I thought about this because I saw another thread concerned about dick size. Who cares? Guys that worry about their dicks or their looks just don't get it. Game isn't about your looks; it's about what you say and with what attitude.
Did anyone see Vh1's show "The Pickup Artist"? It sounds exactly like what it was. It was a reality show where a man tries to teach a bunch of losers how to pick up women. The whole show was different lessons on how to get a woman. It sounded stupid, but I watched almost every episode. I'm telling you, everything the guy taught works. I've used it over and over and it seriously works. He also had a ton of technical terms, and I'll share a few. Here are some of the things he taught but I could literally write 4 times what I'm about to write:
What a woman wants in a man is completely irrelevant. You don't care what women want. You have to have the attitude that you're worthy and she probably will think you're worthy. If not, then you just move on. It's a numbers game just like in sales calls. The trick is not to try to make yourself good enough but make her think she's got to be good enough for you. You don't tell her how beautiful she is, you say "so what you got going on besides your looks." Why say this? For one, it establishes that you're physically interested in her but you're waiting to see if she's good enough for you. At this point, she's automatically "qualifying" herself to you. She's trying to be good enough for you rather than vice versa (because most women/men want others to want them). It also takes a lot of balls to do that and women like confidence. If all you do is try to give compliments you convince her of what you're saying (how much better she is than you) and how much better she can do than you. Instead on increasing her "value" (his term), you take pot shots at it so that she tries to be good enough for you. That's why guys who make fun of girls in the flirting stage get the girl.
He showed you ways of picking up girls who are in "sets" (not alone). How you can't wait for the girl to leave her set (in a coffee shop/club) to go to the bathroom so that you can have a one-on-one chance to talk to her. The reason is because she's a "moving target."
If you approach a set, you can't go up and say "hi I'm John Doe." Small talk is a game killer. Who you are and what you do is boring. You have to have a lead in and the weather isn't a lead in. One lead in they used a lot on the show was "a made up fight." If a guy goes up to a set of girls and says something like "hey did you guys see that fight outside," the girls are instantly going to be interested. Why? The same reason you were in 6th grade when it happened at school. People love fights and love hearing about them. When the story is over, you have to be ready with a "transition" line because otherwise you'll have that awkward moment of silence. A good transition would be something like "your nose crinkles when you smile." Why? She'll smile right then, so you've got your interesting intro, transitioned, and got her qualifying herself right then (because even though a crinkly nose isn't a negative thing, she'll take it that way). Also, when you first go up, don't face the girls. Half face them and half point your body in the direction you're going to be going soon. The reason is that you need to give the appearance that you're about to leave the set to meet up with your friends. You make them think your friends are waiting on you (friends waiting on you increases your value).
Okay, that's enough for now, but the guy had a million lessons and I've tried a bunch of the stuff and most of it works. Anybody else have some "game" advice.
Did anyone see Vh1's show "The Pickup Artist"? It sounds exactly like what it was. It was a reality show where a man tries to teach a bunch of losers how to pick up women. The whole show was different lessons on how to get a woman. It sounded stupid, but I watched almost every episode. I'm telling you, everything the guy taught works. I've used it over and over and it seriously works. He also had a ton of technical terms, and I'll share a few. Here are some of the things he taught but I could literally write 4 times what I'm about to write:
What a woman wants in a man is completely irrelevant. You don't care what women want. You have to have the attitude that you're worthy and she probably will think you're worthy. If not, then you just move on. It's a numbers game just like in sales calls. The trick is not to try to make yourself good enough but make her think she's got to be good enough for you. You don't tell her how beautiful she is, you say "so what you got going on besides your looks." Why say this? For one, it establishes that you're physically interested in her but you're waiting to see if she's good enough for you. At this point, she's automatically "qualifying" herself to you. She's trying to be good enough for you rather than vice versa (because most women/men want others to want them). It also takes a lot of balls to do that and women like confidence. If all you do is try to give compliments you convince her of what you're saying (how much better she is than you) and how much better she can do than you. Instead on increasing her "value" (his term), you take pot shots at it so that she tries to be good enough for you. That's why guys who make fun of girls in the flirting stage get the girl.
He showed you ways of picking up girls who are in "sets" (not alone). How you can't wait for the girl to leave her set (in a coffee shop/club) to go to the bathroom so that you can have a one-on-one chance to talk to her. The reason is because she's a "moving target."
If you approach a set, you can't go up and say "hi I'm John Doe." Small talk is a game killer. Who you are and what you do is boring. You have to have a lead in and the weather isn't a lead in. One lead in they used a lot on the show was "a made up fight." If a guy goes up to a set of girls and says something like "hey did you guys see that fight outside," the girls are instantly going to be interested. Why? The same reason you were in 6th grade when it happened at school. People love fights and love hearing about them. When the story is over, you have to be ready with a "transition" line because otherwise you'll have that awkward moment of silence. A good transition would be something like "your nose crinkles when you smile." Why? She'll smile right then, so you've got your interesting intro, transitioned, and got her qualifying herself right then (because even though a crinkly nose isn't a negative thing, she'll take it that way). Also, when you first go up, don't face the girls. Half face them and half point your body in the direction you're going to be going soon. The reason is that you need to give the appearance that you're about to leave the set to meet up with your friends. You make them think your friends are waiting on you (friends waiting on you increases your value).
Okay, that's enough for now, but the guy had a million lessons and I've tried a bunch of the stuff and most of it works. Anybody else have some "game" advice.
