Why did you ever break up with you sexy ex?

[senob44]

I had ex's? I must have or else I wouldn't have posted....
Oh yes. THOSE days. Well the only serious relationship I had before I met my fiancee, we broke up because of her parents. She had an arranged marriage set up and also I was too white for their Indian tastes so it would never have worked. Basically before, during and after that relationship, most of the girls I had relationships with eventually broke up with me when they found out I was cheating. All in all, I don't regret breaking up or losing anyone since the path I chose led me to the wonderful woman I have now been with for seven years.

 

[boobidy mcb00bs]

well, one of my ex's was hot, but dumb as a post. it got really annoying after a while. having a mental advantage is nice, but i like a little bit of a chanllenge.

 

[KDXXX]

Wow. Great posts. This sort of counts (breaking the rule of my own thread) but I had a sexy girlfriend but broke up in part because she was extremely emotional and insecure. No matter how hot a girl is, some things still sucks the oxygen out of the room. This qualifies as 'sort of' because she wasn't putting out, only third based.

 

[KDXXX]

omg. i had the craziest girl for a few years. we met in highschool and we almost got married. she was incredible. she was an sex fiend. no fucking joke. she literally craved giving me blowjobs when we were apart and even had her mom get her on the shot...

i learned a lot from her (sexually)

what! Please ellaborate on the mom part.

 

[Juiceman]

I ended it due to her being unfaithful when my work took me out of town.

 

[Becks...poamr]

It could of been worse for you guys. None of the them could have been sexy in the first place. :1orglaugh

Sounds like my ex-boyfriends. Bastards. Ugly, too. :sigh:

 

[KDXXX]

Sounds like my ex-boyfriends. Bastards. Ugly, too. :sigh:

??

 

[geraldhp42]

After she treated me like crap for a few days, she told me the reason was because her friends nicknamed her the "Cold Bitch" and she wanted to try it out on me.

 

[hedonis]

'cause she's a whore.

Peter's comment summed it up, but let's also be clear that she was not sexy.

H

 

[squallumz]

what! Please ellaborate on the mom part.

i dunno. she just went to her mom and asked her to get her on the shot. apparently her mom didnt care about her having sex. and i found out after that, her and her mom exchanged sex stories and shit. apparently they "were open about it"

at 1st i was like why the fuck did u tell her?! because i had a birthday and she didnt yet, there was an age issue which could have gotten me in trouble if the mom was a bitch. but it turned out to be great since i got to cum in her all fucking day because she got the shot. the sex was absolutely incredible. it was amazing. like i said though, i would never take it back but im glad i ended up with a girl who loves me truly without turning into a meth head.

 

[ChefChiTown]

My first girlfriend actually dumped me...because she was gay. I broke up with my second girlfriend because...you guessed it...she was gay.

 

[geraldhp42]

My first girlfriend actually dumped me...because she was gay. I broke up with my second girlfriend because...you guessed it...she was gay.

I had a girl who was close to being a girlfriend. You know the song by Meatloaf "Two Out of Three Ain't Bad?" It wasn't kinda like that. She said she thought we were connected at the soul, but not in this lifetime. She gave one of the reasons as being that she was bisexual and she liked women more than guys at the time.

 

[ChefChiTown]

I had a girl who was close to being a girlfriend. You know the song by Meatloaf "Two Out of Three Ain't Bad?" It wasn't kinda like that. She said she thought we were connected at the soul, but not in this lifetime. She gave one of the reasons as being that she was bisexual and she liked women more than guys at the time.

My (first) ex sucked big time. She was pretty blatant about wanting to "go back" to girls and she wasn't all that nice about it either. I remember the night she came clean and told me the truth about her sexuality when she said, "I'm not sexually attracted to you at all and I never have been. I would much rather have sex with a girl". I just sat there thinking in my head, "Wow...that was the worst thing I've ever heard in my life...what a bitch".

The second time I ended up dating a lesbian, she was actually pretty cool about everything. I honestly had a hard time breaking up with her, even though we only dated a little over a month. I felt that she was genuine in wanting to have a relationship with me, but there was a 0% chance I was going to risk a repeat of my first relationship.

Maybe I need to make myself look like less of a butch lesbian so I stop attracting homosexual ladies. :dunno:

 

[geraldhp42]

My (first) ex sucked big time. She was pretty blatant about wanting to "go back" to girls and she wasn't all that nice about it either. I remember the night she came clean and told me the truth about her sexuality when she said, "I'm not sexually attracted to you at all and I never have been. I would much rather have sex with a girl". I just sat there thinking in my head, "Wow...that was the worst thing I've ever heard in my life...what a bitch".

