why girls doesn't like porn?

[Caitlain]

My guess is most do, some just aren't woman/grown up enough to admit it. :dunno:

That's been my experience as well. I know a LOT of girls who enjoy porn to one extent or the other. And, in fact, those who don't generally don't have much of a sex drive, as best I can tell.

That's certainly not to say that even a high percentage of them look at porn as much as a lot of guys do, but insofar as I can tell, a pretty good percentage of girls watch and enjoy porn from time to time.

 

[DOA82]

wait... don't you? don't we all?

I dont expect it at all, in real life I dont think I could actually do half of what happens on screen to my partner.

 

[D-rock]

I can think of several reasons why they might not like it as well:

It's not tailored to women as it is for men. Most porn is made for men and marketed much more to them.

Men are probably more obsessed with sex then women.

Too much of it has women getting treated like garbage in it.

From a women point of view they probably don't like the unrealistic scenarios and acts that they see performed in it. A huge chunk of women out there don't like doing what the pornstars do in their movies.

They are probably even more turned off by the gimmicks in porn today than men are.

 

[anomaly]

Too much of it has women getting treated like garbage in it.

From a women point of view they probably don't like the unrealistic scenarios and acts that they see performed in it. A huge chunk of women out there don't like doing what the pornstars do in their movies.

I stated before that women in today's porn are often used as an apparatus instead of an actress. They are often treated poorly in certain types of movies. I don't like that type of porn. I feel porn should be sexy,light hearted and even humorous in some situations. :thumbsup:

 

[poggy]

I think girls don't like porn as much (generally speaking) because they can go and get the real thing anytime they want to. Guys? Not so much. If I had the ability to have sex whenever I wanted to, I wouldn't be watching porn either.

But men can do. You can always goto a prostitute.


I think the main reason is as many women have said before....

It's usually done by a man for the pleasure of men.

You'll find that some of the porn done by women been in charge of it is not liked by men but is by women. I think it has a lot to do with what each sex wants from it. Men want the focus on the women and women want the focus on the men. Seen as the direction has mainly been dominated by men in the past then that is why women say they don't like porn. But give them a viewing of something by a woman and they usually like it.

 

[sterobbo01]

Most women I know love porn and they even have there own stash of movies!
I saw something on TV the other day about porn addiction and it made no mention of women being addicted, my wife and some friends have more interest than I do!!

 

[Fervor]

I agree that they do like porn. Plenty like it just as much as we do.

But I think it is true that men are more visual when it comes to sexual arousal. Women don't need visual stimulation when they masturbate/fantasize as much as men do. They don't need the variety either.

 

[Petra]

I'm surprised of all the speculation on why women don't like porn nobody brought up the fact that women are typically the opposite of men. We're not as visually stimulated as men are, we like our porn in the written form (what do you think our romance novels are? ).

 

[tartanterrier]

Most women I know love porn and they even have there own stash of movies!
I saw something on TV the other day about porn addiction and it made no mention of women being addicted, my wife and some friends have more interest than I do!!

I saw that program as well - it was funny as fuck.That guy who went to a shrink to fix his porn addiction.He was ok for about a week,but then confessed he went to a sex shop mid way through :1orglaugh I have to laugh at these programs there pretty comical

I'm surprised of all the speculation on why women don't like porn nobody brought up the fact that women are typically the opposite of men. We're not as visually stimulated as men are, we like our porn in the written form (what do you think our romance novels are? ).

I guess the great rift continues between both sexes

Does that mean that if I convert my hidden DVD stash into written form.(With pictures here and there.) My girl won't hang me by my balls :dunno:

 

[Petra]

I guess the great rift continues between both sexes

Does that mean that if I convert my hidden DVD stash into written form.(With pictures here and there.) My girl won't hang me by my balls :dunno:

You can always try!

 

[Vanilla Bear]

Does that mean that if I convert my hidden DVD stash into written form.(With pictures here and there.) My girl won't hang me by my balls :dunno:

You can always try!

Better dont!

 

[AFA]

i know there are a lot of girls who does like it, but the vast majority doesn't

why is that? why we boys love it and girls hate it?

I don't know if that's really true or not.

I would assume that more women then men want a romantic relationship where they are most comfortable feeling they receive the exclusive attention of their man. Men watching porn clearly takes away that exclusivity. :dunno:

I said elsewhere I think the success of Playboy is that the women are photographed solo, so they remain an exclusive fantasy for the viewer, a fantasy relationship. Adding a partner in the pictures would take that away.

 

[globalplayboy]

I think girls don't like porn as much (generally speaking) because they can go and get the real thing anytime they want to. Guys? Not so much. If I had the ability to have sex whenever I wanted to, I wouldn't be watching porn either.

Umm...to be honest, no...

I have preferred porn over actual chicks before, just like sometimes I'll prefer staying by myself at home as opposed to taking a chick out.

Your mind is a terrible thing that can take you anywhere you desire - whereas u are always limited by ur consciousness with a chick. Saying u wouldnt watch porn when u can have sex anytime is like saying ud be 100% happy when u become a billionaire.

You might flame me thinking I am a dorky, shy, nerdy, fat, ugly kid. Quite the opposite, indeed - I have always been desired deeply

 

[ChefChiTown]

Saying u wouldnt watch porn when u can have sex anytime is like saying ud be 100% happy when u become a billionaire.

