What Do You Look For In a Woman?

[drf]

I'm just curious, what's the number one thing you find most attractive, and least attractive in a woman, personality-wise? I've been single for about four years now. Today I was a hot. mess.

This thread also has a second title:
HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME. :|

What I find most attractive in a woman is intellegence, confidence in herself; she has to be her own person, independence, and strength of character oh, and a wicked sense of humor is a major turn on.
Least attractive is weakness, I find that girls who are weak and depend on others to take care of them because they are incapable of doing it themselves is a major turn off to me.
By the way there is not a damn thing wrong with you Kimora. You got a good head on your shoulders and any guy would be lucky as hell to be with you.

 

[STDiva]

I want a woman who isn't afraid to cry in front of me. I want a woman who isn't embarassed to tell me everything about herself; her hopes, her fears, her dreams, her fantasies, everything. I want a woman who doesn't hesitate to come to me for help. I want a woman that I can trust; one that I can believe. I want a woman who is faithful to me, us and our relationship. I want a woman who doesn't play games; one that takes relationships seriously and won't string me along just because she wants to have fun.

I want a woman that isn't afraid to laugh, especially at herself. I want a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, knowing that I love her just the way she is. I want a woman that feels beautiful, no matter what she is wearing or what her hair looks like. I want a woman who doesn't take life too seriously; just serious enough. I want a woman that I can just sit quietly with for hours on end, knowing that she is having the time of her life.

I want a woman who will accept me for my faults and see me for who I really am. I want a woman who has faith in me. I want a woman who will pick me up when I fall and hold my hand when I'm running. I want a woman that can see past tomorrow and picture a future with me.

I want a woman who will open her arms for me when I am need. I want a woman that will make me feel safe and comfortable, even at my most vulnerable moments. I want a woman who can dry my tears with her presence. I want a woman who won't tell me that it will be ok; I want a woman that lets me know that it is ok.

I want a woman who loves me for me and one who knows that I love her for her.

Who are you kidding? You want a man.

 

[Lust]

oh the usual, a pulse. (i can be flexible on that as well)

 

[ChefChiTown]

Who are you kidding? You want a man.

Whatcher man got ta do wit me? I got man.

...and, I won't name names, but his name rhymes with ClueBalls.

 

[Joorpe]

Honesty, and a good personality. I'm a sucker for beautiful eyes too.

 

[YumiYumi_1988]

Sense of humor, not quiet nor loud, and beautiful eyes that draw you in. And Cute > Hot.