Iamforever
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thought i had already. apparently i was wrong.
some say, you get three true loves in your lifetime.
thought i had already. apparently i was wrong.
some say, you get three true loves in your lifetime.![]()
i hope you are right. ive only had one. i dont want another, let alone two others.some of those same people are often the ones that say leprechauns and pots of gold are real too.
:rofl: :wave:ok ok, attention all cynics of true love...GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rofl2:
That's an asinine thing to say. If someone feels differently than you they have no say? And why were you married to someone that wasn't your true love? And if you met your current "true love" when you were married how is it that you became eligible? Did you divorce and then start dating?ok ok, attention all cynics of true love...GET OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:rofl2:
Yes, it is NOT directed at anyone in particular.First. This post is NOT directed at anyone in particular.
But with all due respect, no one can ever be sure they found their 'one true love'.
One would have to be pretty arrogant or ignorant to seriously state that they know that they have found their one and only true love.
You're neither, just like myself.would i be arrogant or ignorant then?
Agreed, out of purse, simple, mathematical probability.Their is no doubt about it. The odds are incredibly strongly in favour that their are persons out there that you would be FAR better matches with.
No offense, but it's naive for you to continue to assume what you want.I am not typing that you people are not in love. I am just typing that to have not met 99.9999% of the eligible potential partners in the world and claim that the one you are with is 'the only one for me' is , IMO, naive in the extremis.
Re-read the six (6) sentences I wrote above.But if that naivety helps you sleep at night. Naive away.
Er, correction there, you mean 'one true love'.My point is, if you haven't found your true love. Don't worry, odds are almost no one else ever has or will either.
Yeah, and we're all naive and arrogant.Romantic aren't I?
Then she needs to consider what she has built with her husband.why does it stop with eligible women? what if my one true love is married like me?
Then apparently both you and I, among others, are 'naive' and 'arrogant'.I don't need to "know and meet every other woman on the planet" to come to that conclusion.
The sad thing is that we wish the same for you, but you don't seem to get that.And I do not doubt that she is 'just right' for you. My point was, is she the most 'just right' person for you in the entire world? And are you for her?
And my answer is that there is no way you could know that she is. You can just believe it.
But if that makes you all happy - and hurts no one - then power to you.
Fate and destiny, to some people, are what they make, not what someone else has written.Just to play "devil's advocate" here. I could say that some people wouldn't think that way because they might consider destiny and fate to be at work. Now I know some people might believe in that and some might not, but our whole understanding of love is a pretty enigmatic thing in the first place.
Divorce isn't as bad or as wrong as people make it out to be.Ok, MCR, no disrespect intended, that statement is pretty naive don't you think? What are the odds that any one of us will meet every single woman in the world? ZERO. My question to you would be, have you found what you THINK is your true love? If your answer is no, then your argument is not really valid because you have not experienced the feelings that those of us who believe we have found our true love have. You also cannot restrict it to "eligible" women, because the woman I am with now whom i know to be my true love, was married when we met and so was I.
Remember, 'true love' is NOT the same as '[only] one, true love'.That is another naive statement, let me ask you how do you know we cannot know? Because we haven't met every woman on the planet? Come on. Are you a spiritual person? If you are then you cannot have found your true love, because you would know.
I think I've stated the same with regards to McRocket in several threads now.If you are not a spiritual person, well I can't say much that will convince you otherwise, I just think your view on this is way, way to cynical. Do you think with this mode of thinking you could ever really be happy with someone?
I often say that :Then apparently both you and I, among others, are 'naive' and 'arrogant'.![]()
My father said the same thing.Love is a multifaceted, wonderful, glorious thing.
Heck, it redeemed me and made me believe in life again.
I think I've stated the same with regards to McRocket in several threads now.
I think his "agenda" isn't really or directly spiteful or rude on purpose, it's just a result of his own "misery."
He feels "bad" about so many things, so he loves to twist things that are pure joy for others into his collective pain.
After all, I'm arrogant and a braggart on this board, and I am reminded of that fact from him regularly.
He even got frustrated with me in a thread where he couldn't understand I wanted my wife over Kerry Marie, and tried to push me if my wife lost her breasts or had another, physical trama.
I'm not complaining about him other than wishing he could lose this "collective pain" he has built for himself.
And I honestly wish he could experience the joys many of us do.
