Why do girls post nude selfies on social networks

[Aaliyah Love]

I'll answer your question with more questions.
Why do you think so negatively about women expressing their sexuality?
Why do you think women who pose nude are "trying to fill a void" or have a void to begin with?
Why are you so insecure and why would you think it's ok for you to project those insecurities on another person?

You've obv already made your mind up about these matters so why would I try to explain it to you. Men like you who come up with reasons why women think/feel the way they do are often times 100% WRONG.. but you're obv not going to change your mind anyways.. so what's the point of you asking these questions, honestly? You want validation that you're doing the right thing? You want other men to agree with you?

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

so what's the point of you asking these questions, honestly? You want validation that you're doing the right thing? You want other men to agree with you?

I've had it explained to me that this is the reason that most "questions" are asked online, and many questions are asked period. No one is really asking anything. They're not looking for the opinions of other people, they don't want your input or viewpoint. People make statements formed as a question in order to either get "backup" or to goad people into a debate without letting them know that's all it is, so instead they pretend that they're looking for an actual response as opposed to something to pick at. :dunno:

Oh, and also...

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Aaliyah Love again.

 

[raven_azrael]

To reply to everyone
Yeah maybe I deliveres my meaaage wrong. i hope this time I express myself clearer
my intention is not to say that posing nude ia wrong. i understand that there are modela and pornstars who do it to express themselves and to earn money. They say I AM AN ADULT PERFORMER AND I AM OK WITH IT. So that is fine.
WHat I think ia wrong is the fact that some girls post nude to feel accepted. when i talked about pornstars who did porn because they had esteem problems go and check Cas Calogera, Christy marks and Jenna Doll. I did not mean that every girl felt that way.

I think that the girls who post nude pics for free are seeking affection they do not find in their life. this girl told me that she was not sure, she wants to be told good things. i told her that no matter how many people see her nude and tell her she is hot, she will never be comfortable as long as she is the one who does not believe it.

I did not mean that pornstar have no goals. I meant that she had other goals in her life so she should not take this nude posting so lightly

I am not being hypocritical as i am not saying women should not be nude. I am saying that when/ if they decide to do so, they should not be doing it just for attention or acceptance

I asked a generic question about the women who do it. But then went into an specific case

English is not my first language. i understand that my post might be painful to read, but i hope to improve with the practice

 

[raven_azrael]

It is over
Thanks for ur time
People wont change their mind no matter how you explain repercussions to them. I did what i thought Was right for her and told her to be self confident. But hey i am just a f@ing nobody.
I dont like that ppl is taking advantage of her, because she is posting that but well she is an adult.

I learnt that i should not mind other people issues, thing always will blow up in my face.
Would i do this again?
Quoth the raven. Nevermore

 

[HappyHapyJoyJoy]

I told her to do what makes her happy

It is over
Thanks for ur time
People wont change their mind no matter how you explain repercussions to them. I did what i thought Was right for her and told her to be self confident. But hey i am just a f@ing nobody.
I dont like that ppl is taking advantage of her, because she is posting that but well she is an adult

People are "taking advantage" of her? That suggests manipulation. It doesn't seem like people are manipulating her since it's something that she is going out of her way to do and she's said that, in her opinion, there's nothing wrong with it. This tells us this is apparently what she wants. These other people certainly don't seem to be controlling her actions. Now, you're trying to tell her what she should do with her body. You're trying to tell her why she does those things. You're trying to tell her what she should want. You're trying to tell her what's "right" for her. You were complaining to her about her actions and obviously getting negative with it, apparently to the point where she felt the need to get defensive and point out your own actions. Doesn't that sound a lot like you're trying to control her and her body? And when she rejects your control? "It is over".

And you were fine with her actions right up until you "got to know her more" and got "emotionally invested". In fact, you wanted to "see more", you "told her that [you] like her body", and that you talked to her about becoming "a porn girl", something about which you suggested she was "curious". So aren't you exactly the kind of person that you're talking down about? By your frame of thinking you were one of the ones manipulating her from your own perspective. So you didn't feel that you were wrong before, did you? So why is everyone else wrong for doing what you were doing? When someone else does it, why is it then taking advantage of the poor girl?

