Well, I take people at face value ...
I am not referring particularily to Vicky Vette. But unfortunately, just because a woman says she enjoys it - especially in the porn industry - doesn't necessarily mean she actually does. Or that one day she will not regret it (Crissy Moran comes to mind).
Well, I take people at face value, and how they present their face, for whatever reasons, is up to them.
Regret is for those who don't realize they can't change their past, but they can change their future.
Look forward, not back, keep your head up -- I don't care who you are, you are a lady if you are female, or you at least deserved to be so treated.
As far as Crissy Moran, I think I showed a great deal of respect in her thread when she decided to leave.
People should feel free to change however they want at any time in their life, and people should respect that.
As the immortal Howard Cosell said it best, "The man wants to be called Mohammad Ali, so I call the man Mohammad Ali."
Ironically most religions teach these lessons, and it's sad that people who claim to be "enlightened" and "open minded" can't respect Crissy -- both from before and after her life changing decision.
Sex is for women often not always the same thing as sex is for men. At least in my opinion.
My mother raised me with that shit and my wife is still trying to pry it out of me after over a decade of marriage.
I was so fucked up because of comments like that it drove me to please so many women as much as I could that I never stopped to enjoy things myself.
I'm serious, I'm not making that up -- but thank God for my wife.
In my opinion, sex is how you ask for it or not -- the more open and honest you are, the more you will get what you want.
I've said it before and I'll say it again (and my wife agrees), if people were more respecting of others, my wife and I wouldn't mind sharing our acts on film.
But because they aren't, they are judgmental or otherwise negative towards anything they want to judge, it limits what we all share with one another.
My $0.02 ...