff in class the other day. I feel like people should be honest with what they're attracted to...and I feel like the true reasons people are drawn together are often things you can't really put your finger on.
That pretty much sums up how I feel.
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SpexyAshleigh
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I think its with most women, its not about the material stuff or "cars and money"...its not even about needing to be "taken care of". Most women these days make their own money - I know I sure as hell do, and I don't need a man to take care of me. But in saying that, the men I date need to be able to take care of themselves too, and have a serious career that will take him (and potentially a family if we wound up together) places. Know what I mean? I don't date men hoping they'll spoil the shit out of me, and I don't need to date guys who drive a Bentley. But a guy who has a legit career, who has a savings account for an emergency, is able to take two weeks off every year to go on vacay with me, owns his own car and is financially responsible enough to have a decent credit score ISN'T asking or expecting too much IMO. Its all about being mature and responsible, and having goals and motivation to better himself. Anything less than that just isn't sexy to me, sowwy.
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