Who here swings?

[Alanna Thomas]

have a friend him and his wife swing but he says i cant join until im married wich is a shame his wife is so damn hot but tell you the truth i dont think i would be able to share my wife with another man now girlfriend no prob i guess call me old fashion

Our thoughts have always been that there is a difference between physical and emotional feelings. We swing because we know that doing physical things with others does not affect our emotional relationship...we can make that separation. There are many people, tho, who have a problem separating the physical and emotional. You need to have a pretty strong relationship!

 

[pornophile]

Swingers....didn't they die out like in the 70's?

 

[BBGRob]

I'm looking for a 20 - 25 year old any volunteers

Hey Alanna

 

[Dixie Normus]

my parents were swingers in the 70s
My mom was a good church girl, my dad was a radical 60s leftist. They loved to party together, sex, drugs, and booze. I am the oldest so I am the only sibling that remembers those days. The lifestyle didn't work out so good for them. My mom left my dad for another woman (they met through swinging) and they put us through 2 bitter custody battles whilst trying to prove who was the bigger piece of worthless human debris. So far my father is working on his third marriage and my mother her fifth. I think they are monogamous with their partners now.

 

[Alanna Thomas]

Swingers....didn't they die out like in the 70's?

Not even a little bit! Thanks to this new-fangled thing they call the internet, swinging is bigger 'n better than ever! ;-) Try it, you might like it...gotta be better than pullin' your pud over some airbrushed pics of fake-boobed porn stars!

 

[Alanna Thomas]

I'm looking for a 20 - 25 year old any volunteers

Hey Alanna

Aw, darn, I missed the age cut! How you doing Rob? Kisses to the Mrs!

 

[Alanna Thomas]

my parents were swingers in the 70s
My mom was a good church girl, my dad was a radical 60s leftist. They loved to party together, sex, drugs, and booze. I am the oldest so I am the only sibling that remembers those days. The lifestyle didn't work out so good for them. My mom left my dad for another woman (they met through swinging) and they put us through 2 bitter custody battles whilst trying to prove who was the bigger piece of worthless human debris. So far my father is working on his third marriage and my mother her fifth. I think they are monogamous with their partners now.

Wow, I'm so sorry...there are people in this lifestyle who are in it and shouldn't be - and it sounds like that fits your parents. Sexual lifestyle is a personal choice - I may be bisexual and a swinger, but I wouldn't expect anyone else to enjoy be the same as me!

 

[Alanna Thomas]

Only my arms swings...

So...seriously...what's with all the smartass comments? Are you guys so depressingly negative that you can't answer an honest question honestly? Since I started, I've had sex with almost a half-dozen REAL 30-year-old(+) virgins since I started my website...do you guys REALLY believe that nobody will have sex with you? Seriously? I'm BEGGING guys to be on my live show (I don't care if you're young, old, short, fat, hot or ugly!) and nobody will show up...and yet y'all sit around making cynical comments. Wouldn't you rather be with a real girl?

 

[Alanna Thomas]

And yeah, "almost a half-dozen" equals five. Who wants to make it an ACTUAL half-dozen???

 

[Shifty]

So...seriously...what's with all the smartass comments? Are you guys so depressingly negative that you can't answer an honest question honestly? Since I started, I've had sex with almost a half-dozen REAL 30-year-old(+) virgins since I started my website...do you guys REALLY believe that nobody will have sex with you? Seriously? I'm BEGGING guys to be on my live show (I don't care if you're young, old, short, fat, hot or ugly!) and nobody will show up...and yet y'all sit around making cynical comments. Wouldn't you rather be with a real girl?

People are just kidding around Alanna. Swinging is a lifestyle that not everyone can take part in, for different reasons. That doesn't mean that swinging doesn't interest them, or that they don't find it interesting and/or intriguing. And it certainly doesn't imply that they don't have sex lives. :2 cents:

 

[Alanna Thomas]

People are just kidding around Alanna. Swinging is a lifestyle that not everyone can take part in, for different reasons. That doesn't mean that swinging doesn't interest them, or that they don't find it interesting and/or intriguing. And it certainly doesn't imply that they don't have sex lives. :2 cents:

Thanks Shifty I feel better now. My guess was most guys don't think I'm being serious (and I really am!). I'd be happy to answer any questions you guys might have about swinging - heck, hubby's even written a book!

 

[Ace Bandage]

I was swinging big time on Saturday: backyard wiffle ball tournament. Good times!

:smart ass:

 

[Alanna Thomas]

I was swinging big time on Saturday: backyard wiffle ball tournament. Good times!

:smart ass:

hehe wiffleball is the only kind of ball I can play! (well, non-sexually anyway lol)

 

[JacknCoke]

I swing my golf clubs a few times a summer

 

[bigsexydude35]

I swing a big 34! (Mizuno Bamboo Bat)

 

[STDiva]

There is a couple that regulars the pub I go to all the time and they've tried...recruiting me, some friends of mine and the bartender but we always decline. Even offered tickets to go see Them Crooked Vultures and party at their hotel.

Maybe if he was cuter.

What's the deal with that anyway? Is there standards when it comes to looks? I'd hate to be turned down at a swinger party.

 

[Alanna Thomas]

There is a couple that regulars the pub I go to all the time and they've tried...recruiting me, some friends of mine and the bartender but we always decline. Even offered tickets to go see Them Crooked Vultures and party at their hotel.

Maybe if he was cuter.

What's the deal with that anyway? Is there standards when it comes to looks? I'd hate to be turned down at a swinger party.

LOL we all wish all swingers were young, hot and into us. Most are 40+ and not winning any beauty contests, but we've had some fun with some VERY hot couples. But I'm more into a person's personality (like whether or not they're egotistical jerks!) than looks...I'm not a picky person, I like all sizes, shapes and colors. But rule #1 in swinging is NO means NO...and if ya don't want to, you should never feel pressured to! Anyone who pressures you isn't worth your time! ;-)

 

[XfinhoX]

well, me and my girl, we have an open relationship. not exactly swingers, but from time to time, i do some oher girls, sometimes wih her, sometimes just me. and the same with her. sometimes, depending on the the other person, is kinda odd, but in general is great!

 

[scatsweeny]

I would love to try it. My wife, not so much. We don't have a great sex life. My wife isn't into sex at all and I didn't have any experience before I met my wife. I'm jealous that other people get to enjoy that stuff. Alanna, something I've always wondered, are you pretty confident if you practice safely you'll be all right?

 

[JayJohn85]

Fuck I just couldn't resist....I know I know my maturity level is sky high