The terrible experience of wishing a Happy Birthday to Brooke Jameson

[ramonfreeones]

The terrible experience of wishing a Happy Birthday to Brooke Jameson AKA Carmen Jay

More than anything else this is a warning.

I have this stupid emotion of wanting to wish happy birthday to people like favorite actresses and musicians as well as favorite models with a card that I make. It is not always possible for me because at least it takes me 30 minutes to do it.

Sometimes the person in question sees them and likes or even thanks them and many others don't even see them or ignore them. Ok, I'm used to it.

With Brooke or Carmen [whatever she wants to be called] I had already wished happy birthday her and she had thanked me, so I thought it would be a good idea to repeat this year.



I made her a card for her but since now that I use more instagram than last year, I also upload that in my stories using the tag of the person I'm wishing happy birthday, I also did it this time.

I wasn't following her on instagram so I investigated her instagram. She has it posted on her Twitter where she announces her escort dates and from her twitter account she invites you to follow her on instagram without any kind of warning.

And I want to make it very clear that when I saw that she used the name Carmen on instagram I had already made the card, which took me 40 minutes.



Well, today, finishing her card [and another model's card], I decided to first upload them to my Instagram stories and then on Twitter.

I had already uploaded on both platforms when I see a private message from her on Instagram that even had a voice message.



https://voca.ro/15khtCGn2Ifv


She told me that "how dare I relate both names, that I was disrespectful and that I should remove it." ["kindly" ]


As soon as I read and heard that, I was obviously very confused.

I removed the card from my Instagram stories and also on Twitter before she saw it there.

She made me feel like someone who had sent her a picture of a phallus instead of a Happy Birthday wish card that cost me time and work and more. So unfair. Better she would have ignored me like most people.

During these decades as a designer I had received many types of comments but nothing as confusing as this, or at least I don't remember something like that and my head began to want to think about all this.

Does she have a double standard or is she bipolar or both, perhaps?

Does she pretend to be someone on Twitter and someone else on Instagram? And if so, why doesn't she warns you?

Because Carmen [or Brooke], if you are reading this, you were the one who put together those names and you were the one who linked those ways of calling you and those accounts. Not me.





And in case for some crazy reason you didn't want me to put that on my Instagram stories [which usually less than 10 people see regularly], you definitely could have just said "Can you please just put that on Twitter only, not here".

How are we supposed to guess how we can call you?

How are we supposed to guess who they are or what personality they represent on each social platform?

Perhaps many might think that I exaggerate, but the truth is that this is not good at all. And if that were the case, I would swallow this like so many other criticisms and things, but no, I can't. And if I can warn other people, even better.

It is very true that there are trolls who attack and harass models and adult performers but also models and adult performers come to troll polite fans for no reason like in this case with me.

Well Carmen, don't worry, the solution here is easy. I no longer wish you anything and no longer support you on your social media to avoid problems with you of any kind and I suggest everyone to do the same. The end.

 

[ramonfreeones]

I must make a clarification. Where she mentions her instagram from Twitter, in that video she does say that they should not mention her name "Brooke Jameson". Until now I'm realizing that

A set of things:

- I was working more than two hours in a row just upload those cards.

- I had to search for her instagram.




Still, it's not like she would have told me all that. I keep what I said before.

We all make mistakes and if it was very important to her, she should have written it and even so she has combined both names in her porn career. So I continue without understanding her attitude towards me. 🤨

 

[John_8581]

@ramonfreeones -- Who knows? Maybe she doesn't want to be known at two places with different names. It sounds like what you did was link her porn name and "escort services" at Twitter to another place (Instagram) that may get her in trouble at Instagram. Facebook/Meta have deleted Instagram accounts for less. That's why she's calling it disrespectful.

I know a cam girl who uses three names and is also on five platforms. She is under one name at MyFreeCams, at OnlyFans, Clips4Sale and at Manyvids. She has another name which is different and what she calls herself at I-Want-Clips that is different from that of MyFreeCams, OnlyFans and Manyvids. Lastly, she has a new name. She now calls herself that (she consolidated it) under Manyvids and I-Want-Clips. She uses both the new name and the old name at Clips4Sale under different studio numbers.

Sound confusing? And tough to track? You betcha.

 

[ramonfreeones]

@ramonfreeones -- Who knows? Maybe she doesn't want to be known at two places with different names. It sounds like what you did was link her name at Twitter to "escort services" at one place (instagram) that may get her in trouble at instagram.

I know a cam girl who uses three names and is also on five platforms. She is under one name at MyFreeCams, at OnlyFans, Clips4Sale and at Manyvids. She has another name which is different and what she calls herself at I-Want-Clips that is different from that of MyFreeCams, OnlyFans and Manyvids. Lastly, she has a new name. She now calls herself that (she consolidated it) under Manyvids and I-Want-Clips. She uses both the new name and the old name at Clips4Sale under different studios.

Sound confusing? And tough to track? You betcha.

Mi card only said "Brooke" without Jameson, she appears with two different names donging porn scenes, on her Instagram has pictures from pictures galleries of porn scenes and she tags a photographer of the adult business and vice versa. Why was a photographer from the adult business is able to tag her and I can't? Because I use the name "Brooke"? And if I had used the name of "Carmen" how she appears in Brazzers? Now, imagine all these questions just to wish her a happy birthday after designing for two hours or so and without knowing anything about her rules.

