I'm right there with you guys. Haven't sucked one since I was a teenager, and can't stop thinking about it. I'm now in my 30's and married (my wife knows). I figure I could do craigslist but I would feel terrible giving my wife an std I caught from doing that. She is open to a MMF, but again there really isn't any way to know a person is clean and we are both terrified of getting something.
I also haven't had anyone I know hint about being interested at all. It's kind of a known fact in my group that I get pretty 'open' when I'm *****, so I think someone would have hinted if they were interested. I even went so far as to ask the person that I tried it with as a teen, and he made it very clear he wasn't interested. No offense taken, he's married with **** and stuff now. People change!
But damn, every guy likes getting his dick sucked, why is it so hard to set that up?