The American Dream is Now a Nightmare

Mariahxxx

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I am no scientist nor do I claim to be one. I am neither a Sociologist or an Economist or an expert on anything other than giving a blow job. However I am an American tax payer, a business owner, a home owner, an investor and a parent. That qualifies me to speak about the problems in our country that affect the people like me. I do not speak for anyone other than myself, but my point is one I think many people would identify with, if not agree with. We'll see.

The US has been around a few hundred years now. We are a collection of peoples from all over and a very diverse population concentrated in larger cities while the rural areas and suburbs are mostly white.

The American Dream has become something of urban legend. If you happen to be born in one of those concentrated areas of ethnic diversity then your chances at the American Dream are far less than the white kid of the same financial status in the suburbs. It is considered a long shot at the very least. This isn't reverse racism or propaganda, this is a simple fact. We are evolving slowly, but the problem is that as we take our sweet time to evolve that population continues to grow at rates much faster than any other demographic, which freaks the white folks out because by the year 2020 they will no longer be the majority in America. The chances are that the power will not change greatly due to the voting laws and the concentration of these people allowing the sections of the country to remain heavily white or white controlled.

The economy of the united states is in serious trouble for most Americans. More than 80% of Americans are a paycheck away from being shit outta luck. Nearly half of Americans receive some form of social service or government assistance. And of that 50% 42% of them are employed. So the working poor are becoming our fastest growing group and that only benefits one group: the wealthy. When you control the wealth you control the people. The wealthy demand tax cuts while people work two jobs and still can't pay their bills. The wealthy have the luxury of buying justice when they are in trouble while the poor get overworked legal aid and public defenders who strike deals for them to take the felony with probation or send them off to prison. And as we all know, once you have a felony, you can no longer vote, which in almost all cases benefits the upper class and protects their interests.

A brown-skinned person selling weed is 100 times more likely to do prison time than a white kids in the suburbs who is selling ecstasy which has federal mandates and is a class A felony under federal statutes. That isn't an opinion, it's a fact. And who do brown-skinned people overwhelmingly vote for? Democrats right? This takes an entire group of people out of the voting pool and keeps them poor with few job possibilities due to the criminal record. Prisons are now for profit corporations so rehabilitation is no longer a goal of prisons. People returning to prison is good business for them as prisoners are now customers. Unfortunately in 2003 I spent 3 weeks in LA County jail for possession of a narcotic. In those 3 weeks I was woken up at 4 am every weekday and put on a bus to go to court, even though I didn't have court. They filled the bus every day and while some inmates actually had court, everyone else sat in a holding cell for 10 hours and then were bused back to the jail. I asked a guard why I kept being taken to court when I didn't have court and she explained to me that they got $222 for every prisoner moved by bus from the state. So moving me every day made them $222.

I was in jail for possession to use, not to sell and could have easily ended up with a criminal record. But it was my first time around and I had a family friend who is a famous criminal defense attorney in LA who represented me for free as a favor to my grandfather. I was given probation and after 3 years my case was expunged. But I was lucky. I could have easily been another statistic.

To see people so dismissive of people who are born with the world stacked against them is heartbreaking and pisses me the fuck off. Not everyone who is a success was born with it in their genetics, I know that. Many people busted their ass to make their lives worthwhile and I applaud them. I happened to have been born with a certain amount of looks that got me paid. I had the misfortune of having a family member take the specialness of sex away from me when I was a kid and so sex on camera meant little to me. I went from making $6 an hour answering phones at an office and hostessing at a mexican restaurant in the mall to suddenly making $20,000 a month doing what I was already doing for free. I didn't realize the long term affects because I was an 18 year old high school drop out with a 1 year old child. I moved from downtown LA to a nice apartment in West Hills in the valley. I bought a car that didn't break down and my son had every thing he could ever want or need. I was on state welfare and headed down a hopeless road and then making more money than I could spend. But what if I had been ugly and didn't get that opportunity? Where would my life be today?

