A lot of the answers on the "What do think turns girls on the most" thread are borderline fiction. I don't mean that to be disrespectful either.
Sure the "right" thing to say is a woman wants a man who is caring, intelligent, faithful, etc. However, most women find those men BORING. It doesn't matter HOW good looking, intelligent, etc., you are, if you are deemed a bore, you will be DUMPED. For whatever reason, men need to be the entertainment committee so all the pressure is on them for fun and excitement. Women file for the majority of divorces and end the VAST majority of relationships. They crave fantasy, constant romance, etc., and usually fail to be logical or objective about their mate. Hence, the "rash" decision making. I'm not putting them down, it's just basically the way the two sexes think differently.
Certainly there are some women that are absolute angels. I mean, they stand by their man, support him, etc. I know because I've met some. BUT, they are the 1/100 of 1%. It's probably a product of the media and society; everybody's twisted views. It seems the guy is always the one getting dumped on and hurt, at least in most cases, because he cannot PLEASE his woman. At least emotionally. So she searches for an "upgrade" even when the guy IS good looking, smart, good job, etc.
I have dated many women in my lifetime and find that what really keeps a woman's attention--and this is sad--is treating them like crap--a little bit. Not an all out ****** or maniac, but someone who isn't there for them 100% of the time and always gives them a bit to worry about. It's not that I like it or agree with it, in fact it's a fu%^ing pain in the ass! Most men will agree with this. A woman who is too "comfortable" in a relationship will usually end it. So much for logic, I guess. BUT, a woman who has to TRY to keep her man happy and maybe even pursue him will stay interested. Until, he loses his "mystique," that is. Then he's gone. Hence, the high % of divorces and breakups perpetuated by the woman. Facts are facts.
No woman will ever admit to this but they all know what I mean. I'm basing this on 20+ years of dating MANY women.
For those of you who are looking for Ms. Right, don't lose hope on what I've said. You just need to know how to sift through the losers and pretenders and fine someone who is willing to let their guard down a bit. Then, just maybe, the games can stop. Until then, the woman holds all the cards (even where you think she doesn't). If you play the game, know the risks.
Sure the "right" thing to say is a woman wants a man who is caring, intelligent, faithful, etc. However, most women find those men BORING. It doesn't matter HOW good looking, intelligent, etc., you are, if you are deemed a bore, you will be DUMPED. For whatever reason, men need to be the entertainment committee so all the pressure is on them for fun and excitement. Women file for the majority of divorces and end the VAST majority of relationships. They crave fantasy, constant romance, etc., and usually fail to be logical or objective about their mate. Hence, the "rash" decision making. I'm not putting them down, it's just basically the way the two sexes think differently.
Certainly there are some women that are absolute angels. I mean, they stand by their man, support him, etc. I know because I've met some. BUT, they are the 1/100 of 1%. It's probably a product of the media and society; everybody's twisted views. It seems the guy is always the one getting dumped on and hurt, at least in most cases, because he cannot PLEASE his woman. At least emotionally. So she searches for an "upgrade" even when the guy IS good looking, smart, good job, etc.
I have dated many women in my lifetime and find that what really keeps a woman's attention--and this is sad--is treating them like crap--a little bit. Not an all out ****** or maniac, but someone who isn't there for them 100% of the time and always gives them a bit to worry about. It's not that I like it or agree with it, in fact it's a fu%^ing pain in the ass! Most men will agree with this. A woman who is too "comfortable" in a relationship will usually end it. So much for logic, I guess. BUT, a woman who has to TRY to keep her man happy and maybe even pursue him will stay interested. Until, he loses his "mystique," that is. Then he's gone. Hence, the high % of divorces and breakups perpetuated by the woman. Facts are facts.
No woman will ever admit to this but they all know what I mean. I'm basing this on 20+ years of dating MANY women.
For those of you who are looking for Ms. Right, don't lose hope on what I've said. You just need to know how to sift through the losers and pretenders and fine someone who is willing to let their guard down a bit. Then, just maybe, the games can stop. Until then, the woman holds all the cards (even where you think she doesn't). If you play the game, know the risks.
