I didn't say anything disrespectful to them. I just asked them if they will do IR. How is asking a porn star if they will do IR disrespectful? I bet if I asked if they will do anal, you will not find that disrespectful.
I did not say it was disrespectful to ask someone. I just pointed out that you are working your way down a list....... an agenda.
As for me, you are the same guy that started in on me at the Tanya Harding thread. You can ask the same question 10 different ways... you are not getting a different response.
So... my questions...
Who is the supposed friend?
Who is the 'we' that you are gathering info with?
PS is this a good time to ask if you are interested in a website membership?