So when you dismiss people you dismiss possibility. It's like throwing all your mail in the trash before you look at it. What if there is a check in there? What if you won the publisher's clearing house sweepstakes? You just threw away something / someone that might have become something special or important.

So this myth that the American Dream is out there for all of us is a big fat fucking lie. The reality is that there is a group of people who don't want the American Dream for very many people. That would impose on their agenda. That would slice the pie into too many pieces.

I know this will not sit well with some of you but the republican party is part of that group that doesn't want the pie sliced too much. They are already losing their base, but they will never lose the wealthy as long as the wealthy controls all of the money. To do that the war on drugs needs to continue so we can keep giving the poor and minorities felonies so they can't vote and can't succeed. They need the corporations to keep their freedom and limit or eliminate regulations to continue to impose their power on the people who work for them.

My step father has worked for AT&T since 1973. A company that was busted up for anti-trust violations in the mid 1980s and reformed again in 2005. He is turning 63 in December. AT&T decided in 2011 that they couldn't pay pensions any longer and they literally took more than half of his pension. Along with the market crash his 401k went from $280,000 to $119,000. The value of his house went from $640,000 to $230,000. He owes $390,000 on it. AT&T took his pension but still pay $50 million to have the stadium the Giants play in named after them. They contribute money to political campaigns and lobby against propositions like gay marriage.

He had half of his pension just taken away so they could pay for:
Contributions to candidates: $3,522,688
Contributions to Leadership PACs: $755,000
Contributions to parties: $600,477
Contributions to 527 committees: $2,156,675
Contributions to outside spending groups: $8,820

Republican Governors Assn $607,500
Democratic Governors Assn $553,375
Republican State Leadership Cmte $332,298
Democratic Legislative Campaign Cmte $275,000
Romney, Mitt $246,224
Obama, Barack $221,713
Republican National Cmte $165,746
Boehner, John $163,250
Democratic Attorneys General Assn $155,000
National Republican Senatorial Cmte $123,050

So you can look at their contributions and see that they hedge their bets, but they lean towards on side more than the other. They can throw this money around yet the people that work for them lose their pensions? There are no longer early retirement buy outs for employees, even the ones like my step father who have worked for them for 40 years. He will actually be penalized for retiring early even though he's had both knees replaced and has to have back surgery. He climbed poles and crawled around in underground tunnels for them his entire career.

This is the America we live in now. Big business today is NOT big business of yesteryear. Companies like AIG who get tax payer money to help them survive get to pay their CEO $50 million dollars yet layoff 2500 people.

So you can dismiss the poor people and you can blame rappers for ghetto drive by shootings and you can say that the republicans want to help everyone. But you are only fast tracking this country to 3rd world status faster. Sure we have running water. For now. We have A/C and electricity. For now. Mitt Romney said "I'm not concerned about the poor. There are programs setup to take care of them" what if there weren't? If you are very rich, you will be fine. You'll build a wall around your house and hire body guards. You'll live like a cartel king pin but you'll be living that way here in the US. If you think the political system is fixed now, wait another 10 years.
 
that's the American Dream the rich keep asking the workers to pay for them. The company I work for if I purchase insurance through the company some of my premiums go to pay their premiums they don't pay the workers do
 
there are always loopholes for the rich, they will find a way around that
 
This has nothing to do with the American dream. It's the world in general. I wouldn't worry about it, just get on with life.
 

Mariahxxx

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well I happen to live in America and ignoring it should be a crime. Didn't Edmund Burke say "All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing" well I don't believe in the same evil that many of you do, but I believe in the concept of good an bad, but they are the results of people's actions, not some fictitious demon. I will not "Go quietly into that good night" when fellow human beings are being ignored and dying and starving due to greed. I won't do it.
 
I don't believe anyone likes it, however 99.999% of the time there is sweet FA we can do about it. We all do our bit for charities and good causes but in the grand scheme of things it's nothing.
 
Sweet F.A. is a great song. Sorry about your dream.
 

