I'm right there with you guys. Haven't sucked one since I was a teenager, and can't stop thinking about it. I'm now in my 30's and married (my wife knows). I figure I could do craigslist but I would feel terrible giving my wife an std I caught from doing that. She is open to a MMF, but again there really isn't any way to know a person is clean and we are both terrified of getting something.
I also haven't had anyone I know hint about being interested at all. It's kind of a known fact in my group that I get pretty 'open' when I'm drunk, so I think someone would have hinted if they were interested. I even went so far as to ask the person that I tried it with as a teen, and he made it very clear he wasn't interested. No offense taken, he's married with kids and stuff now. People change!
But damn, every guy likes getting his dick sucked, why is it so hard to set that up?