To me at least it seems like there is only so much pleasure that can be achieved by ramming something up your ass. Would you do something that you didn't find pleasant? For some people it is more a “circus act” that is done just to experience something taboo. That and nature really didn't designed it for that purpose. For some people it isn't easy to do.
Why in real life, girls refuse anal intercourse?
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If you want your girlfriend to give up the back door, you have to introduce it slowly into your relationship.
One thing I like to do is during the 69 position with her on top. As I'm giving her oral, I lick my middle finger and place it against her anus and apply a slight pressure... I do NOT penetrate. There is always a slight reflex action by the woman, but since I do not penetrate they don't get scared and they think the sensation feels good. I'll do the same thing during cowgirl.
The key is not to penetrate the first few times you do this. She feels safe with you and likes the sensation. After a while, just like everything else in life, you begin to escalate by making shallow penetration. Each time you have sex, you can go just a little farther. The key is to gain her trust that you wont hurt her, humiliate her or embarass her. Then also make her believe that you are playing with her anus to stimulate her, not yourself. Eventually she'll ask you for anal intercourse, but if she thinks you want it for your pleasure then you can forget it ever happening.
One thing I like to do is during the 69 position with her on top. As I'm giving her oral, I lick my middle finger and place it against her anus and apply a slight pressure... I do NOT penetrate. There is always a slight reflex action by the woman, but since I do not penetrate they don't get scared and they think the sensation feels good. I'll do the same thing during cowgirl.
The key is not to penetrate the first few times you do this. She feels safe with you and likes the sensation. After a while, just like everything else in life, you begin to escalate by making shallow penetration. Each time you have sex, you can go just a little farther. The key is to gain her trust that you wont hurt her, humiliate her or embarass her. Then also make her believe that you are playing with her anus to stimulate her, not yourself. Eventually she'll ask you for anal intercourse, but if she thinks you want it for your pleasure then you can forget it ever happening.
...or you could just talk to her and see what she's comfortable with trying and go from there instead of forcing it on her.....
Listen hot rod. Go get a mold made of your dick then shove it up your ass, and your answer will be waiting for you. Crystal clear. Same goes for swallowing and any other manner of fantasy men seem to never do to themselves but they want to see women get PAID to do in porno. And pardon the hunch but you could just be a bad lay and they aren't interested enough. If all else fails start dating every waitress, stripper, and hip bookstore employee you can. You'll get lucky sometime.
P.S. Brianelka and Satyrsam. Where do I live and can could you introduce me to some of the goer's you have apparently dated?
P.S. Brianelka and Satyrsam. Where do I live and can could you introduce me to some of the goer's you have apparently dated?
From my personal knowledge, it's part phsycological and part fear... just thinking of taking THAT and putting it up their ass puts them off...
a finger once in a while is fine, but your dick?!...
It's just too big...
Someone I was with lately was willing, but I couldn't get farther than the tip in... she had one tight ass and all the excitement was too much...
a finger once in a while is fine, but your dick?!...
It's just too big...
Someone I was with lately was willing, but I couldn't get farther than the tip in... she had one tight ass and all the excitement was too much...
All 4 of my GF's have wanted and enjoyed anal sex. I don't see how any girl wouldn't like it so long as its done slowly. And for the record I have no problem with letting her slide her fingures into my ass also. I would never let a guy near me, since I'm not gay, but I have no trouble letting a girl play in my ass.
Damm my ex bf wants to put in my ass but i am scared , we tryed it and it hurted but he told me that he did not do it right . Well i am thinking about trying it again but i am not sure
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zoobix said:ask her to try it while she's jerking you off with the other hand...
Just lay back and enjoy man... First time she did it to me, I had the greatest orgasm ever!
A???? I think you got this posters gender confused
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DirtyKitty69 said:
You and your man should think about the position. Some position brings very intense feeling (because of deep penetration) to the girl. Usually such positions shouldn't be choosen for an "anal initiation".
For a 1st time anal, it's better to chose a position that gives total control to the girl.
Okay, first time it happened it was by accident - he slipped, I yelped and it was right out of there (I know it was an accident because he was a virgin until then). I never had any interest in it at all, basically thought it was disgusting. I didn't have anybody try for years then all of a sudden I had two different guys slipping they're finger in while having sex. I wasn't too thrilled although I have to admit I came and it was kind of good but never went beyond the finger two or three times and not necessarily by consent.
Then I met my current partner. He had done it before and it was briefly discussed. Eventually it just happened the whole enchilada. There was no talking me into it, it was natural and pretty decent. We tried it a few more times and it got better every time and before I knew I was taking the whole thing in and being the aggressive one. I also agree with one of the first posts, it's much better if I'm in control because I can keep it from hurting or stop if it's not feeling right and I can also decide if I want him to release inside or out.
It's not something I do too often but I do enjoy it, when we both want it. The key I found is there is so much trust and mutual respect for each other - that's what makes it so enjoyable and makes me beg for it (and it feels good, too). I think what I love most about it is how much it turns him on, but it has to wait because he comes pretty much as soon as it's in there for a minute. Sometimes it turns him on just talking about doing it that we both finish before we even get to the butt.
I don't think you can compare it to what pornstars do either. Sometimes they use a cream to de-sensitze but my research says that's a no-no because you won't know it's hurting until it's too late and the damage is done. There's also some cleanliness issues and I think pornstars are well-versed in that area.
Do some research (not related to porn sites) before you just dive in and build some trust - it will make it so much easier. And it definitely has to be a mutual decision. If she doesn't want it but you talk her into trying, she's not going to enjoy it at that time and there probably won't be a repeat performance. You'll be denied for good!
Then I met my current partner. He had done it before and it was briefly discussed. Eventually it just happened the whole enchilada. There was no talking me into it, it was natural and pretty decent. We tried it a few more times and it got better every time and before I knew I was taking the whole thing in and being the aggressive one. I also agree with one of the first posts, it's much better if I'm in control because I can keep it from hurting or stop if it's not feeling right and I can also decide if I want him to release inside or out.
It's not something I do too often but I do enjoy it, when we both want it. The key I found is there is so much trust and mutual respect for each other - that's what makes it so enjoyable and makes me beg for it (and it feels good, too). I think what I love most about it is how much it turns him on, but it has to wait because he comes pretty much as soon as it's in there for a minute. Sometimes it turns him on just talking about doing it that we both finish before we even get to the butt.
I don't think you can compare it to what pornstars do either. Sometimes they use a cream to de-sensitze but my research says that's a no-no because you won't know it's hurting until it's too late and the damage is done. There's also some cleanliness issues and I think pornstars are well-versed in that area.
Do some research (not related to porn sites) before you just dive in and build some trust - it will make it so much easier. And it definitely has to be a mutual decision. If she doesn't want it but you talk her into trying, she's not going to enjoy it at that time and there probably won't be a repeat performance. You'll be denied for good!
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Taylor Rain does a lot of anal
and i like it
Honestly i enjoy anal,not all the time but occasionaly. If the guy is 8" or more it kinna hurts but I use alot of lube,and thats when its enjoyable for me. Another of my fantasies is having a guy from behind while I'm on top of another. Maybe someday it will happen ,who knows.hotrod11inches said:
