A large suitcase filled with cash, (large bills please), and a one way ticket to Bora Bora.
Ultimate fantasy??
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A large suitcase filled with cash, (large bills please), and a one way ticket to Bora Bora.
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Don't say one word to him for a whole entire day. I guarantee that satisfies his most desired fantasy.
It doesn't just have to be about an ultimate fantasy,sometimes it doesn't work the way you expected. Threesomes need a lot of trust but I can agree with you there squallumz, good points.:thumbsup:
My wife and myself always try new things in the bedroom. The latest thing that was the biggest turn on for me was when she said I was not allowed to touch her until she said so.
She performed all types of massages leading up to foreplay before stepping it up a gear to rubbing her clit and pussy with my cock and touching herself whislt squatting over my face, using toys etc.
Remebmer, I was not allowed to touch her at all or else she would stop and the lights were off for bedtime.
As I was a good boy and did exactly as she said, I got the best sexual pleasure I have ever had. Oh! It works the other way round too.
The best thing to remember is that nothing is too daring, enjoy yourselves!
If you're unsure, DON'T do it. It's not worth risking your family and ten years of marriage for one night of cheap thrills. It sounds like your husband could be the reluctant one.
I suspect he might be feeling the same way I do about it. I enjoy the MFF fantasy, but only if I was single with girls who understood it was nothing serious. It's definitely not something I want to do with my long-term girlfriend. I'd worry that she'd end up feeling jealous (a completely natural emotion in such a situation), but I also I enjoy the fact that it's just the two of us. It would just feel awkward to have another girl with us who couldn't share in the bond that we as a couple have with one another. It just wouldn't have the same energy that I enjoy when it's just her. *shrugs*
There has to be a distinction between reality and fantasy. What one fantasises about wouldn't always work in practice.
So take the threesome idea. All very nice in fantasy. But when one girl is your wife, and the other a stripper!? So how is your wife going to feel if you give too much attention to the stripper? And that's only a question for starters. Once you've set a precedent, how does sex compare afterwards without the stripper? Does this mean that threesomes are something one will do regularly?
Frankly, I think this is just too whacky. If the threesome was with two fictional/fantasy girls, who you don't know, and there are no feelings to be hurt, then that would be one thing (better make sure both are strippers). But mixing reality with fantasy, having a threesome with your wife, I think that is frankly crazy, and could lead to a lot of hurt feelings.
So take the threesome idea. All very nice in fantasy. But when one girl is your wife, and the other a stripper!? So how is your wife going to feel if you give too much attention to the stripper? And that's only a question for starters. Once you've set a precedent, how does sex compare afterwards without the stripper? Does this mean that threesomes are something one will do regularly?
Frankly, I think this is just too whacky. If the threesome was with two fictional/fantasy girls, who you don't know, and there are no feelings to be hurt, then that would be one thing (better make sure both are strippers). But mixing reality with fantasy, having a threesome with your wife, I think that is frankly crazy, and could lead to a lot of hurt feelings.
Fantasy tends to be provoked by looking at porn, certainly it does for me. So I am so totally turned on by a guy taking a girl from behind while she is standing up, wearing high heels, and looking over her shoulder at the guy who is entering her.
But in reality ... it is very hard work in that position, and I find it impossible to come. So I am convinced there are areas where fantasy and reality belong to different realms.
That said, a lot of you guys are lucky to have such adventurous wives and girl-friends. There are a lot of us who meet a brick wall of opposition to anything remotely smacking of porn immitation. So clearly, for some, fantasy and reality do at least get a bit closer together than they do for others!
But in reality ... it is very hard work in that position, and I find it impossible to come. So I am convinced there are areas where fantasy and reality belong to different realms.
That said, a lot of you guys are lucky to have such adventurous wives and girl-friends. There are a lot of us who meet a brick wall of opposition to anything remotely smacking of porn immitation. So clearly, for some, fantasy and reality do at least get a bit closer together than they do for others!
Do you and your husband have shared interests? Maybe you both play tennis and you can do some role-playing involving you both driving to a tennis court but you take the wrong turn and instead decide to pull over to some secluded spot and bang the shit out of each other....
I think 3-somes are not UNIVERSAL MALE FANTASIES...they are only for certain people. Based on the way you presented this topic I think it's a waste of your time to even entertain the idea of it.
Go with some sort of role-playing...make it fun and goofy...you can be Hillary Clinton and you can be really pissed off at your "Bill" for him fucking an intern. Maybe you go rent some porno and pretend it's a copy of a film he made and you want to show Bill that you're much better then all the women he's banged...Role playing makes dirty talking much easier to think about.
Oral is good too...you can try to do things maybe you haven't tried in awhile..deepthroating...facial...take the load in your mouth but slurp it out over your boobs...then go take a shower together...
Go into your local porn shop and ask the dude behind the counter what is a good film to learn some good dirty talking off of...Porn is being "normalized" enough that you can go in with courage and expect some honest assistance today..
I think 3-somes are not UNIVERSAL MALE FANTASIES...they are only for certain people. Based on the way you presented this topic I think it's a waste of your time to even entertain the idea of it.
Go with some sort of role-playing...make it fun and goofy...you can be Hillary Clinton and you can be really pissed off at your "Bill" for him fucking an intern. Maybe you go rent some porno and pretend it's a copy of a film he made and you want to show Bill that you're much better then all the women he's banged...Role playing makes dirty talking much easier to think about.
Oral is good too...you can try to do things maybe you haven't tried in awhile..deepthroating...facial...take the load in your mouth but slurp it out over your boobs...then go take a shower together...
Go into your local porn shop and ask the dude behind the counter what is a good film to learn some good dirty talking off of...Porn is being "normalized" enough that you can go in with courage and expect some honest assistance today..
that supposed to be funny? It was.:eek:
I know it sounds typical, but a threesome is a big fantasy for men. It can be done, and most often times without repercussion. I have had mostly 2 couple interaction mmff with wifeswapping. I technically had one threesome with no sex with the other girl and only my wife. We are still happily married with no repercussions. You just have to find a person or even a couple that you and your husband both find attractive and get into it. No regrets. You have to be comfortable with that other girl first and let him get comfy next.
well my ultimate fantasy is fucking 5 women ( you know like the lucky man series ) but that is probarly not in Kelly's thoughts.
