What to do?

[zeppelin68]

I haven't been on the boards here for about a week or so. Family stuff.

Anyhow, I've been going with my current gf for about a month and a half, since June 19th.

I had an... 'erotic' dream shall we say.. about her last night. However, we still haven't had sex yet. She's a little conservative, and I'm kinda old fashioned, so we were waiting a little while. Anyways, do you think it just simply means that I want to have sex with her really bad and am having trouble waiting...? Or.. could it mean something else?

Usually, I disregard dreams as meaningless, but this one is kinda important.

What should I do? Tell her... or just let it pass on by?

Thanks

 

[biomech]

Let it pass by, It's nothing.
It is common to have dreams about your girl or other girl's.
It is possible that it's a manifestation of your subconcious wanting to "seal the deal".
Don't sweat it. :2 cents:

 

[Hot Mega]

It means your horny and you want to fuck her.

I would tell her.

Just curious, are you two waiting for waiting's sake or is there some determinable threshold you two need to pass first?

 

[24788]

It might just mean that your nervous or stressed about it. I believe dreams are caused by real life roles. They can be interpreted differently by everyone though.

Talk to her if you feel comfortable about it or wait until after you finally have sex.

 

[Mr. Daystar]

Really dude, you shouldn't worry about wanting to fuck your girlfriend. Now, if you would have had a sex dream about her dad, or brother...then you should be asking questions.

Tell her you had it, in an unconcerned, amused manner, so she wont feel as though you are pressuring her to really have sex. Maybe she'll get horny hearing the details, and not wanna wait to do you.

 

[habo9]

Get her drunk & live out your dream lol

 

[24788]

Really dude, you shouldn't worry about wanting to fuck your girlfriend. Now, if you would have had a sex dream about her dad, or brother...then you should be asking questions.

Tell her you had it, in an unconcerned, amused manner, so she wont feel as though you are pressuring her to really have sex. Maybe she'll get horny hearing the details, and not wanna wait to do you.

That would be a horrible dream. How could you even look at your girlfriend after a dream like that? *chills running up my back*

 

[zeppelin68]

Thanks for the advice guys. I've been thinking about it, and I think it may just be that I'm nervous about it, because she's more special to me than any girl I've ever dated, or had sex with.

She's the one that I've been thinking could be 'mrs. right' you know. So we've been taking our time, we want it to be really special and all that junk, not just a first nighter or something.

I think I might let it pass by. I'll keep thinking about it, I might tell her. Thanks for the advice though.

 

[Skyraider22]

Really it is nothing you are going to have dreams like that about her hell I'm married and every one in a while I have dreams about my wife but it is nothing really :hatsoff:

 

[zeppelin68]

Yeah, I've had sex dreams many times before, but, usually it's just some odd thing like about a girl back in high school or, someone I dated for a week or something. But, yeah, I think it probably is nothing, just that I think about her so much that it created a dream.

 

[DOA82]

Let me guess this right, you had a sex dream....about a girl....whoopie fuckin do!

If you start having dreams about having sex with her brother while her mums directs as your girlfriend holds the video camera, then book yourself in for therapy, in the mean time, jerk off, roll over and go back to sleep.

 

[Funkwerkz]

You are loving her unconsciously too. That's an awesome stuff. Mention this to her, she might have the same for you too. For fuck's sake, have it soon.

 

[zeppelin68]

Yeah, but it's more than that DOA. It's not just one of the dreams that you pass off like that, I know what you're talking about, I've had those many times. It wasn't just 'a girl', she's like the most amazing girl in my life.

Haha Funk, I am planning on it soon. It's getting very distressing, after this much time.

 

[biomech]

If you start having dreams about having sex with her brother while her mums directs as your girlfriend holds the video camera.

And the talent agent ask's "What do you call yourselves"?
The Aristocrats!!

 

[DOA82]

Yeah, but it's more than that DOA. It's not just one of the dreams that you pass off like that, I know what you're talking about, I've had those many times. It wasn't just 'a girl', she's like the most amazing girl in my life.

Haha Funk, I am planning on it soon. It's getting very distressing, after this much time.

I fail to see the distinction. In the past your mind, when in a horny enough state will probably pick a girl you have an attraction to, like youve said it could be any random from your past or present.

Now you have a girl readily on your mind, and I imagine you are in an aroused state as a side effect of the lack of sex you so readily crave.

Your horny, shes there, so as matter of convenience you will dream about having sex with her. Im curious to what you mean by, could it mean something else, since when did having a sex dream have a secret meaning?

 

[jakeballs77]

Don't waste time talking to us, talk to her. Chances are she feels the same and is as unsure as you. If you don't sieze the moment it may pass and you'll just be best friends forever. Just have sex or whatever, if it's good you'll be fine, if not you may have problems. Better to know now than later

 

[zeppelin68]

I guess you guys are right...

I'll might talk to her tomorrow morning, as if I had the dream tonight, it's a bit late right now.

I'll keep thinking on it though.

 

[joelucas]

Talk to her if you feel comfortable about it or wait until after you finally have sex.

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[mrtrebus]

Tell her.
If she doesn't get the message & put out then next time you see her tell her about another dream you had. One in which she declined to have sex with you so you kidnapped her family tied them up & forced her to watch as you systematically tortured & slaughtered them like pigs before slicing off your own genitals forcefeeding them to her before shooting your own brains out!
Hey presto! she will be your sex slave forever!


well, it worked for me.

 

[Boothbabe]

She's the one that I've been thinking could be 'mrs. right' you know. So we've been taking our time, we want it to be really special and all that junk, not just a first nighter or something.

Sex can bring people closer together then anything else in the world because it's also one of the most intimate things in the world. If you think she could be mrs.right and she feels the same way about you it won't get any more special if you wait. You could actually be holding of taking your relationship to the next level precisely because sex is so intimate.