If she has her Instagram only for her bodybuilding, she should not link it, she should have it as private with another name that she does not use in porn and only accepting colleagues and friends. What she asks for, to not relate her to adult entertainment or escorting on her Instagram, it is somewhat impossible in this case. No one goes to her Instagram to see her exercise and even other models and escorts follow her. Everyone on Instagram knows who she is. My card on my stories was not going to change anything.

Now, she acted as if I had insulted her and it was not like that. There were many good ways that she could react. I sent that card to her with the best of my wishes. There is no reason even to think otherwise [something negative]. I only posted the card in my instagram stories that will disappear in 24 hours, it was going to be deleted in there anyway. And if she had seen it first on Twitter, she would have even thanked me like last year. But instead she decided to treat me like I was a jerk because I told her with a name that she uses on Twitter. If it bothers her so much, she should use the name Carmen on everything.

In overall, like someone else told me elsewhere about this situation: "Adult celebrities are the worst regarding social media since some of them lack a professional PR director who can properly support them when it comes to social interaction." These kind of experiences just make me want to use social media less, and when using them "interact" less. The line to be treated negatively doing good things is very thin even in the world of adult entertainment. And this at the same time, it also affects the content that I see because I already dislike her for this reason and she was one of my favorite adult performers. And I really doubt that she feels happy doing porn or being an escort. I'm an organizational psychologist and I detect a strong emotional conflict in her, because all this problem is about that, her opposing emotions. Too bad I had to pay the price this time.

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

Does she have a double standard or is she bipolar or both, perhaps?

I'm an organizational psychologist

*chef's kiss*

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

I approved this thread, and I only slightly regret it.

 

[ramonfreeones]

*chef's kiss*

What happens is that organizational psychologists, unlike clinical psychologists, is that we detect disorders in people and everything related to the work environment, but we do not treat people or anything, I don't have a license to do that. In fact, we organizational psychologists depend on clinical psychologists.

That's why immediately what I started to think is if she had a mental disorder 😅 LOL

My message with my card and the response I received had no relation or meaning. I was actually a bit shocked, to be honest.

I approved this thread, and I only slightly regret it.

That comment is more than enough for me 😁 👍

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

What happens is that organizational psychologists, unlike clinical psychologists, is that we detect disorders in people and everything related to the work environment, but we do not treat people or anything, I don't have a license to do that.

 

[ramonfreeones]

I do not have a license to do so, obviously referring to giving therapy to people who are not my goal or work. In everything else I am an authority,

I have sent an immense number of people to take therapy and courses so that they can continue exercising their job Where I not only require clinical psychologists to let me know the assistance of the people in question, but also that they can demonstrate what they learned and make a presentation at the end of their process in order to continue working. Companies hire me for that and for many other related things.

 

[Steve-FreeOnes]

I do not have a license to do so, obviously referring to giving therapy to people who are not my goal or work. In everything else I am an authority,

I have sent an immense number of people to take therapy and courses so that they can continue exercising their job Where I not only require clinical psychologists to let me know the assistance of the people in question, but also that they can demonstrate what they learned and make a presentation at the end of their process in order to continue working. Companies hire me for that and for many other related things.

I'm sure this is all true but I'm not sure I would trust the psychology of somebody throwing a wobbler online because a porn star didn't like his birthday card and almost immediately resorting to the age old 'is she bipolar I wonder!' borderline slur in his rant.

I hope you have better luck with Brooke / Carmen's Christmas card.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

 

[ramonfreeones]

I'm sure this is all true but I'm not sure I would trust the psychology of somebody throwing a wobbler online because a porn star didn't like his birthday card and almost immediately resorting to the age old 'is she bipolar I wonder!' borderline slur in his rant.

I hope you have better luck with Brooke / Carmen's Christmas card.

No my friend, the Christmas card is your turn to give it to her. It looks like you two could understand each other very well. 😁

And about the bipolar disorder thought, I thought it very seriously and not as a "slur" because I don't play with that. Mental disorders are serious. It was a very serious question that I asked myself in the heat of the moment that I very honestly mentioned in this anecdote and for the people who usually interact with her as I said from the beginning, a warning. I'm even doing her a favor so they don't call her "Brooke" anymore, she doesn't like to be called like that. I wish someone had warned me because I'm always very careful about how to call people. But in this situation there was no way to do it, I just wanted to wish her happy birthday, but it all apparently turned out to be a big insult.

In everything I have written here I have not spit venom on anyone, I have not insulted or told lies. That's why I put all the evidence and everything as it is.

We consumers and followers don't have much voice when something bad happens to us, that's also why I did it. I hope this doesn't happen to anyone else.
I know stuff like this is controversial and a lot of people don't like it, it's something unpopular. You get to receive more negative comments and sarcasm than objective comments or reflective thoughts and for the same reason I thank FreeOnes_Adam for allowing me to express myself here.
I haven't written anything like this before either and I won't do it again, from this I learned things too.


But to finish and for all of us to chill ❄️ I will attach a phrase that Carmen herself posted on her Instagram:
[🤐 She should have remembered this before answering me, by the way 🤐]

 

[Torre82]

August is here.
How r you going to get yelled at, this year?

 

[ramonfreeones]

The funny thing about this is that she was the last model I had issues with, even Ashten [RIP] and a few others have put my greeting cards in their OF 🥳

And surprisingly a whole year has passed since this, I practically didn't even remember if you don't revive this topic 🤯

I had simply been interacting with the wrong person, in this case, It was not my fault. Fin. 😇