What would you do?
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Alyssa Rose
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Lol well yeah.. I've admitted that.
Yeah you're right. See this is why I asked for your alls opinions before bringing it up or getting to worked up.
It's never happened to me, though in college one of the cheerleaders would be rather friendly to me, even sitting next to me in a class we had together, but because my GF was the greatest of course I never did flirt with her. Plus cheerleaders aren't my type anyway.
squallumz
knows petras secret: she farted.
i admit it, as my girl says, im a terrible flirt. i cant help it. and thats just part of who i am. and she knows this. and i dont want to ever stop!
to answer your question: it totally depends on the girl and the relationship.
if its someone not so serious, or mostly a physical relationship, who cares? go for all you can get.
someone that you are serious with, well, you should know what to do. and your response will help you clarify how serious you are taking that "serious relationship."
also, really?! a message in a social networking site? pfft. thats not flirting, thats gay.
do your flirting in person!
to answer your question: it totally depends on the girl and the relationship.
if its someone not so serious, or mostly a physical relationship, who cares? go for all you can get.
someone that you are serious with, well, you should know what to do. and your response will help you clarify how serious you are taking that "serious relationship."
also, really?! a message in a social networking site? pfft. thats not flirting, thats gay.
do your flirting in person!
At one time I would dutifully explain I am taken and still enjoy a conversation. Nowadays I shall callously state I do not give a flying fuck. No real point to maintain exclusivity. In the end only going to end up disappointed and out of time and money due to the mistake of trying to be with someone exclusively.
LeyaFalcon
Official Checked Star Member
Either say thank you or fuck off...that simple!
Vanilla Bear
Bears For Life
Of course I'd just say thank you, but I haz a girlfriend.
Maybe I'd still chat with her if she's a friend, but not behind my gf's back. I would let her know.
I wouldn't want her to chat with other guys behind my back so how could I do something like that?
I hope that was a right answer and you still want to marry me, Nikki cause that's how I roll/think.
Maybe I'd still chat with her if she's a friend, but not behind my gf's back. I would let her know.
I wouldn't want her to chat with other guys behind my back so how could I do something like that?
I hope that was a right answer and you still want to marry me, Nikki cause that's how I roll/think.
Sam Fisher
Banned
Fixed it for ya.
Respond "thank you" and nothing more.
xfire
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Love is overrated. You'll probably get to figure out why someday.
senorzorro
Banned
If I'm in a good relationship I'll say "thank you" and nothing more.
If I'm in a crappy relationship, then I could do something else
If I'm in a crappy relationship, then I could do something else
"Thank you but I have a girlfriend... By the way, would you be interested in a threesome ?"
So, all men are liars, gay or douchebags ?
Rey C.
Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
I agree with that. I don't think you should make obvious plays for another girl if you're in a relationship (or she is). But sometimes you can find yourself on a fine line, when your only intention is to just be nice or joke around with someone (in a friendly way). Just by being friendly, you may give someone the impression that you're making a subtle play for them. Some girls, who are used to overt flirting or pickup lines (which they would probably reject), might get the idea that friendly gestures are your way of expressing a romantic interest in them - when that's not the case.
So if you pay someone an innocent compliment, and you notice that they light up after you say it, and then you get a kiss on the cheek for Christmas, a "boob press" when they ask what you're working on one day and then they invite you out for a drink when you stay in town for an extra night, someone has definitely misinterpreted something... or you've sent a (unintended) mixed signal.
If my girl found herself in the same situation, I wouldn't blame her. There is a little fellow where she works who has a massive crush on her. She's nice to him (in a friendly way), but I know she has no interest in him. As long as she's not leading him on (as I wouldn't lead this girl on where I work), you can't control how other people react to you. But if they suddenly go all "puppy dog love" on you, you probably have to get that straight and not just let it go on & on. I can have someone fired or evicted today and sleep well the same night. You sometimes have to do things (for business reasons) that are going to hurt someone. But I see no need in hurting people by careless actions or on purpose (unless they're really asking to get smacked)... especially when it's someone you claim to care about.
