I left her a detailed message on the site a long time ago from one of her emo blogs telling her some suggestions and ideas and even good content providers and do you know what happened?... it got deleted and she had said later on in a chat that people were too hard and giving her too much grief and she couldnt take it.
If someone is actually giving you ideas and asking for something, listen to it and go for it. Maybe not topless but Ive seen many good photoset ideas the members would ask or suggest for and she blows it away like nothing and instead does something else that blows or is a complete bore to look at. She wonders why no one wants to join and she is losing money.
Inconsistent updates and schedules, ignoring fans and requests, poor attitude, and an unstable site that crashes are just a few of the reasons people dont care. If she wants the fame people like Jordan Carver and people have then she is going to have to actually get up off her lazy rear and put some effort into it! Going on vacations and not doing ANYTHING except crappy chats for the site isnt going to cut it. Girl needs to get a clue about how to run a business and actually try to work on it and not half-ass it 90% of the time and whine and cry when it doesnt work out!