You might flame me thinking I am a dorky, shy, nerdy, fat, ugly kid. Quite the opposite, indeed - I have always been desired deeply

I wouldn't watch porn if I was getting sex on a regular basis. If I'm hungry and I have the option to choose between eating a real cheeseburger or just looking at a picture of one...I'm going to choose the real thing, but that's just me.

And no one is going to "flame" you for saying what you said.

 

[globalplayboy]

If I'm hungry and I have the option to choose between eating a real cheeseburger or just looking at a picture of one...I'm going to choose the real thing, but that's just me.

I dun wanna get all philosophical over it but the only difference between those 2 options is created by your consciousness. Funny that you say that you choose Reality over Fantasy - majority of people choose otherwise, and they are not even aware about it.

Ignorance is bliss, my friend. Reality will only hurt you, and make you stronger; if you desire pleasure, Fantasy is your realm.

Recall a lifelong dream-girl for instance. Now, say u DID have the chance to fuck her. In fact, she has been teleported to your bed right this second and is asking you to fuck her all night long.

Now, the question is;
Do you really think this will be your wildest & most satisfying experience in your life?

 

[ChefChiTown]

Recall a lifelong dream-girl for instance. Now, say u DID have the chance to fuck her. In fact, she has been teleported to your bed right this second and is asking you to fuck her all night long.

Now, the question is;

Do you really think this will be your wildest & most satisfying experience in your life?

If it was the girl of my dreams, then yes.

 

[SBTNW]

Now, say u DID have the chance to fuck her. In fact, she has been teleported to your bed right this second and is asking you to fuck her all night long.

Now, the question is;
Do you really think this will be your wildest & most satisfying experience in your life?

if she is Jenna Jameson, HELL YEAH!!!

jeje, no really, i think that's an obvious question, i mean, who wouldn't like that?

 

[globalplayboy]

If it was the girl of my dreams, then yes.

if she is Jenna Jameson, HELL YEAH!!!

jeje, no really, i think that's an obvious question, i mean, who wouldn't like that?

Yeah, here comes the actual breakdown;
Your chances of spending that night as you are dreaming it to be right now --> .01% or less

Let me tell you what would happen.
1You would be terribly excited. Your excitement would have a good chance of destroying your erection even if this is your 99billionth time.
2You would be thinking, and thinking A LOT. How should you begin? How do you want to fuck her? What will she think of it? Do I want to see her enjoy it as well? If I do a real good job would she want me later on too?
3You will hesitate and feel awkward. You will know that you dont belong inbetween those legs. You will want to do many things at once, and will end up being unsuccessful in each
4Even while u are at it, you'll be amazed - it will not feel that different from that stupıd Jessica you dumped 2 years ago.
5You'll realize all those minor flaws that you only realize when you get real close to a goddess' sculpture; little missing, or fractured parts here and there.
_aYou will realize the funny noises coming from her. Maybe her groans, maybe as her skin slides on the bed.
_bYou will see maybe her sweat smells like that of construction workers.
_cMaybe she farts in her sleeps or burbs after drinking stuff.
_dHmm...is that nipple a bit bigger than the other? Owgod! Why is that vein so big? Um, does she always do that stupid noise when she laughs?
6Even only 2 days after your "Big Night!!!", you wont even be able to recall how it was like

So, my consensus: Dont ever sleep with your dreamgirl, or all your fantasies will flunk - it'll be a Nightmare!!!

As you can see, its like learning that Santa doesnt exist, in the most harsh way possible...

 

[cartman24]

what do you mean? the cock get a lot of camera too, the muscles of these guys get a lot of camera...

how would it be a girly-porn?

I don't really know, the video and action are just focused on the girls. They never interview the dudes or things like that in which they do for the girls. Porn just seems to be targeted for men (which is fine by me).

 

[ChefChiTown]

Yeah, here comes the actual breakdown;
Your chances of spending that night as you are dreaming it to be right now --> .01% or less

Let me tell you what would happen.
1You would be terribly excited. Your excitement would have a good chance of destroying your erection even if this is your 99billionth time.
2You would be thinking, and thinking A LOT. How should you begin? How do you want to fuck her? What will she think of it? Do I want to see her enjoy it as well? If I do a real good job would she want me later on too?
3You will hesitate and feel awkward. You will know that you dont belong inbetween those legs. You will want to do many things at once, and will end up being unsuccessful in each
4Even while u are at it, you'll be amazed - it will not feel that different from that stupıd Jessica you dumped 2 years ago.
5You'll realize all those minor flaws that you only realize when you get real close to a goddess' sculpture; little missing, or fractured parts here and there.
_aYou will realize the funny noises coming from her. Maybe her groans, maybe as her skin slides on the bed.
_bYou will see maybe her sweat smells like that of construction workers.
_cMaybe she farts in her sleeps or burbs after drinking stuff.
_dHmm...is that nipple a bit bigger than the other? Owgod! Why is that vein so big? Um, does she always do that stupid noise when she laughs?
6Even only 2 days after your "Big Night!!!", you wont even be able to recall how it was like

So, my consensus: Dont ever sleep with your dreamgirl, or all your fantasies will flunk - it'll be a Nightmare!!!

As you can see, its like learning that Santa doesnt exist, in the most harsh way possible...

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