The second time I ended up dating a lesbian, she was actually pretty cool about everything. I honestly had a hard time breaking up with her, even though we only dated a little over a month. I felt that she was genuine in wanting to have a relationship with me, but there was a 0% chance I was going to risk a repeat of my first relationship.

Maybe I need to make myself look like less of a butch lesbian so I stop attracting homosexual ladies. :dunno:

Man, that really sucks. Sorry to read all of that.

 

[KDXXX]

i dunno. she just went to her mom and asked her to get her on the shot. apparently her mom didnt care about her having sex. and i found out after that, her and her mom exchanged sex stories and shit. apparently they "were open about it"

at 1st i was like why the fuck did u tell her?! because i had a birthday and she didnt yet, there was an age issue which could have gotten me in trouble if the mom was a bitch. but it turned out to be great since i got to cum in her all fucking day because she got the shot. the sex was absolutely incredible. it was amazing. like i said though, i would never take it back but im glad i ended up with a girl who loves me truly without turning into a meth head.

Thanks for sharing. Does your current girl ever feel like she can't live up to someone who from the sound of it bats a perfect thousand in every man's dream (minus the unfortunate tragic ending)?

 

[squallumz]

Thanks for sharing. Does your current girl ever feel like she can't live up to someone who from the sound of it bats a perfect thousand in every man's dream (minus the unfortunate tragic ending)?

oh no. that was so fucking long ago for both of us, she doesnt care and im finally forgetting things about my ex. the more recent ex's bothered her a hell of a lot more but she's better about them all now (really good friends with one)... well except one, and i cant blame her for that. she will always hate that one.

but yeah, my current girl (who i married a few months ago) is a dream in her own right. the only thing the ex had was an unsatisfiable urge to give bjs. but you know what, when i woke up this morning, my wife promised me a bj when we got home today. and believe it or not, shes become more open sexually than my ex ever was. shes beautiful, sweet, great in bed, she watches porn, likes girl/girl, interested in 3somes, tries everything, and doesn't have a drug problem, not to mention ive never had so much emotional support in everything i do.

she gives my sexual past up to learning how to give great head. ive told her everything before we even got serious and theres nothign to hide. she even asks me to tell her stories about the sex with my ex too. i was just telling her about the times we did it in public and people were watching. she was busting up laughing.

yeah, dont get me wrong the sex was fucking great, but i think what made it so great too was it was in the beginning of both of our sexual adventures. we were both ready to go and 2 people who just wanted to fuck like crazy converged and went at it with no holds barred.

i can say with full confidence that the sex with my wife and our complete relationship completely outweighs my ex. but it doesnt mean it wasnt fun as hell!

and whats funny is i heard that ex got married recently too.

i wonder what he thinks of me!

 

[KDXXX]

Wow. Behold one of the luckiest guys alive. Don't get me wrong I love my wife dearly, but 99% of the relationships I'm familiar with includes sexual mismatches (one is adventurous and the other is conservative. Even the few that have a wife that aims to please it is at the cost of her dignity. She feels dirty yet obligated to conceed to his desires. That's no fun. I am happy for you!

 

[calvin_vandele]

omg. i had the craziest girl for a few years. we met in highschool and we almost got married. she was incredible. she was an sex fiend. no fucking joke. she literally craved giving me blowjobs when we were apart and even had her mom get her on the shot.

we had sex every single day for over 2 years (excepts for a couple of out of state trips) she was the hottest girl in school for reals. 105 pounds, dirty blonde, tall. oh man. adventurous too. we had sex in front of people at school, she blew me in front of an ocean front restaurant, had sex everywhere. giving giving giving.

but all good things come to an end and she got hooked on meth. basically went crazy, fell in with fucked up friends and became a different person overnight. took me forever to get over her too. she dumped me which was crazy, broke my heart but it all worked out in the end.

i learned a lot from her (sexually)

mmmm... im gonna file this one under fiction lol

 

[NavyBlue]

My ex was sexy, adventurous, and wild in bed, so why did I dump her? Because she was caught with another guy in a rave club by my brother and my friends. By that time we were moving apart emotionally and she was taking ecstacy and out clubbing every night we weren't together. She tried to get back with me for several months afterward but I flatly refused. About 6 months later we start talking again and she initiated sex on few occassions but I refused, prefer to have myself a lady friend that I can talk to about anything, but her bf got wind of it and became angry and crazy like so I terminated that relationship as well and it's been few years since I heard from her. I think it's best for both of us to move on because while she makes a great gf and sex partner she's not the ideal wife type. I still wonder how things might have turned out if I had married her instead of my wife.

 

[bodie54]

I still wonder how things might have turned out if I had married her instead of my wife.

From the short time capsule you posted my guess is you'd have been harried and miserable, so congratulations on avoiding that trap.