There were two different girls I dated that were amazing, but I broke up with because they had issues, one with alcohol, the other with diagnosed OCD. I'm reasonably confident I did the right thing by cutting them loose, and I absolutely love the woman I married. But I still think about them from time to time and wonder what-if.
Who's Your "One That Got Away"?
- Thread starter Straight Shooter
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Rey C.
Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Yeah, great thread topic.
I guess my ex-fiancee might fit into this category. And according to her family, I fit into this category for her as well. Her aunt was an extremely nice person and I stayed in touch with the family (though not her) for several years after we broke up. The aunt's description of our stormy relationship was that we both screwed each other up to the point that we were not fit for relationships with other people after our breakup. And I guess she was right. My ex has been engaged at least twice, but has gotten cold feet on both occasions. And I've just flat refused to consider getting married - even too much talking about it and I'll break up with the girl. My current girl is a sweetheart. And we've been together for longer than any relationship I've had since the ex. But I'm not marrying her either, and as long as she's OK with that, we'll be OK together.
Oh, my, my. Oh, hell, yes.
Honey, put on that party dress.
Buy me a drink, sing me a song.
Take me as I come 'cause I can't stay long.
I guess my ex-fiancee might fit into this category. And according to her family, I fit into this category for her as well. Her aunt was an extremely nice person and I stayed in touch with the family (though not her) for several years after we broke up. The aunt's description of our stormy relationship was that we both screwed each other up to the point that we were not fit for relationships with other people after our breakup. And I guess she was right. My ex has been engaged at least twice, but has gotten cold feet on both occasions. And I've just flat refused to consider getting married - even too much talking about it and I'll break up with the girl. My current girl is a sweetheart. And we've been together for longer than any relationship I've had since the ex. But I'm not marrying her either, and as long as she's OK with that, we'll be OK together.
Oh, my, my. Oh, hell, yes.
Honey, put on that party dress.
Buy me a drink, sing me a song.
Take me as I come 'cause I can't stay long.
alexpnz
Lord Dipstick
Linda, a friend of mine when I was 15 and up.....she stayed close w/ me thru my first love and 2 subsequent g/f's after that til we lost touch a few years after High School. We always confided in each other with everything and even fucking while each other had someone never interferred with the friendship which only made things more solid.
It never occurred to me that we should ultimately be together til I hit a lonely patch and signed up to Reunion.com to find her....which I did and we fell right back into things right up to the point where I had her drawers off in 05 in the back of the whip and she pulled them up and told me she had to go pick up her cop fiance to go on a cruise.
Havn't talked to her since.....and Reunion.com still wants their money!
It never occurred to me that we should ultimately be together til I hit a lonely patch and signed up to Reunion.com to find her....which I did and we fell right back into things right up to the point where I had her drawers off in 05 in the back of the whip and she pulled them up and told me she had to go pick up her cop fiance to go on a cruise.
Havn't talked to her since.....and Reunion.com still wants their money!
i seem to have brought a spark back from my "one". had drinks with her last tuesday night, hung out with her today. went well.just trying not to get ahead of myself, cause that will ruin me
and i seem to have done it. chilled all night, ordered out, had some wine. ended up in bed together. im extremely happy today, to say the least
It is happening to me now. I have been in an off and on relationship with her for over 4 years. She wanted to get married and I didn't at the time. Now I am ready to take the plunge but I am sure it is too late.
It took losing her to realize this.
It took losing her to realize this.
