I have no issues with the way the US is handling this. There isn't much we're going to do. There isn't any real interest - I have no desire to see anyone I know go to war in the Ukraine.
I'm not sure if I agree with all of the economic assessments I'm seeing here. If we want to play the worry game with Russia, we may want to reverse our course on military spending (I'm not a big fan of this), Drill baby Drilly, put the pipeline in place, continue with all of the international moves against Russia, and basically relax and not get so upset about them. They are not that big of a deal from our (The U.S.) perspective. I've been there, I'm not impressed. Impressed with the people, not impressed with the governments there they run the place into the ground.
Looking in the Mirror. What if there was a bit of a revolution in Canada or Mexico that created unrest on our borders. What would we do?
For Canada, if they were in that mess (which they aren't and I don't see them ever being there), we may very well do something. Ethnically we're fairly aligned. If the US can't love Canada, we're incapable of loving. We love them so much we failed invading them twice. However, if there was a mess up there, I think we would stick our noses in it one way or the other. Either as a brother looking to help or a greedy bastard.
For Mexico, call me prejudice, but I don't think we would respond the same way. I think we would be less interested either in benevolence or in greed. We'd probably just put up more of a wall and do whatever we could to keep the violence away from us.
I don't think Russia is playing fair. They are occupying the region and there are votes being taken if they want to join Russia. Doesn't seem quite kosher to me. However, they are ethnically and culturally aligned. I was in the Eastern Asia part of Russia (closer to Anchorage than Moscow), which is a continent away from the Ukraine and conversationally more than a few people told me about their family in the Ukraine. So, I think there is more to it than what CNN, Fox, and MSNBC reports.