I think a lot of it depends on what's acceptable in your environment. Around here there's only one porn shop, 20 minutes away, in the middle of nowhere. I've never seen another woman there besides me. Yet, on the classifieds board, where you can post anonymously, there are a ton of ads for swingers and bi-curious women. My boyfriend works a lot, so he's pretty accepting of me watching porn when he's not around. I don't see anything wrong w/ watching porn, as long as you do it in moderation. There's only a problem if it becomes an addiction, or if you can't achieve an orgasm without it.