When you are in a relationship everyday should have something happen that shows you love your partner whether it's a 'I Love You', some kissing before going to or after getting home from work, or just generally appreciating each other and what you do. Having said that, there is nothing wrong with doing something on valentines and here's what I feel is a good way to spend valentines.
Of course getting it on is a must but start the morning off by caressing and teasing your partner so that they get in the mood. As you will be spending the day with them make sure you plan something the both of you will like, maybe take a nice drive to the beach, visit a museum or even just spend the day out for a relaxing walk. Don't shower your partner with lots of gifts or go too extravagant, flowers and a well thought out single gift can be just a good as a many gifts or lots of expensive items.
As you are going through the day keep the teasing going, maybe start the day with a small things, then as the day goes on work up to something bigger.
You will have several meals throughout the day from lunch to dinner, lunch can be at a nice cafe/restaurant maybe somewhere with nice views. When it comes to dinner don't have one person doing all the work, turn the cooking into a couples thing. Get sensual with doing certain things, play with food seductively, kiss and caress each other throughout.
As the evening goes on slip into something things your partner finds sexy like special lingerie or such like and get comfy on the sofa, with a glass of something to drink and good music playing in the background. Continue kissing and caressing taking things a bit further till you can't hold back any longer and then just 'Get it on' Have a few new toys to play with or do something a bi more special than just everyday sex. Once your are done, grab some more drink and cuddle up in bed with your partner for more kissing wind the night down .
You will hopefully have a smile on your face at the end of it all, and when you get to falling asleep you will hopefully do so with your arm around your partner and that will be that.
Of course getting it on is a must but start the morning off by caressing and teasing your partner so that they get in the mood. As you will be spending the day with them make sure you plan something the both of you will like, maybe take a nice drive to the beach, visit a museum or even just spend the day out for a relaxing walk. Don't shower your partner with lots of gifts or go too extravagant, flowers and a well thought out single gift can be just a good as a many gifts or lots of expensive items.
As you are going through the day keep the teasing going, maybe start the day with a small things, then as the day goes on work up to something bigger.
You will have several meals throughout the day from lunch to dinner, lunch can be at a nice cafe/restaurant maybe somewhere with nice views. When it comes to dinner don't have one person doing all the work, turn the cooking into a couples thing. Get sensual with doing certain things, play with food seductively, kiss and caress each other throughout.
As the evening goes on slip into something things your partner finds sexy like special lingerie or such like and get comfy on the sofa, with a glass of something to drink and good music playing in the background. Continue kissing and caressing taking things a bit further till you can't hold back any longer and then just 'Get it on' Have a few new toys to play with or do something a bi more special than just everyday sex. Once your are done, grab some more drink and cuddle up in bed with your partner for more kissing wind the night down .
You will hopefully have a smile on your face at the end of it all, and when you get to falling asleep you will hopefully do so with your arm around your partner and that will be that.