topping out a girl's vagina?

[adri4you2004]

hey..woman's word here...em...i'd suggest going in at a different angle...have her lie on her back with her knees as close to her chest as possible...and you should go in from above....that way you don;t hit the upper wall of the vagina which is more sensitive...i know it works for me, and guys, if your ever with virgins, this is definetly the position to go...

 

[calpoon]

let me see the nicest way to say this... umm... maybe she just doesn't like having sex with you.

Its probably not you, so much as she just doesn't like having sex with men.

I'm not trying to be insulting, and I don't want to make assumptions, but I have known a few women that have not wanted to have sex or didn't enjoy it.

 

[gunslingingbird]

My girlfriend was a virgin. She says that it hurts her, like if someone punched her inside, so she doesnt let me do it. I wonder if other girls feel the same way and just take the punishment.

That's pretty much how my ex described it. It took her a good couple of months to get used to it, but she eventually did. Try doing just a little at a time. Don't expect to go balls-deep right away. Try doing a little bit at a time, however much she feels comfortable with, and only for as long as she can handle it. For my ex to get comfortable enough to have sex long enough for me to cum inside her it took a good few months because she would be sore for up to a week at time and she didn't wanna have sex. It's just a matter of her vaginal muscles getting used to being stretched in ways they haven't been stretched before.

Good luck. :hatsoff:

 

[calpoon]

how old is this guy and his girlfreind? you say she was a virign when you met? maybe I'm just disillusioned, but this doesn't sound like a problem for anyone above the age of 15.

 

[Ray Ecks]

Try sticking it in her ass.

 

[gunslingingbird]

how old is this guy and his girlfreind? you say she was a virign when you met? maybe I'm just disillusioned, but this doesn't sound like a problem for anyone above the age of 15.

My ex was 24 the first time she had sex. :love-smi:

 

[rjdogma]

My girlfriend is very small and tight down there, and I cant go in without causing her any harm. Not a big guy, just your average half-foot of meat; other girls were fine, but she's too short. What can a guy do?

I can give you a definitive answer on this.

Be patient. Things will stretch out.

Lube is a great suggestion. But unless she's really wet, try to keep from pounding the hell out of her.

She will loosen up over time. And having a kid will loosen her up even more.

Depth may continue to be an issue, but you'll figure out what you can do without hurting her.

 

[calpoon]

My ex was 24 the first time she had sex. :love-smi:

was she a bible thumper or just ugly?

 

[gunslingingbird]

was she a bible thumper or just ugly?

Neither. I mean, she was loosely raised as a Catholic, but she's one of those Catholics that go to church twice a year on Christmas and Easter, if that. She said that she just hadn't met the right guy.

 

[BDwestcoast]

This is bogus. Unless you're just a violent SOB you're not going to hurt her, cause her vag harm. Not with 6 inches, not with 10. The vag can handle it...

I believe you're right. I remember some lady from planned parenthood telling me something like this

 

[Rey C.]

Neither. I mean, she was loosely raised as a Catholic, but she's one of those Catholics that go to church twice a year on Christmas and Easter, if that. She said that she just hadn't met the right guy.

Same here. My ex-fiance was 23 and I was her first. Other than petting, she said she'd never come close to having sex. She was also a Catholic and from a pretty strict South American/Italian family.

Especially here in the U.S., it seems hard for some people to understand that girls from other cultures aren't necessarily giving it up when they're 13 or 14.

 

[jwjr2050]

Thanks for the suggestions guys. And yes, there are girls from other cultures that dont go around getting f-cked by everyone in town. Figured posting in a porn message board would have gotten more honest replies.

 

[anomaly]

beat it up! :thumbsup:

Worth a million rep points!!!!:yinyang:

 

[Rey C.]

Thea Marie has an opinion on this one. If you don't want to watch it all, skip to about 3:20 in.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFdckpbMW-Q