why do guys have strong sex drive ?

[Jack Davenport]

Women can't compartmentalize as easily as men.Women don't just go out and have sex with anyone. They usually want to have it with someone they care about. There are occasions when they just want to fuck some hot guy but believe me that attraction is short lived. Especially when some of the guys seem so shallow to them. If they do stray, if there is any substance to the relationship you have with her i.e. you offer her a sense of stability, or are good father material, that is what will peak their interest. Also jealousy will kill a relationship quicker than anything. Men are visual creatures we tend to fall for a woman a lot faster than the woman falls for the man. There is an assessment process that takes place with women and you are constantly being compared to other men. This process can take some time and men often times are impatient in allowing the woman to decide what she wants. You will have an edge if you do not show anger or jealousy with a woman. A quiet confidence seems to go along ways with them too.

I know this is a bit off the subject but felt like voicing an opinion here.

I said all that to say this, men are by nature not monogamous, I know there are a lot of good men out there that are, but I am speaking about the species as a whole. There are two kinds of sex to men. The sex with the person we love and those that we fuck. And there is a big difference.

I believe a man can be in love with a woman but still want to fuck someone else. I'll probably catch a lot of shit for saying that but I feel it is true. I think that explains the sex drive question to some extent. We are the aggressors in procreation and mother nature made us that way.

Like I told a woman a few years back. Spaghetti is my favorite food, I just don't want it everyday.

 

[JayJohn85]

Good post I would rep only my rep thing is fucked right now. Noticing a real anti cheat bullshit thing coming from guys in another thread from chef etc...Are you guys really so pure? I know I wont cheat again.
But thats only cause I did cheat on a girl I was rather fond of, got caught and that went to shit naturally. Basically the realization that such a thing carries consequences usually unpleasant ones.
And I didnt even screw the other girl btw, All I am saying is I would bet alot of blokes have cheated on at least 1 girlfriend in there life. So the holier than thou attitude doesnt rub with me....But hey each onto there own.

 

[DJCowboy]

I think it mainly stems from basical primal stuff. Men want to spread their genes while women usually become emotionally attached and thus not have sex as much because they are the carriers of the babies and are usually the ones that raise it so as they're raising a baby and not going out having sex which may result in more babies and making it hard for them to raise any.
Back during the old neanderthal cave man days they actually had to time when to have sex so that the woman wouldn't have a child during winter because if they had a baby during that season, it wasn't uncommon for the baby to be killed because it would be a burden on the group.

Of course now there are exceptions because studies show that women's sex drives are increasing a lot and in some areas are matching or even surpassing men's sex drives.

 

[ChefChiTown]

Why do guys have a strong sex drive and think about sex alot ? Well girls have a low sex drive and do not think about sex that much ?

Well small number of girls have a strong sex drive? It like girls are into it or not .It seems like 90% have a low sex drive and that 5% or 10% have strong sex drive :eek: Why is that ?

Well 90% guys have a strong sex drive and 10% have very strong sex drive.

Also blacks seem to have a stronger sex drive than white people and love sex more.

STDiva, do you mind?

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[24788]

People like to do what they want and society will pick on the poor communities when it comes to this and let's remember sex is looked down upon in America. The poor communities can't really defend themselves making them an easier target than myself who wouldn't care since I'm already well off while picking at the poor people really cuts them down.

Sex is wrong
Poor people are wrong
Government is 100% right 100% of the time. Don't forget this.

Society says were fucked because we have sex. Every society in history has had sex. It's one of the only things poor people have left sometimes. You can't hate on them for wanting pleasure.

 

[mrtrebus]

Good post I would rep only my rep thing is fucked right now. Noticing a real anti cheat bullshit thing coming from guys in another thread from chef etc...Are you guys really so pure? I know I wont cheat again.
But thats only cause I did cheat on a girl I was rather fond of, got caught and that went to shit naturally. Basically the realization that such a thing carries consequences usually unpleasant ones.
And I didnt even screw the other girl btw, All I am saying is I would bet alot of blokes have cheated on at least 1 girlfriend in there life. So the holier than thou attitude doesnt rub with me....But hey each onto there own.

No I haven't cheated. & I can't imagine a scenario where I would.

 

[JayJohn85]

Yea well I aint gonna let the apparant purity here get me down I was young when it happened....And the old saying when it rains it pours really applies. Always when you got a woman other woman want to fuck you.

 

[Jack Davenport]

Yea well I aint gonna let the apparant purity here get me down I was young when it happened....And the old saying when it rains it pours really applies. Always when you got a woman other woman want to fuck you.

There is some truth in that. But I think it stems from the fact that because you are getting some regularly, you don't come off as a horndog to other women. And that makes you intriguing to them.