That's an asinine thing to say. If someone feels differently than you they have no say? And why were you married to someone that wasn't your true love? And if you met your current "true love" when you were married how is it that you became eligible? Did you divorce and then start dating?
I'm sorry but I just feel you're being pretty obtuse about this-who are you to tell him he's wrong 100% any more then him telling you? At least he was going about it with some reasoning and not just discounting you and telling you to go off.
Yea, you do sound miserable...a house (that you designed, that I congratulate you on, that is a very cool thing), a car (i'm sorry a 500+ HP car....whooopee), money...if this is what makes you happy then you will never be truly happy. Material things and money are not what makes happiness, they make us secure and content, but not happy. But hey if it helps you sleep at night thinking your happy then continue to live in your naive world, as you said to us saps who believe in true love. The person you are with at the moment, do you see yourself without this person? Or could you easily dump them and move on? You can be rich, have the best of everything, but that won't make you happy.If you wish to discuss your theories about me, that's fine with me. It's almost flattering in a way.
But my only confusion is why you will gladly hijack threads to do it and yet when I offer to discuss it with you in pm's - you refuse.
As for my 'misery'.
I have my health (as far as I know), a 3 year old house (that I designed) in the city, a 500+ horsepower performance vehicle in the driveway, 500 grand in the bank, no ex-wives, no dependents and I have never been more content romantically or sexually.
Do I sound miserable to you?
Have a nice day.
We do and we will, and i'm sorry that you have not found it yet, and that you were hurt by someone who you cared about, but one or two heartaches doesn't mean you should just give up on it all, I truly hope you can find true love someday.if you guys wanna believe in that rose filled sunny sky bullshit then be my guest.
Where did I type that they make me happy? And btw, that 500 grand was once 800 grand+ - so give me time and it will be 200 grand - lol.Yea, you do sound miserable...a house (that you designed, that I congratulate you on, that is a very cool thing), a car (i'm sorry a 500+ HP car....whooopee), money...if this is what makes you happy then you will never be truly happy.
I agree 100%.Material things and money are not what makes happiness, they make us secure and content, but not happy.
You almost sound hopeful.But hey if it helps you sleep at night thinking your happy then continue to live in your naive world, as you said to us saps who believe in true love. The person you are with at the moment, do you see yourself without this person? Or could you easily dump them and move on? You can be rich, have the best of everything, but that won't make you happy.
Where did I type that they make me happy? I agree 100%.
You almost sound hopeful.![]()
And I never typed I was happy. I simply wished to offer evidence that I am far from miserable - which I am (far from it, I mean).
And I am truly sorry about sounding like I was bragging. I really am. Because NO ONE is ever better then anyone. And money has nothing to do with how good you are.
But I was tired of Prof. Voluptuary speaking for me when he doesn't even know me and yet claims (mostly wrongly) to know why I type the things I type.
I truly hope you are all in love. And I hope your partners are 'the one'. If everyone else is happy, then the world will just be a better place for me to live in.
But sometimes, ignorance is not bliss.
Have a loving day
Ok I may have read into your post more than I needed to and that's my bad. I didn't really get the impression you were bragging either, like i said, I read too much into the post, and I hate when i do that :error: As i stated, I think it's awesome that you live in a house you designed, and there is nothing wrong with being proud of that. I also hope that you find true love, even though you may not believe it exists.
First. This post is NOT directed at anyone in particular.
But with all due respect, no one can ever be sure they found their 'one true love'.
There are probably what? 100 or 200 million people in the world that any individual could date/marry. And each person meets and gets to know maybe what? A few hundred people well enough to know whether they would wish to spend their lives with them in their lifetime.
That means that most people will only get to know 1/1,000,000th of all the eligible persons in the world for them. One would have to be pretty arrogant or ignorant to seriously state that they know that they have found their one and only true love.
Their is no doubt about it. The odds are incredibly strongly in favour that their are persons out there that you would be FAR better matches with.
I am not typing that you people are not in love. I am just typing that to have not met 99.9999% of the eligible potential partners in the world and claim that the one you are with is 'the only one for me' is , IMO, naive in the extremis.
But if that naivety helps you sleep at night. Naive away.
My point is, if you haven't found your true love. Don't worry, odds are almost no one else ever has or will either.
Romantic aren't I?
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Fate brings them together
Have some faith!