Doesn't this all strike you as incredibly possessive and controlling?

 

[raven_azrael]

Yeah i thought that at the beginning because i did not know what she was going through. Maybe i was wrong.
Giving advice and showing pro and cons is not manipulating.
I mean it is over because it is not relevant to insist as she will do what she wants and please the guys who ask for more.

 

[MrSnowStorm]

Self-express beauty, it's better to not ask, but, to ask for more.

 

[dp93]

they want attention

 

[bobjustbob]

I'll answer your question with more questions.
Why do you think so negatively about women expressing their sexuality?


Men like you who come up with reasons why women think/feel the way they do are often times 100% WRONG..?

Let's get past the obv and head onto the first statement. ALove brings up the art and expressionism. Art is art. Go express your self as long as you or I don't get hurt. I am old fashioned and also a betting man. I will take all bets at 50-50 they will have feelings of regretting those posts. 5 years, 10 years? Hope for the crash of the Internet for the next 20 years?

Girls, listen to Uncle Bob. Before you decide to post them socially, have them reviewed privately. If you can't find someone to share them with, send them to me.

 

[sexyjgirl]

Inability to control their deep-seated need for admiration of their physical attributes. These days, the twitter/facebook phenomenon has made it so much easier and they can broadcast themselves to the entire world. We used to just pull the drapes and flash our tits out the dorm window to the cute guy walking down the sidewalk. That took two people - drape puller required - and the audience was very small (but usually appreciative).

 

[Mr_Stiffy]

I think the bigger sign of a mental health issue is not a girl showing off her tetas or her hamwallet on the Internet, it's the ones doing duckface that have got the real problems. We need to get those kids some help straight away. If their view of "sexy" is that distorted, who knows what else might be going wrong in their addled little minds.

We used to just pull the drapes and flash our tits out the dorm window to the cute guy walking down the sidewalk.

This never happened to my cute friends when I was walking with them.

:notfair:

 

[stant38]

In my opinion, they do it for the attention. But from my perspective, they just want to see what people might say about their bodies. Some do it for fun like my wife. Just like us guys that like to look at hot women nude. Well that's the reason they do it is for us to look at them. We guys like porn so there is a lot of women who like it as well. Its a free world so if your hot and your spouse approves of it then go ahead and post the nude pics.

 

[sexyjgirl]

Inability to control their deep-seated need for admiration of their physical attributes. These days, the twitter/facebook phenomenon has made it so much easier and they can broadcast themselves to the entire world. We used to just pull the drapes and flash our tits out the dorm window to the cute guy walking down the sidewalk. That took two people - drape puller required - and the audience was very small (but usually appreciative).

Memories keep coming back...we always did this in the common or study room because an attentive guy could figure out what room you lived in if you did it from your own room. So, that required you to get the cooperation of the girls studying in the room. They would either leave or join in the fun. Once we were done flashing, we'd run out of the common room to our dorm rooms and shut and lock our doors...you know that cute guy could be a serial rapist or murder! It was so stupid. But it just shows that young women have always done stupid things, its just that today the consequences of doing this are so much more serious - at the least, they could eliminate themselves from getting a good job or they might actually entice a serial rapist or murder to find them.

 

[raven_azrael]

Memories keep coming back...we always did this in the common or study room because an attentive guy could figure out what room you lived in if you did it from your own room. So, that required you to get the cooperation of the girls studying in the room. They would either leave or join in the fun. Once we were done flashing, we'd run out of the common room to our dorm rooms and shut and lock our doors...you know that cute guy could be a serial rapist or murder! It was so stupid. But it just shows that young women have always done stupid things, its just that today the consequences of doing this are so much more serious - at the least, they could eliminate themselves from getting a good job or they might actually entice a serial rapist or murder to find them.

Thanks for being the voice of reason.