What if you found out that the woman you have been dating was a man?

[McRocket]

What if you had gone out with a woman that you were very attracted to? She looks very feminine. You have had sex and it was great. And you really like her - but you are not in love yet; but you honestly think she might be the one.
And then she tells you she thinks she might be falling love with you AND that she was a man but had a sex change.

What do you do?

(this can be in reverse for the ladies, obviously)

 

[pussy+dickdenice]

Its a difficult situation, to visualise that is. And a difficult choice.

I think I will go on seeing her. If i'm feeling the way that has been described. I'm sure there will be good reason to do that.

And in that case the person's past will not affevt me adversely.

 

[member20672]

If I felt there was a connection, then I would most likely continue the relationship. But still the thoughts would stew around in my head.

 

[Civickiller80]

To be totally honest it would gross me out...i dont know why but I counldnt continue the relationship....I would break it off...sure that might be shallow but that is my honest opinion...i would see old pictures of "Paul" before she became "Paula" and that would be a huge turn-off for me...I like my women 100% born and raised...

 

[Calm]

A friend asked me about this like a week ago; she wasn't surprised at all that I'd dump the guy in a heart beat.
It may seem superficial and you could say I might love him but that's crossing the red line for me.

 

[Imagine]

I'd probably end it. That I wasn't told about it sooner would piss me off quite a lot, and call me picky if you want, but I prefer women with all original parts. If I was told about it upfront and there is no major anatomical differences (as seems to be the case here), I don't know what I would do.

 

[SeraphiM]

I would likely end the realtionship.
The lack of honesty would be the main issue with me.
Another thing would be my desire to have children.

 

[D-rock]

The mere fact that the relationship wasn't built on honesty would be enough to break it off. Even if we forgot about the other things if the person could lie before what is to say that it wouldn't happen again.

(That would have to be one hell of a sex change by the way)

 

[stek1983]

I'd end it!

option 1 -- "continue to date her"
????????????

 

[juballs]

i would end it... immediately!

 

[om3ga]

I would End it -

Prior to having sex, I was left with the (mistaken) impression that I was dating a biological woman. Also, I was only made aware after having sex, not before.
And as AH mentioned, the thought that Glenda was born Glen would prey on my nerves no end.....

 

[Rastagir]

All of you guys should watch "The Crying Game"....If "she" was everything I was searching in a woman....I don't know. It's one of those things that you can't say "I would do this or that", until it actually happens to you

 

[member20672]

If I felt there was a connection, then I would most likely continue the relationship. But still the thoughts would stew around in my head.

Well the thoughts have still stewed, and after reading others post, I fell oddly different. I could understand how others wouldn't like the dishonesty, but at the same token, I wouldn't even begin to fathom what it would be like to date, let alone be in a relationship with such a past. However, being in such a relationship as I'm in, honesty doesn't come up much, with the amount of trust we have. But on the topic, and after review, I would still be weary of a decision. But all-and-all, I would geuss that my inner feelings wouldn't want me to continue with this relationship:2 cents:

 

[member20672]

All of you guys should watch "The Crying Game"....If "she" was everything I was searching in a woman....I don't know. It's one of those things that you can't say "I would do this or that", until it actually happens to you

Strangely enough, that movie came to mind. I've never seen in it, but am familiar with its reference in the movie, "Shallow Hal."

 

[om3ga]

Strangely enough, that movie came to mind. I've never seen in it, but am familiar with its reference in the movie, "Shallow Hal."

And "Ace Ventura 1"....

 

[CityOfCompton]

It'd be like something stright out of a DMX song.

It would end, with violence.

 

[Porn_Lover]

To be totally honest it would gross me out...

Same here. End it on the spot.

 

[Chrism86354]

i'm not gay so i dont date guys, or date girls that used to be guys, so i would instantly end the relationship.

 

[SeraphiM]

I guess I could understand the initial reluctance to tell the other person you were once a man, but once the relationship turned "serious" and I was told, IMO the other person should respect my decision and be understanding of it.

 

[Peter Gazinya]

Mcrocket - did this happen to you lately or slow day at work?