Tonight's gonna be awesome!

maildude

Postal Paranoiac
Be a sport, man! When the guy's through with your woman, go ahead and give him your checkbook! :helpme:
 
thanks for the pix haha! U need some cumshot pics! I'd like to hear her get on here and tell about her expereince for herself, that would be awesome.
 

PlasmaTwa2

The Second-Hottest Man in my Mother's Basement
This time, it was your idea. Next time, it will be her's. And by the time you come home to find her with a black guy, you won't even have a say anymore.
 

jasonk282

Banned
great way to go, now your not going to be able to trust her at all.
 

Elwood70

Torn & Frayed.
This was definitely a turning point.This time next year (maybe longer),you'll look back on this and be able to pin-point it as the moment that everything changed.Nothing will be the same ever again.

Whether it's for better or worse remains to be seen.The seed has been planted-so to speak.

Don't say you weren't warned.
 
Good for you guys. Contrary to the opinions of all the judgmental negative nancies here, this isn't some big, evil deal-breaking act. Thousands of us in the lifestyle do this all the time and have long, secure and happy relationships. And we're successful because we practice good communication and don't have possessive jealousy issues. It sounds like you two did it right; you talked about it, explored your feelings beforehand, came to an understanding of boundaries and expectations. Good job. Even if you never do this again, continue to practice the lessons in communication you surely learned going into this; they'll only make you both stronger.

Cheers to being open and adventurous. I still remember the first time I watched my wife take another dick. I get hard just thinking about it. Good fun, good sex, good times. :thumbsup:
 
Good for you guys. Contrary to the opinions of all the judgmental negative nancies here, this isn't some big, evil deal-breaking act. Thousands of us in the lifestyle do this all the time and have long, secure and happy relationships. And we're successful because we practice good communication and don't have possessive jealousy issues. It sounds like you two did it right; you talked about it, explored your feelings beforehand, came to an understanding of boundaries and expectations. Good job. Even if you never do this again, continue to practice the lessons in communication you surely learned going into this; they'll only make you both stronger.

Cheers to being open and adventurous. I still remember the first time I watched my wife take another dick. I get hard just thinking about it. Good fun, good sex, good times. :thumbsup:

I think we'll definitely be doing this again. Last night we talked about taking the guy up on his offer and having one more night of fun before he leaves on Tuesday. I'm cool with whatever decision she makes, but between you and I, I'm kind of hoping we end up giving it another go. Like you, I get rock hard just thinking about it.

In the future, it won't be so easy. It's not like she could just walk up to some random good looking guy and say, "Hey,would ya like to take a blood test and then fuck me in front of my boyfriend?" Well technically, she actually could do that, but that's not what we're looking for.

And you're right, communication definitely is they key. By the time we actually decided to do this, we both talked about exactly what we want and hope to get from this experience...and it matched up exactly and worked out perfectly.

Thanks for the kind words, man. If you have any fun experiences you'd like to mention, I'd love to hear about 'em. Happy holidays to you and your wife.
 
thanks for the pix haha! U need some cumshot pics! I'd like to hear her get on here and tell about her expereince for herself, that would be awesome.

I'll see if she wants to register and log on later. She's on vacation until new years, so she's got plenty of time on her hands.
 
This is one of those mixed things I feel about. Given this is not me or my lady, who am I to say anything about it?

I just really hope this doesn't come back to bite you two in the butt one way or another. Consensual or agreement, what might seem like a good idea at the time, can turn around after the fact.

I just hope you two, however serious you two are, have a happy, healthy relationship and keep each other happy. :hatsoff:

This time, it was your idea. Next time, it will be her's. And by the time you come home to find her with a black guy, you won't even have a say anymore.

Like Shane Diesel! :tongue:
 
This is one of those mixed things I feel about. Given this is not me or my lady, who am I to say anything about it?

I just really hope this doesn't come back to bite you two in the butt one way or another. Consensual or agreement, what might seem like a good idea at the time, can turn around after the fact.

I just hope you two, however serious you two are, have a happy, healthy relationship and keep each other happy. :hatsoff:

Well, I started the thread knowing some people would think this is insane, so anybody should feel comfortable commenting whatever way they like. But seriously, thanks for the best wishes.

We're actually very serious. We always said we weren't really into the idea of marriage, but we're both starting to see that we're warming up to the idea. And like I said, we really are a couple of nerds, so if/when I pop the question, maybe I can get away with giving her a Green Lantern ring instead of a diamond :D

Time will tell if we, or really, I, fucked up and went somewhere I never should have. But if that's not the case, this will turn out to be one of those extra little bonuses in our relationship that can bring us some extra occasional fun and excitement.
 
I'll see if she wants to register and log on later. She's on vacation until new years, so she's got plenty of time on her hands.


ummm wow this is weird. I can't believe you put up so many pix! :o:o:eek: I thought you were just going to post a couple...yeesh is my face red!:uohs:

so hey0103 what did you want to know?
 
anything and everything that you want to tell about your experience lol. I thinks its hot as hell that you went through with it!
How old are you by the way?
 
anything and everything that you want to tell about your experience lol. I thinks its hot as hell that you went through with it!
How old are you by the way?


I’m 28. I know, I’m an old hag ;)

Are you and your gf thinking of trying it? If you are, I hope you spend a lot of time thinking about it. We agreed that we would try it a while ago but I really never thought we actually would. But I got the ball rolling when the opportunity popped up. An early Christmas present for the both of us :o:o

Ummm, it was just exciting and fun. We were nervous!!! That’s maybe what made it so fun. We were like little kids doing something that everybody warned us not to do. :D But it turned out to be a really fun experience and Dan and I had a blast.

The man we asked to join us on Friday night was kind of like a big sex toy and nothing more. I know that sounds bad, but that’s how it was. After he and I did the…ummm…deed, he acted like he wanted to stay around and hang out with us in the hotel room. So I kind of feel a little bad that we wanted him to leave but I made it clear what we wanted when I first asked him if he was interested.

That was the only thing that felt weird afterwards. I never had a one night stand when I was single. I never had sex just to have sex. So asking a guy to leave after we screwed was awkward. I don’t know how you men do it!!! :tongue: Dan and I talked about trying it again last night, but I think it would have been too weird.

BTW, thanks for the kind words, but you were either being polite or you need some glasses!! :p

Does your gf post here? I bet she’s a cutie.
 
Kudos to you two for trying something new and communicating so well with each other about it! Very cool. Hopefully the opportunity to partake arises again some day, but even if it doesn't, cherish the horny memory of this. It'll make for good times, trust me! :)
 
Kudos to you two for trying something new and communicating so well with each other about it! Very cool. Hopefully the opportunity to partake arises again some day, but even if it doesn't, cherish the horny memory of this. It'll make for good times, trust me! :)

Thanks! I think this might be one of those thing you have to experience to understand. I think I actually feel closer to Dan than I did before and that's saying somethin' because we're already closer than I ever thought two humans can be. I'm sure you and your lady know what I mean since you two've "experimented" a bit.

Anyway, I don't want to embarrass him any further, so no more sappy stuff! :tongue:
 
I think this might be one of those thing you have to experience to understand.

Exactly. It's such a foreign concept in today's society that people who haven't dabbled simply can't begin to understand. I'm not surprised that you two feel closer; same happened for us. Most folks who have issues afterward were also lacking in proper communication beforehand. You guys did it right.

Now I'm getting all worked up. Time to slut up the wife and go find her some dick! :pimpdaddy :D
 
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