What have you done when you had a crush on someone?

There seems to be this really cute girl at my office who just started to catch my eye recently, with me thinking she was average in the past.

When you encounter someone you really like, what did you do and how did it turn out--I wanna know. :)
 
listen to emo music.
 
listen to emo music.

:rofl: That's AWESOME! What a great response.

Seriously- try some of these crazy, wacky things:

Talk to her
Talk to her
Say something to her
See if she might like to go out some time
Ask her out
Maybe introduce yourself to her.

If none of those work, try talking to her.

There's no clever way to pull something off, Kuyt. Why wait and give some other dude the chance to get in the way? Be yourself, don't try to go out of your way to seem cool or impressive, and just say hello!

H
 
Aww, come on. Any time I can see emo music made fun of gives me a laugh. :glugglug:

H

okay. you got me there. i thought you were being serious. my bad. i am sorry.


now what this dude should do is, wait. he wants to know what i did. well, what i did was some rails. but, do not repeat what i did.
 
okay. you got me there. i thought you were being serious. my bad. i am sorry.


now what this dude should do is, wait. he wants to know what i did. well, what i did was some rails. but, do not repeat what i did.

Heck no- I'm rarely serious. Just ask my wife. :rolleyes:

I think what he should do is talk to this chicky. There is nothing to gain by hanging around and wondering what would happen if he talked to her.

TALK TO HER- the best way to find out if anything's going to happen.

H
 
Heck no- I'm rarely serious. Just ask my wife. :rolleyes:

I think what he should do is talk to this chicky. There is nothing to gain by hanging around and wondering what would happen if he talked to her.

TALK TO HER- the best way to find out if anything's going to happen.

H

again, you have given the only advice that matters. just talk to her kyut. what is going to go wrong? she isnt going to hate you.
 

member2013

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It depends on the physical-appearance - of the type of woman. Certainly, whenever we are in the proximity of other humans, we can pick out many that we would, ‘have sex with.’ Some we find to be cute, some we find to be pretty, and some we find to be obsessively-attractive. The ones that we find to be obsessively-attractive, we are likely to concoct very sensationalistic, and romanticist-fantasies of. As pathological, and bizarre; as that is. :1orglaugh
 

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My best advice is always the same. Don't approach it as it as a major life changing experience. Its meeting a new acquaintance, not proposing. Sometimes people make things more complicated than they are.

Just start a simple conversation, a few lines here and there in passing for a week or so. Don't make her feel pinned or that you're moving on her. Keep it light, getting to know her person. You yourself must mentally set yourself to getting to know a new "friend" If you dive in thinking about only sexing her or "true love" you will drown before you're wet. After a time asked her to lunch if that goes well a few times then try dinner and a movie maybe.

Everyone should concentrate on making a good friend of someone before getting in so deep. Strong friendship and that type bonding sets the best foundation for a deeper relationship down the line. If its to get deeper, it will happen in time naturally. Some things shouldn't be hurried or forced. I've quoted that old Tanya Tucker song a dozen times here. lol

"If it don't come easy, you better let it go. 'Cos when it don't come easy, there's no natural flow." ;)

LL
 
You should start out with some light stalking. When she's not around, go through her garbage and collect any thing that has been in contact with her mouth. You are going to want to keep this for the altar you are going to make in her honor in your closet. Next, find out where she lives. This girl is going to be your obsession, so you have to know everything about her. Again, you are going to want to go through her garbage. Personal items, like use tampons, are gold. You Might want to buy one of those small cameras too.
And if this girl is going to save you, you have to give her what she wants....you.
 
And,

As with all potential "relationships" at work - exercise caution.

cheers,
 
Don't forget to just be yourself. Most people can't act, so when you're trying to impress, or be somebody you just aren't, it's going to show through. Besides, all that says is "I don't like myself that much, so I'm going to pretend to be somebody you would like better".
 

L3ggy

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Never had a crush but if i had one i would prolly listen to Gn'R or Reggae
 

meesterperfect

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And,

As with all potential "relationships" at work - exercise caution.

cheers,
Yeah tell me about it. I once asked a woman at work that I wasn't even interested in but had seen at the gym "So, you go to the gym?"
10 minutes later I was in the office getting a lecture on sexual harrassment.:confused:
 
Stupid question...Just talk to her... Nothing will happen if you don't talk to her... Introduce yourself to her...Don't expect her to fall in love with you if you don't do anything!

Personally, I never had any problem with getting girls that I had a big crush on because I always try really hard to get them! I try everything until I get them!;)

Just try yourself out!
 

L3ggy

Special Operations FOX-HOUND
Yeah tell me about it. I once asked a woman at work that I wasn't even interested in but had seen at the gym "So, you go to the gym?"
10 minutes later I was in the office getting a lecture on sexual harrassment.:confused:

:confused: that ain't sexuall harrassments...thats weird...
 
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