Why is wanting sex all the time a turn off to my man

[interceptor666]

maybe its just me but the more sex the better. always has been true and always will be. i dont care if its easy to get or not. sex is sex as long as its not gay sex. icky

 

[24788]

It's probably just a phase. You go in and out of them all the time. There's probably nothing to worry about since your both younger.

 

[Big Papi]

One word: anal. If that don't work you may have to strap it on.

 

[Spleen]

I used to get annoyed with my ex sometimes. She'd be so fucking horny at the most inconveinient of times, and I'd just have to tell her to cool the fuck down.

 

[jasonk282]

Maybe stop nagging him for sex:dunno:

 

[redwolf]

Best thing I could of read all night. He does stress quite a bit, working for me and our daughter is hard, and I do contribute to keep him from having to stress so much, I baby him all the time, (he is a needy man) which is just what I like to do, I baby him, take care of him, rub him down after a hard days work, cook, clean, and run my own house cleaning business to contribute to our finances, I would just like it to be my turn. It its just really frustrating to feel like the man I love doesn't want me. We have sat down and talked about it, no fighting or screaming, he seemed to understand, but it still hurts when he turns me down more often then not. I have good tits, a good ass and a good dick sucking mouth, so it just sucks whenever he has told me these things in the past that what I had was such a turn on to him, seems to not work. I feel so worthless whenever I want it all the time and he just wants to be left alone. I'm just glad to know I'm not the only one feeling like this. I know he isn't cheating, and I have never cheated on him, maybe it is a phase, I just wish I didn't want it all the time so I wouldn't feel so unloved every time I do get turned down by him. I'll eventually get a pic up so people can see if it is how I look that no longer gets him going

I think part of the problem is you're doing all the running so he thinks he can do as he wants. Yes, stress can lower a man's libido and there are natural peaks and troughs too (some days I feel I could spend all day doing it, others I hardly think about sex at all). But, you both work, yet you do all the cleaning, house work and help him relax. It's the 21st century, get him to make dinner and give you the rub down! Remind him that you're equal partners, you're with him because you want to be not because you have to be and just because he isn't in the mood, doesn't mean there aren't things he can do to satisfy you once in a while.

That's my opinion any way.