I actually regret not having waited until after marriage. I was in such a rush to find out what all the hype was about that I didn't think of waiting for the right woman. 
To all the virgins out there...
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well the whole concept of virginity is kind of weird when you think about it. We commonly consider it to be the act of intercourse that qualifies as deflowering... But why not sexual release? You can have sexual release and still be a virgin, you can have it ten times a day, and theoretically you can have intercourse without orgasm, and it would still be sex.
And other non-intercourse sex acts, with or without release, are not typically considered part of the criteria for losing virginity. So that means for a lifetime homosexual, they could have a lifetime of sex and still be a virgin.
I think that original definition of virginity meant to abstain from any sexual act, including masturbation and non-intercourse- and that makes a lot more sense. But it's kind of funny that we don't stick to that, because almost no one but the most devout ascetics follow it, but yet we still want to be considered "pure" (or maybe just inexperienced as is more common these days).
And other non-intercourse sex acts, with or without release, are not typically considered part of the criteria for losing virginity. So that means for a lifetime homosexual, they could have a lifetime of sex and still be a virgin.
I think that original definition of virginity meant to abstain from any sexual act, including masturbation and non-intercourse- and that makes a lot more sense. But it's kind of funny that we don't stick to that, because almost no one but the most devout ascetics follow it, but yet we still want to be considered "pure" (or maybe just inexperienced as is more common these days).
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I was a virgin until I was 18 years old. I was one of those people who waited around for the right girl. Unfortunately, that didn't work out so well, but, at least I didn't just hop into bed with the first girl who was willing to get naked with me.
I think most people who are still virgins are just waiting for the right person as well. Today's society is killing the idea of "waiting" and pushing the trend of selfishness by promoting meaningless sex, so it's very rare to actually meet a virgin. Sad, but true.
Well Im 20, and im a virgin. Its not realy a priority to me, getting a job so I dont get kickout in like 5 days is a little more important, and then getting an education so I can have the career I want. As far as getting laid it will happen that im sure of. I would prefer that she be someone that im interested in more then just phsicly and that were both sober but ohnestly as long as she doesnt have these qualitys im cool: a hooker, has a std, is repulsive to me, is in a relationship. I would like to see her again but just a prefrence. Im gonna go througth my computer out the window now!:crash:
Why am I still a virgin? Failure, that's why. 26 years old and no ass? Pathetic. Some days I feel like I'm going t burst with all of this pent up sexual frustration within me. I have ZERO standards and I still can't get some butt.
I don't want to have sex with anybody that I don't love. I only want it to be with one woman, the one I want to be with the rest of my life. It's as much a spiritual reason as it is a religious one. It's too important for me to give it to somebody that I'm not committed to the rest of my life. Pleasure and gratification are things that in the overall view of life aren‘t that important as some other stuff to me.
Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
I didnt loose my virginity until after high school. I attribute that to having no game and also being known as the white black guy.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Hey, you could always become President?
I think my sexuality is a very private and special thing to me, and I will share it only that person who will emotionally, morally, physically and materially commit to me and one comes across all these things in one person only through marriage which actually makes sexual intercourse a sacred act.
LMAO. there's not enough rep in this world for you Chef.
Virginity is like a beautiful rose that must be nurtured and loved....
uuuhh... what was I saying? I got distracted by a really nice ass that needs to be deflowered!
Oh yeah, Virginity is like a beautiful rose that must be nurtured and loved....
Uhhh... sorry... I got distracted again! There was these really nice boobies that were just beautiful and bouncy and........
Sorry... I was distracted again by this womans lips... they were perfect! like they were made to be just for oral!!!
Oh yeah.... Virginity is like a beautiful rose that must be nurtured and loved....
Oh crap.... Hey! If your a virgin by choice stick to your freakin guns! If not... learn your game and become the Jedi-Pimp Master of your sexual destiny!!!
Now.... can we move on!!!!
uuuhh... what was I saying? I got distracted by a really nice ass that needs to be deflowered!
Oh yeah, Virginity is like a beautiful rose that must be nurtured and loved....
Uhhh... sorry... I got distracted again! There was these really nice boobies that were just beautiful and bouncy and........
Sorry... I was distracted again by this womans lips... they were perfect! like they were made to be just for oral!!!
Oh yeah.... Virginity is like a beautiful rose that must be nurtured and loved....
Oh crap.... Hey! If your a virgin by choice stick to your freakin guns! If not... learn your game and become the Jedi-Pimp Master of your sexual destiny!!!
Now.... can we move on!!!!
It's actually the reason I asked.
Why are you asking a question you already know the answer to?
...though 31% is pretty high.
Come to South Florida! There are so many girls here who just want to fuck and even if you have no game, it doesn't matter because most of their English isnt well anyways. Also, Miami beach and Fort Lauderdale has a lot of tourist who just want a one night fling anyways. Before I came here I've only been with 3 girls, now times that by 6. I'm now in a serious relationship, so I can really care less. :dunno:
this one
METAL HEAD
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um jeezy i wonder why ?
thats not really an issue unless you really look like a geek. like one of those skinny glasses guys in geeky t-shirts you see at geeky conventions (gaming, sci-fi)
update your image, wear better clothes. you dont need a whole new wardrobe, just a few things.
