I hate to do this to you my Jibbity Jibbster, but, although your advice is very well thought out, I find it to be extremely inaccurate, in a weird sort of way...
Because it's people who act holier than thou that brings down what freedoms humans really have. Because of all these retarded rules that people believe should be put in place, our society is royally fucked. No one is allowed to expand their mind without censorship, and I feel sorry for those of you who feel that way.
That's true. People who live life on a pedestal are the ones who are the
major contributors to the overall downfall of society.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but when you say "people who act holier than thou", you are referring to people who have,
what some would call, "high standards"; the people who believe that having sex is something
more than just
fucking, the people who believe that virginity (and losing it) is a
special thing (etc), correct?
Well, I don't think that
those people are the ones who act holier than thou. The people who act holier than thou are the people who follow society with a blind eye and
judge people who
don't do the same. It's not the "nice guys", who genuinely follow their hearts, that are on a pedestal; it's the stuck-up bitches who worship society and act as if they are too good for them and never give them the time of day.
It's time to stop being pussies, and do shit to enhance your life to the fullest. Instead of whining about how you can't get women because you are a nice guy, and you don't believe in "using" women for sex, do something about it. That's the biggest line of bullshit, and deep down you know it.
It's
far from bullshit and
I know it.
I'm 27 years old. I have
always been one of the "nice guys", ever since I can remember. I know this sounds odd, coming from a member on a porn forum, but I respect women more than most everyone I have ever met. I treat women better than most everyone I have ever met. I give women what they need, I don't treat them as objects and I don't "use" women to any degree. With that being said...
I can say,
in all honesty, without
any exaggeration at all, that girls treat the "nice guys" with
complete disrespect and
consistently judge them on societally influenced, pre-conceived notions that "nice guys" are nothing but sappy, overly-emotional, clingy momma's boys. I am
none of those things, but yet, I get treated as such. Why? Because "nice guys"
do get treated like shit and there is no way to argue that.
PS - I'm just wondering; when you say "do something about it", what
exactly do you mean? Do you mean, "stop being so nice and start acting like an asshole, so girls will like you", oooooor...:dunno:
Not every single relationship is based off the fantastical movies where the guy is a hopelessy romantic man, who says all the right things at exactly the right times, and they're all so nice and everything. What you fail to see is that, that stuff does not work when first meeting a girl, and trying to get into a relationship with them, that only works when conflict in a relationship happens. Furthermore, if you would actually pay attention to the whole picture, you would see that the main guy is always witty, funny, always busts on her, and does some of the strangest things that attracts her.
You actually make a good point there. It's true that relationships aren't
always based on the "proper" conditions. In all honesty, I would go as far to say that
most relationships are based on completely
fucked up conditions.
Whether a relationship is based on nothing but great sex, sexy looks, money or possessions,
more often than not, that relationship won't work out in the long run.
I find your attitude, and most of the "kids" in here to be that of grade 6. Because you won't grow up and take responsibility for your own manhood. Still suckin on mommys tit. The world isn't full of rainbows and butterflies and happy woodlife creatures. Get with the program. It would be great to be able to be nice and appreciated for it, but that's now how today's society is, and for now you have to adapt to it. Being nice was the past, being an asshole is the present. Get over the past and upgrade.
That's the problem...people change in order to fit in with society and it's ridiculous ideals, which just causes the world to be filled up with a bunch of numb-minded slaves that will do anything society tells it to, without thinking for themselves and following their hearts. If people would STOP doing that, and actually stick to their
own beliefs and
own morals, then life
just might be full of rainbows and butterflies.
The people who
truly need to "upgrade" are the pieces of shit who act like society is their mother and shuns everyone who doesn't follow the "in" crowd, just to be cool for the time being. Fads go away, society changes and the people who follow it will never find themselves, leaving them with a huge, gaping emptiness that needs to be filled. Unfortunately, society tells them to fill that emptiness by acting like untouchable gods who are supreme beings compared to everyone else.
:2 cents:
I'm almost getting sick of trying to tell people that they have to take a stand for themselves instead of letting people trample all over them. Our world is becoming a bunch of pussies. The women are becoming more dominant, and it fucks with the male psyche. We are basically having to adapt our game to suit their needs. And currently, they don't feel the need to be attracted to a guy who is clingy, cares way too much, and will do anything for them at the drop of a hat. There is no challenge there, and there's hordes of guys who will do the same stuff for them. Everyone want's someone who is different from the rest. So be different.
Wrong. Everyone wants someone who is
exactly like everybody else. If that wasn't true, then I would be a fucking hot commodity...but, I'm not. Why? because I'm
different from the rest. I'm not the cheesy, douche baggy, collegiate hat wearing asshole with shitty tattoos, that chugs Jagerbombs and treats women like sex dolls; guys like
that are found
everywhere and,
for the most part (from what I've seen),
that's what women go for.
Not me...them. Once again, because
I'm the one who is
different, which is
not what women want.
(I still relish in your balls)
