when you are at your limit...

when you are at the end of your rope. when you just cant stand someone or something, what do you do? for me its solicitors. when i see them or hear them, i just want to crush their larynx. but, i know how to handle my anger. my question is how do you handle your anger or irritations? hmmmm......:D
 
The religious right always set me off. I go the a quiet place and just scream
 
nothing other than calm down? Just think of "I'm better than him/her, so I don't need to..." Can't imagine what would happen if I can't control myself.
 
I stop. Pause. 3 deep, slow breaths.

Sometimes, I walk away to a private area and drop and do a quick 50 (yes, this old fart can still do a quick 50. This old fart can also run 3 miles at the drop of a hat. Old fart will regret it later on the day, but old fart can still do it).

That and I talk things over with my wife. If she and I are having a disagreement - and hence the source of my irritation/annoyance; then I disappear to another part of the house till I've calmed down (listen to some music, quick shower etc.)and then try again. This is rare, however - my wife and I don't fight much and it's hard to stay mad at her.

I have never once gone to bed with an unresolved argument. Nor have I left home after a fight in anger/haste. You never know if it is the last time you'll ever see your loved one and you don't want your last memory to be a "fight".


Don't get me started on 'irritations'...

cheers,
R.
 
Well. I usually go completely insane aka clinically insane, and then calm down afterwards and be happy for the rest of the time. I used to damage things, but that got me no where.


One day, if this guy I met pushes me far enough, Im going to damage his face with my fist. It's bad enough that he pushes my buttons when im around him, but I've only seen the kid twice, and I already hate his guts. He even effects me when I am not even in his viscinity.

I met him at my friend's college. I'm glad he's there, kinda. Because when I visit my buddy, this kid is always there, following us around.

He's like your typical guy that you see in a movie thats really annoying, has a high pitch voice, is creepy, loud, obnoxious, stupider than a bag of hammers, and thinks college is about "getting drunk as fast as you can" -his words. Not only that, but he lies about pretty much everything, and ego trips on himself, but has nothing gonig for him.

ARGH. Thanks for starting this thread... Good release. Ima try givin reppage...
 

squallumz

knows petras secret: she farted.
i generally pace. if theres a beer around, ill have that. if someones got a smoke, ill smoke it. ill rarely hit something or throw something. it really depends what the situation is. if someones fucking with my girl or a family member (that i like) ill straight up sock em. unless its a friday.
 
I just walk away and say nothing. This bugs the hell out of them and if you have a crafty glance round at them. You'll see the steam coming out of their ears LOL.
 
I punch a wall so I dont punch the person.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
I always try and get away from the situation that's pissin me off. But there are times I can't, so I just get real quiet and don't say shit to anybody. Hell I don't even acknowledge their presence. It's either that or I fly off the deep end!
 
when you are at the end of your rope. when you just cant stand someone or something, what do you do? for me its solicitors. when i see them or hear them, i just want to crush their larynx. but, i know how to handle my anger. my question is how do you handle your anger or irritations? hmmmm......:D

Hmmm...solicitors you say. When they are bothering somebody, he should go sit down, relax, and do nothing to take care of them.





















That's what the pack of Dobermans are keep around for. :1orglaugh
(just kidding)
 

pitino

are you talking to me?
trying to run away so as not to harm someone
 
I usually just start thinking 10 seconds ahead. I could either be smashing someones head in and knowing that Im fucked or I could just leave and be tons happier :p
 
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