Mariahxxx

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I believe FA= Fuck All

not my dream. its your dream too. your daughter's dream. she will do ok hopefully but what about her kids? where will this country be in 50 years is a frightening question. I've been to Venezuela and to Cuba and to Costa Rica. All beautiful places with desperately poor people who starve to death. We're not far behind.
 
I believe FA= Fuck All

not my dream. its your dream too. your daughter's dream. she will do ok hopefully but what about her kids? where will this country be in 50 years is a frightening question. I've been to Venezuela and to Cuba and to Costa Rica. All beautiful places with desperately poor people who starve to death. We're not far behind.

yes the bankers have got about 90 percent of the world by the balls now, I don't know how much the longer the last 10 percent can hold out for, but I hear ya Mariah this world has problems that IMO politicians aren't going to be able to fix
 
I believe FA= Fuck All

not my dream. its your dream too. your daughter's dream. she will do ok hopefully but what about her kids? where will this country be in 50 years is a frightening question. I've been to Venezuela and to Cuba and to Costa Rica. All beautiful places with desperately poor people who starve to death. We're not far behind.




My daughter if she will get over the excitement of her first year of college and stop going to parties where they get busted for underage drinking and dump that kid she is dating will be fine. She wants to go to medical school so she will have to start buckling down. Even if I had not been able to leave her an inheritance she is smart and would make it just fine. I am sure of that.
 

Mariahxxx

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well that's good to hear. but you have to know she's in the minority right? what if you couldnt afford college? or med school? I pay almost $4k a month for my son's high school. its ridiculous but its what we do. otherwise he'd be in a public school exposed to more than he is in pvt school, which is not a school of virgins I know, but its much better. He has 57 kids in his entire grade.
 
She is on a partial scholarship and believe me because it is at Duke I am extremely grateful for that. I worked my way through college mostly. So what you are saying is that public schools are good enough for other people's kids but you don't trust the state to educate your kid. Got it.
 

bobjustbob

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The white pickett fence. That's the American Dream, not something anyone is entitled to. We tried a few years ago to give them to everyone. Blame Bush or Clinton for the crash but the truth still holds. Not everyone deserves to get it.
 
If you have any money in a bank account, you're better off than a huge percentage of the world's population. That's a shitty, scary truth.

How is it shaking down in America? Not like it used to, you're absolutely right about that. We need to be building our own savings for retirement, unlike generations past who had retirement packages like we'll never see again. Personal responsibility is incredibly important not. Discipline yourself, put aside some every month for retirement. Don't count on anyone but yourself for your future.

Aside from that, it's still pretty realistic to own a home in the U.S.. What exactly are you calling the American dream? Own a home, have a car, have a family, and more? America has never had a corner on the market for those things, they only thought they did. As awareness of the rest of the world grows, the "American Dream" dies, as Americans realise it is more a "human dream" than something uniquely American.
 

Mariahxxx

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I want the best education for my son. a classroom with 45 kids in it isnt doing so. plus the basketball team is awesome and the coach was a college scout for 15 years. Every one of their games has no less then 10 colleges present. Big fish in a little pond is the best opportunity for him.

If you have an issue with me not wanting the best at any cost then say so. Don't be snide with a sarcastic comment like that.
 
Not sure if your comments are directed at me, but I certainly had no wish to be snide or sarcastic. If that is how I came across, my apologies.

My kids start in public education. There is a private school locally that starts in grade 7, and it is fantastic. However, I have been incredibly pleased with the public schools with which we've been involved. None of the classes have been larger than 18 in the public schools. The education they received was top notch, too. My kids are poised to accomplish anything, partially thanks to the public schools here.

That said, education, the American dream, and your kids accomplishing whatever is largely down to the parents. Education only works if the parents/parent are pushing it at home. You want your kids to have a great life? A successful job? A good education? Then work with them at home. Solidify the language and math skills, provide opportunities for them to enrich themselves. This is what makes successful adults.
 
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