Oh wow, I think this discussion here is pretty damn hilarious.
Carli, if you give a personal video of yourself fucking or blowing a guy to anybody you don't even know and you're a semi celebrity and/or fairly hot, expect that video to be all over the internet in 10 seconds flat. Think Paris Hilton.
Of course you can go, oh but it was just a titty fucking video and it was just for this one of my fans. It doesn't matter. Even if you sold it at your personal webpage, it would still be available for free as well. This is the internet, and this is just the way it works.
The only way to earn money off it would be to become a professional pornstar, or learn to deal with it. If you don't want anyone to see a video of yourself doing hardcore, or "intercourse", don't give it away. And don't post it anywhere.
Also, if you are unable to make money off a professional porn video starring yourself, it's not the internet's fault.
But if you're not earning money off your porn, what could you do? Hmm, I just don't know. Maybe insulting your fans will work.
To anybody else and to make this thread a little worthwile: google "lemon stealing whore" if you want a good laugh. It's a video, I'm sure you know how to find it.